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Socrates the Greek

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China, come on back to Canada. Take some time off and bang everything in sight. You'll feel re-energized and ready to make those tough decisions.
Good suggestion bang- bang - sorry Sam, :lol::lol::lol: Smile China, this life is too short to allow sorrow rule your world,

Let go and if it was meant to be it will be, but stay busy to maintain your sanity.
 

Dexter Sinister

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BS.....man up and pull yourself up by the boot strapes instead of crying like a little baby.

Oh boo hoo, my mail order wife turned on me and I'm real surprised and hurt by this, boo hoo.:roll:
Well, that seems a little harsh to me. I conclude from it that your life has been relatively untroubled by emotional trauma and you really have no concept of what's happened to china or the people who understand and are offering him support. That's the most charitable interpretation I can put on it.
 
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Avro

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Well, that seems a little harsh to me. I conclude from it that your life has been relatively untroubled by emotional trauma and you really have no concept of what's happened to china or the people who understand and are offering him support. That's the most charitable interpretation I can put on it.

I wouldn't share such things on a web forum so you can assume away.
 

Socrates the Greek

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Hey Avro, we are all human, brothers and sisters, in spite of the hidden dislikes towards one another.
People who has faced sorrow and didn’t sick help, often found them self’s unable to carry on, and I don’t want to say the rest, u know were I am going with this.

We all live in a world were we laugh and cry, and my friend crying is a common out for many in pain physical or psychological no matter how strong the individual.

Now, if china had a mail order wife or not that is his problem, maybe he will come out of this realising that this method of finding a soul mate is a hard act to calibrate and yet it has worked for others.
I think I manned up by offering comforting words to a guy who in the past has made fun of me and today he is facing emotional difficulty.
 

Avro

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Hey Avro, we are all human, brothers and sisters, in spite of the hidden dislikes towards one another.
People who has faced sorrow and didn’t sick help, often found them self’s unable to carry on, and I don’t want to say the rest, u know were I am going with this.

We all live in a world were we laugh and cry, and my friend crying is a common out for many in pain physical or psychological no matter how strong the individual.

Now, if china had a mail order wife or not that is his problem, maybe he will come out of this realising that this method of finding a soul mate is a hard act to calibrate and yet it has worked for others.
I think I manned up by offering comforting words to a guy who in the past has made fun of me and today he is facing emotional difficulty.

 

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Hey Avro, we are all human, brothers and sisters, in spite of the hidden dislikes towards one another.
People who has faced sorrow and didn’t sick help, often found them self’s unable to carry on, and I don’t want to say the rest, u know were I am going with this.

We all live in a world were we laugh and cry, and my friend crying is a common out for many in pain physical or psychological no matter how strong the individual.

Now, if china had a mail order wife or not that is his problem, maybe he will come out of this realising that this method of finding a soul mate is a hard act to calibrate and yet it has worked for others.
I think I manned up by offering comforting words to a guy who in the past has made fun of me and today he is facing emotional difficulty.
From what I've seen with those with mail order wives, they never work out anyway, so it should be expected.
 

Dexter Sinister

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I wouldn't share such things on a web forum so you can assume away.
That was a conclusion, not an assumption, based on what you've posted in this thread. I suppose the opposite conclusion is equally defensible, that your life has been so troubled that it's made you harsh and nasty. In this thread you've displayed a complete lack of compassion and active cruelty toward a deeply troubled person seeking some support. I'm surprised; I'd have expected better from you than that from your posting history.
 

china

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Hi Dexter,Thanks for the support ;greatly appreciated .Yes I have used the forum as a means of having someone to use as" a waste disposal of my emotions".Selfish ?-perhaps.Any how I'm ok now ;what I mean is I know where I'm going .As far as people as Avro goes, that' s a laugh; In my young age in Poland we used punks like these as a practice punching bag.( and I know that gent knows what i'm saying).
 
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Curiosity

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Hi China

Sounds like you are healing - don't rush it - time will help but meanwhile take care of yourself and plan your next moves.

You are returning to Canada at the best time of the year too with spring and summer on the way.

It will rebuild your heart and your spirit - both are so kind and giving - and you will
be a strong China again.

Just let yourself feel sad when you need to - until it has also moved on and out of your life.

Curio
 

Avro

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That was a conclusion, not an assumption, based on what you've posted in this thread. I suppose the opposite conclusion is equally defensible, that your life has been so troubled that it's made you harsh and nasty. In this thread you've displayed a complete lack of compassion and active cruelty toward a deeply troubled person seeking some support. I'm surprised; I'd have expected better from you than that from your posting history.

Why?
 

china

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Hi China

Sounds like you are healing - don't rush it - time will help but meanwhile take care of yourself and plan your next moves.

You are returning to Canada at the best time of the year too with spring and summer on the way.

It will rebuild your heart and your spirit - both are so kind and giving - and you will
be a strong China again.

Just let yourself feel sad when you need to - until it has also moved on and out of your life.

Curio
How can I not love you Curio?