I would argue the converse, that you insisting on them causes you to lose credibility. Since your suggestion implies, amongst other things, that the son of a criminal not honoring his father and continuing the tradition would be immoral; you state unequivocally that to suggest otherwise is to risk one's credibility. There are only three commandments which even come close to making sense, the ones dealing with murder, theft, and perjury--and these are easy to counter as absolute even though I would say they are sound ethically.
Heck, two commandments even define thought crimes, if you weren't convinced enough about their ludicrous nature.
Perhaps you should reread what I wrote, part of which is "I'm personally NOT convinced that ALL ten are fully valid,", before you condemn me.