How can we get rid of our sinfulness?

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The confessional is sacred, so no, I would not reveal anything told to me in it. You seem to be aching for an argument. I am sure you are clever enough to know the rules of the confessional, especially considering the fact you indicated you were raised in the Church.You know very well we are not allowed to reveal things told us in the confessional.


Yes Im blonde not dumb I KNOW your rules and regulations but others dont. Why would your god allow you to be privy to so much pain and you do nothing to stop it? I think its a sin to allow it to go on. I couldnt sleep at night knowing a woman was being battered or a child molested and I did Nothing to stop it.
 

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There is allot of ironing out to be done until this child (Humanity) grows up to the stature of the spiritual man.
An example of that is Jesus Christ.
Eph 4:13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:

Luk 2:52 And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man.

Humanity is "a body" of collective peoples, of all races and beliefs.

Every generation adds to the knowledge of God through the experiences of sufferings.

Corrective measures are improvements over what existed before.

One day, there will be no need for priests, clergy, rabbis, preachers and teachers, because the natural progression (growth of the body) as guided and prodded, by the Holy Spirit, will attain the same stature: that of Christ.

But in the mean time, each one of us individualy grow towards that end.

This has been allowed by God with great care and tenderness. A loving Father, full of mercy and compassion.

For those who argue, have need of testing. Otherwise, nothing will be learned.
And for those who have learned, must with the same compassion give it, as was recieved.

Luk 6:38 Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.

Most people use this verse as a prosperity verse, but it is not talking earthly prosperity, but spiritual prosperity.

These are the terms: Jam 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
Luk 11:9 And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.

I have, therefore I know.

Peace>>>AJ
 
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Your post moved me to tears. Your children are so lucky to have a Mum like you. Yes my sense of power only came to me at 38 then "watch out world" Ive arrived ;) I dont allow people to rob me anymore and Ive lost "friends" over it. Oh Well I can sleep at night at least

to be the absolute "best" mum you can be, there has to be a "best" dad, and they had both of us,
and we were a solid little group, who took care of each other, everyday.

be happy, and hang with people who make you feel good, and enrich your life, and you, their's.
 

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Yes Im blonde not dumb I KNOW your rules and regulations but others dont. Why would your god allow you to be privy to so much pain and you do nothing to stop it? I think its a sin to allow it to go on. I couldnt sleep at night knowing a woman was being battered or a child molested and I did Nothing to stop it.


Sometimes I can't, but I am as bound by the Sacrament as the one who confesses. Frankly, 99% of the time what you THINK we are privy to is not true. Most people do not confess these sorts of horrific scenarios you describe. Most people are simply concerned for the welfare of their relationship with Christ and are seeking solace. The confessional is a purging for many people, as it should be, a time for releasing and cleansing. The worst thing a person can do for himself is to harbour the pain inside without releasing it. This small pain grows if unattended, until it becomes unreasonable and controlling.The confessional is both therapy and reconciliation.
 

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to be the absolute "best" mum you can be, there has to be a "best" dad, and they had both of us,
and we were a solid little group, who took care of each other, everyday.

be happy, and hang with people who make you feel good, and enrich your life, and you, their's.


What simple but good advice for everyone to apply to their own lives! And how fortunate you are to have such a thriving relationship, or so it would seem, with your husband.
 

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Therefore, if a priest has those desires, and cannot contain himself, then follow God's advice by Paul, and get married.

Peace>>>AJ


A priest can never marry, but there are thousands of married priests:).

Many of the Rites of the Church will allow a man to enter Holy Orders if he is married, after the Orthodox tradition. But once ordained, the man must remain in that state. Thus, if he is married and his wife leaves him or passes on, he cannot re-marry. If he is single upon ordination, single he must remain.

Some of the Rites which permit for married priests are the Ukranian Catholics and the Marionites.

Also, a great many men from other denominations have been received into the Church and ordained as Catholic priests, complete with wives and familes, especially many former Anglican clergy.
 

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No sanc I dont like you or your church but you put yourself off as the ONLY way and so does your church.......Its not..

I don't have a way self, and the Church is of Christ, which is our way.


I channell too.....I channell my son, My sweet friends husband and my soulmates daughter but your church calls ME Possessed........

Of course you do. I rather expected you to believe in such tommyrot.

Who are you to do things Im not allowed to? What makes you better than me? Your preaching on a public forum...

I am the least of the least, believe you me. Nothing makes me better, or worse, than you. The Sacraments are of God, and it is His wisdom to allow them as He sees fit.Many occupations require their employees to adhere to rules and regulations that you or I are not allowed to copy, such as police departments for example, or medical professionals. Why be so irate that you cannot hear confessions? You are not allowed to do heart surgery either, and you do not seem to complain about that?! You are not allowed to do many things you are not trained or prepared to do.

In that, this does not make those who can do these things better than you or me. It simply means, in secular terms, that that is their jobs, not ours. In the same sense, there are certain things I am "allowed" to do because that is my "job".


ignore my arse but theres more where I come from. Im not the only one that sees through your church. And Im not that six year old any more I see you and your church for what you truely are.....hypocrites and your christ himself did not go for hypocrites.

As I indicated to you before, you should perhaps seek professional help to assist you with this unreasonable hatred. It will hurt you in the end, carrying such anger inside. No, you are not that six year old anymore, but also, I am not the priest that interacted with that six year old, so I refuse to accept blame for what happened to you.

As for your "arse", another requirement of my "job" is that I must very much ignore it:)
 
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thanks sanctus. im kinda interested in stuff about mary. fr some reason i feel really attracted to her.did the early church think of her as special or was that something that came out later on in history?


There are those who say the Catholics made up this Mary thing out of thin air in the last century or so - that she was no part of early Christianity. Paradoxically there is another crowd who dismiss Mary as the ancient pagan goddess Gaia (mother earth) long predating Christ. Some Evangelicals seem to reach far for an explanation for the Catholic relationship to Mary. Catholics think the best place to look is the Bible and the early Church.
It has only been in the last couple of hundred years that there has been any question about Mary's validity. A simple look at medieval paintings will verify that she was always a happening part of the Christian scene.
The book "The Blessed Virgin in the Fathers of the First Six Centuries" (by Thomas Livius, Published by Burns & Oates) contains a powerful witness to the devotion early Christians had toward Mary. In the year 130 Irenaeus wrote about her. He was familiar with those who had been close both to Peter and to Paul and who "had still the preaching of the blessed Apostles ringing in their ears" He said:
"As Eve was seduced by the speech of an angel, so as to flee God in transgressing his word, so also Mary received the good tidings by means of the angel's speech, so as to be God within her, being obedient to this word. And though the one had disobeyed God, yet the other was drawn to obey him; that of the virgin Eve, the virgin Mary might become the advocate and as by a virgin the human race had been bound to death, by a virgin it is saved, the balance being preserved- a virgin's disobedience by a virgin' obedience." (Against Heresies, 3, 19) (130 A.D.)
St. Justin in 110-165 A.D. writes:
For whereas Eve, yet a virgin and undefiled, through conceiving the word that came from the serpent, brought forth disobedience and death; the Virgin Mary, taking faith and joy, when the Angel told her the good tidings that the Spirit of the Lord should come upon her, and the power of the Most High overshadow her, and therefore the Holy One to be born of her should be the Son of God, answered, Be it don to me according to thy word. And so by means of her was he born, concerning whom we have shown so many Scriptures were spoken; through whom God overthrows the serpent, and those angels and men who have become like to it, and on the other hand, works deliverance from death for such as repent of their evil doings and believe in him (Dialogue with Trypho, 100 A.D.)
Eve was called the mother of the living...after the fall this title was given to her. True it is...the whole race of man upon earth was born from Eve; but in reality it is from Mary the Life was truly born to the world. So that by giving birth to the Living One, Mary became the mother of all living (St. Epiphanius, Against Eighty Heresies, 78,9)
One of the oldest catacombs contains a drawing of the Madonna and Child dating back to the second century, and the oldest known request to Mary, the "Sub Tuum Praesidium", dates back to at least 300 AD!
We fly to your patronage, O holy Theotokos2;
despise not our petition in our necessities,
but deliver us always from all dangers,
O ever-glorious and blessed Virgin.

2Means "Godbearer" or Mother of God. This title came into Christian use very early. It simply says that she gave birth to Jesus, who any Christian will agree is God.
There were also feasts in memory of the Assumption of Mary in Antioch dating back to 380 A.D.
We see the genesis of the doctrine of Immaculate Conception, Assumption, and the traditional role of Mary as Co-Redeemer and Mediatrix in the early Church. Here are references to Mary by other early church fathers:
Mary, you are the vessel and tabernacle containing all mysteries. You know what the Patriarchs never knew; you have experienced what was never revealed to the Angels; you have heard what the Prophets never heard. In a word, all that was hidden from preceding generations was made known to you; even more, most of these wonders depended on you. (270 A.D., St. Gregory Thaumaturgus),
Blessed Virgin, immaculate and pure you are the sinless Mother of your Son, the mighty Lord of the universe. You are holy and inviolate, the hope of the hopeless and sinful; we sing your praises. We praise you as full of every grace, for you bore the God-Man. We all venerate you; we invoke you and implore your aid...Holy and immaculate Virgin...be our intercessor and advocate at the hour of death and judgment...you are holy in the sight of God, to Whom be honor and glory, majesty, and power forever (373 AD, St. Ephem of Edessa)
It becomes you to be mindful of us, as you stand near Him Who granted you all graces, for you are the Mother of God and our Queen. Help us for the sake of the King, the Lord God Master Who was born of you. For this reason you are called 'full of Grace'..." (373 St. Athanasius)
Blessed Virgin Mary, who can worthily repay you with praise and thanksgiving for having rescued a fallen world by your generous consent? ...accept then such poor thanks as we have to offer, unequal though they be to your merits. Receive our gratitude and obtain by your prayers the pardon of our sins. Take our prayers into the sanctuary of heaven and enable them to bring about our peace with God...Holy Mary, help the miserable, strengthen the discouraged, comfort the sorrowful, pray for your people, plead for the clergy, intercede for all women consecrated to God. May all who venerate you, feel now your help and protection. ...Make it your continual care to pray for the people of God, for you were blessed by God and were made worthy to bear the Redeemer of the world, who lives and reigns for ever. (St Augustine in 430 A.D. )
One of the important thing to notice in all these quotes is the clear references to God/Jesus as the Saviour and Mary's role of interceding. Mary is a helper. There is no sin in asking someone for help. Most of us at one point or another have asked our pastor or friend to pray for us. That is what these early Church Fathers are doing.
The Catholic church is explicit that Mary's role is as helper.
 

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sanctus;765323r and Mary's role of interceding. Mary is a helper. There is no sin in asking someone for help. Most of us at one point or another have asked our pastor or friend to pray for us. That is what these early Church Fathers are doing. [/COLOR said:
The Catholic church is explicit that Mary's role is as helper.

hey thanks sanctuis for this information. i really like mary and feel kinda drawn to her for some reason. hey, would you let me pm you maybe?

and another question, sorry for all the questions, this whole thread is like a christian everything thread now, but anyway was mary a sinner cos my catholic friend says she is like jesues or something?i dont get it, can you explain that for me please..and did she have other children..???
 

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No sanc I dont like you or your church but you put yourself off as the ONLY way and so does your church.......Its not......I channell too.....I channell my son, My sweet friends husband and my soulmates daughter but your church calls ME Possessed.........Who are you to do things Im not allowed to? What makes you better than me? Your preaching on a public forum.....ignore my arse but theres more where I come from. Im not the only one that sees through your church. And Im not that six year old any more I see you and your church for what you truely are.....hypocrites and your christ himself did not go for hypocrites.

wowwww. you really got some issues selfactivited! arent you kinda blaming a whole thing for what one guy did to you? i mean, did the whole church do it or this one jerk? anyway. what is channeling anyway/ i read allot about it but it seems kinda out there to me.
 

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God understands us better than we understand or selves. And His advice by way of Paul said:1Co 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
1Co 7:7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
1Co 7:8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
1Co 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

"To burn", is in reference to a lustful desire, which causes us to sin.

Therefore, if a priest has those desires, and cannot contain himself, then follow God's advice by Paul, and get married.

Peace>>>AJ


dude, this reply to my question has nothing to do with what i asked. anyway, i thought priests couldnt get married so who cares what paul says about it if the rules are something else?
 

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A priest can never marry, but there are thousands of married priests:).

Many of the Rites of the Church will allow a man to enter Holy Orders if he is married, after the Orthodox tradition. But once ordained, the man must remain in that state. Thus, if he is married and his wife leaves him or passes on, he cannot re-marry. If he is single upon ordination, single he must remain.

Some of the Rites which permit for married priests are the Ukranian Catholics and the Marionites.

Also, a great many men from other denominations have been received into the Church and ordained as Catholic priests, complete with wives and familes, especially many former Anglican clergy.

hey cool. wait, i knew that.one of my friends dads is acatholic priest. forgot all about that. but i think she says she is byzintyne or something like that..what are rites anyway? are they roman catholic too?
 

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Not that cut and dried, no. A true confession is also one infused with remorse and a contrite heart determined NOT to repeat the same behaviour. Willingly repeating the same behaviour dsplays a lack of proper repentance.

so lets say i do this confession thing but i dont really mean it. how would the priest know i was lying?
 

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A priest can never marry, but there are thousands of married priests:).

Many of the Rites of the Church will allow a man to enter Holy Orders if he is married, after the Orthodox tradition. But once ordained, the man must remain in that state. Thus, if he is married and his wife leaves him or passes on, he cannot re-marry. If he is single upon ordination, single he must remain.

Some of the Rites which permit for married priests are the Ukranian Catholics and the Marionites.

Also, a great many men from other denominations have been received into the Church and ordained as Catholic priests, complete with wives and familes, especially many former Anglican clergy.

The inferences was not on the celibacy's, but on the lusting. The duties of a priest are honorable by Gods word, but if a priest cannot contain himself, then he should seek a wife.
The same goes for any individual.

Every priest is tempted (Tested), but not every priest can contain himself.

And maple dear, Paul was an Apostle to the Gentiles, in and by which we receive the message of Christ.

Peace>>>AJ
 

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so lets say i do this confession thing but i dont really mean it. how would the priest know i was lying

when you, or anyone lies, it is all about "you", not the person you are lying to, it doesn't matter if they
know you are lying or not, the burden is on your "conscience", for you to live with.
 

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hey cool. wait, i knew that.one of my friends dads is acatholic priest. forgot all about that. but i think she says she is byzintyne or something like that..what are rites anyway? are they roman catholic too?

Byzantine, you meant.
A Rite represents an ecclesiastical, or church, tradition about how the sacraments are to be celebrated. Each of the sacraments has at its core an essential nature which must be satisfied for the sacrament to be confected or realized. This essence - of matter, form and intention - derives from the divinely revealed nature of the particular sacrament. It cannot be changed by the Church. Scripture and Sacred Tradition, as interpreted by the Magisterium, tells us what is essential in each of the sacraments (2 Thes. 2:15).
When the apostles brought the Gospel to the major cultural centers of their day the essential elements of religious practice were inculturated into those cultures. This means that the essential elements were clothed in the symbols and trappings of the particular people, so that the rituals conveyed the desired spiritual meaning to that culture. In this way the Church becomes all things to all men that some might be saved (1 Cor. 9:22).
There are three major groupings of Rites based on this initial transmission of the faith, the Roman, the Antiochian (Syria) and the Alexandrian (Egypt). Later on the Byzantine derived as a major Rite from the Antiochian, under the influence of St. Basil and St. John Chrysostom. From these four derive the over 20 liturgical Rites present in the Church today. Each Rite follows not only its own liturgical tradition, but also differs in application of some Church rules, for example a married priesthood. Generally the Rites which derive along eastern sources, Byzantine for example, follow Orthodox traditions regarding a married priesthood.



Most people, indeed most Catholics, are unaware of these distinctions since the largest Rite of the Church, known as the Latin Rite is pretty much the public face of the RC community.
 

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dude, this reply to my question has nothing to do with what i asked. anyway, i thought priests couldnt get married so who cares what paul says about it if the rules are something else?


Well, the Church for one cares very much what St. Paul has to say, especially considering it is the letters of St. Paul that make up the bulk of the New Testament:)
 

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hey thanks sanctuis for this information. i really like mary and feel kinda drawn to her for some reason. hey, would you let me pm you maybe?

and another question, sorry for all the questions, this whole thread is like a christian everything thread now, but anyway was mary a sinner cos my catholic friend says she is like jesues or something?i dont get it, can you explain that for me please..and did she have other children..???


First question.The Sinlessness of Mary throughout her life was a universally held belief by Christians as far back as our records go. It was unchallenged by Catholics, Oriental Eastern Christians, Muslims, Orthodox, and Protestants until the Protestant revolution reached a point where the typical Protestant branch had to be against any beliefs held by Catholics. Only then did it become necessary for the Church to consider declaring it a formal dogma. There is no reason to require belief in something everyone believes!

The Church does not formally declare doctrine until it is challenged to the point that Catholics begin to endanger their faith by false beliefs. For example, to the best of my knowledge, the sinlessness of Jesus has never been formally declared. Nor is it likely to be unless and until there is a serious challenge. Nonetheless, it is a universally held doctrine of the Church, taught infallibly by the ordinary Magisterium.

As for "implications" it was necessary that the New Eve be as spotless as the Eve in the garden. It was necessary for her to be the perfect vessel to carry the sign of the New Covenant. It was necessary for the Mother of God to impart her humanity on her Son, the King of the Jews, and thus become the Queen of his Kingdom, which encompasses all of heaven and earth, and whatever else might be out there. For Jesus had to learn pure love, and Mary as his flesh and blood was his teacher as he "grew in wisdom and in strength" to be our Saviour. And it was through her selfless example that he was able to selflessly ascend the cross and give his life for us as she gave her life to him.