Then maybe that was my accent... if you can orgasm or ejaculate without an erection then all the power to you.
well, it's just that you said 'have all the sex you want and not have kids', but, it wouldn't be 'all the sex you want' if you can't get it up. It would be 'some of the sex you want' or 'alternatives to the sex you want' wouldn't it? Would you call it 'all' if you suddenly could no longer engage in any kind of penetration? I don't know any man who would.