No, you control the deployment of the army, the each soldier is still a free willed individual with equal as much say as you.
And you have every right to comment on the war, its morality, its costs and if its a good idea.
You have no right to talk about sacrifice (Either way) until you get your ash to a warzone. Hell, most people in the military still have no right to talk either.
Debate the pro's and con's, don't try to manipulate emotions with talk of "sacrifice" (to sway either way). That isn't your right. That right is reserved for the individuals who have had to make those sacrifices or at least risk it. You don't get to talk about it any more than you would have the right to talk about what its like to go through some other ordeal (would you shoot your mouth off about rape?)
This isn't directed at you specifically, just to everyone.
Um...well, i wouldn't shoot my mouth off, but I would discuss rape.
I dunno, I have taught english as a second language to new comers to Canada...most from war torn countries, including Somalia, Ethiopia, Eritria, Afghanistan and Iraq. I have spoke to people who come from these war zones and have been directly affected. It's scary, the stories. I used to work for a vietnamese family. They still hate Americans to the core for the vietnam war. I know a couple guys from Lebanon who fled. They have all come to Canada because their countries were torn apart by war. The stories they can tell are pretty crazy, horrendous...messed up.
War is NOT just about soldiers...in fact, to me, they are the least of my concern. It is the people, the average person, just like you are me that concerns me the most. Both sides are fighting for their ideaologies, while the people caught in the middle are just regular folks trying to survive and get out of the way while these other folks try to blow the living **** out of eachother.
Anyway, that is rather straying as well. I guess the point is, no, I am not in the warzone, but through the volunteer work I have done, the immigrants that I have worked for or with, I have seen the other side of war...what it does to these folks.
I think we ALL have the right to discuss any aspect of war...it is a subject that SHOULD be talked about, analyzed, criticised, scrutinized, etc. War is a horrible thing that should only be waged under the most necessary of situations. Any way we can stop, or prevent a war SHOULD be taken into account. And ALL Canadians should have a say in where the military goes, what role they should play, etc. Every Canadian has a right to their opinion on this matter...this matter that Affects every one of us in one way or another...from our tax dollars being used, to members of our communities coming home in wooden boxes, to people that we know from these countries who are facing the horror of war on their doorsteps, to how we all wish Canada to be seen in the world, to how involved we wish to get with the actions of other countries....ALL Canadians have a right to HAVE views and to express these views...soldiers or not. Putting on a uniform and going overseas does NOT automatically buy one a more important viewpoint.
That's my view on it...I believe this is too important of an issue NOT to openly discuss and share opinions about. I think everyone has a right, and even a responsibility to weigh in on a VERY important issue, no matter WHO they are, or what their opinion may be.