Yup that's the one. JLM What I have noticed over the years is that while many events and happenings seem to be accidental, there are those surprises that were implied through different means. In other words, the event or happening was not a surprise!! Anyway, in my world very few really horrid happenings were unexpected. Whereas, many of the lovely ones were. Denial or disbelief on my part?? Who knows. I am rarely surprised by the disasters, and only mildly surprised by the good ones.
That is how I feel today at this moment in time. Tomorrow who knows??