Self identity is crucial throughout your entire life and they're not doing the kid any favors.
The operative word of your own point.
Self identity is crucial throughout your entire life and they're not doing the kid any favors.
The operative word of your own point.
The operative word of your own point.
And how do you know what the truth is? LOL. It's a secret, just like this kid's gender.
What's wrong with telling a child "You're a boy."? You develop your self identity because of the influence of the people in your lives.
What's wrong with telling a child "You're a boy."? You develop your self identity because of the influence of the people in your lives.
Do you use your kids to mess with people?They're only messing with people who don't know the kid.
I really couldn't care less. Don't even know why I am posting in this thread. Probably cause Shadowshiver is cool beans and I feel like a suck up today. But not because I give a rats patoot about some hipster dorks screwing with their kids who won't remember this crap anyway.
Where does a six year old get a noxious substance like nail polish?
Do you use your kids to mess with people?
I don't use my kids for anything like that, just seems childish and cowardly to me. If an adult has an issue with an adults behavior, the right course of action, is for the adults to work it out. Not put a kid in the middle of it.If people messed with my kids the way it sounds like people messed with their older son, yeah, I just might prove a point.
Christmas and birthdays must be a crap shoot.From what I can see it does the kid no damage, but it might do a lot to make people stop and look critically at why they would NEED to know the gender of a child.
I don't use my kids for anything like that, just seems childish and cowardly to me. If an adult has an issue with an adults behavior, the right course of action, is for the adults to work it out. Not put a kid in the middle of it.
Christmas and birthdays must be a crap shoot.
I can appreciate an opinion on gender assignment, I actually kind of agree with the parents there. Likewise, I have an opinion about Kirpans in schools, I'm not about to use my kids to further it, and send them to school with there Grandfathers bone knife.
Not when they were six.That would put your kid at risk of legal action.
Projecting your personal adult opinions, vicariously through your child.How does it compare to this?
Do you want to discuss the "messing with people" part of your post, or the actions of the parents?How is it 'using' your kid if you think you're actually giving them something, a bit of freedom while you can?
Not really, unless you're getting him to whip it out at rallies.I suppose I likewise 'used' my son by choosing to make him part of my stance against circumcision.
Not when they were six.
Projecting your personal adult opinions, vicariously through your child.
Do you want to discuss the "messing with people" part of your post, or the actions of the parents?
Not really, unless you're getting him to whip it out at rallies.
How exactly is having the knowledge of what sex a child is, 'pigeon holing'?"messing with" was more a reference to people's reactions, than to the parents actions. their heads have been messed with because they don't get to pigeon hole someone fast enough.
How exactly is having the knowledge of what sex a child is, 'pigeon holing'?
I don't think these parents are doing anything wrong per say, but I do think they're being more silly then the people they're 'messing' with.
I think putting nail polish on a child of 6 years, is abuse. It's a noxious substance.well we're talking about people who are calling it abuse for THEM to not be told what the kid's gender is.
The longest debate I ever participated in was a debate on, could a man be a lesbian. I believe in sexual fluidity.I really can't see why they would get that worked up about it if it wasn't because they need to put the kid in a box in their brain somewhere.
I wonder if they'll be sending their kids to Sunday school.