B.C. judge rules father guilty of “family violence” for calling trans son “she”

Gilgamesh

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They think they are men but they are female. The physiology doesn't change.

As for dysphoria "body image" is a major issue for the majority of youth leading to depression, addiction, suicide, risky behaviour and so forth. Blocking physical maturity in hopes a kid mentally matures is playing God.

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"Body image" is the way that someone perceives their body and assumes that others perceive them. This image is often affected by family, friends, social pressure and the media.[1]
People who are unhappy with their bodies and don't seek healthy nutrition information may develop eating disorders. "Eating disorders" are unhealthy relationships with food that may include fasting, constant dieting, or binging and purging.[2]
Body image is closely linked to self-esteem. Low self-esteem in adolescents can lead to eating disorders, early sexual activity, substance use and suicidal thoughts. You can post encouraging notes in your school bathrooms to brighten your classmates’ day. Sign up for Mirror Messages.[3]
Approximately 91% of women are unhappy with their bodies and resort to dieting to achieve their ideal body shape. Unfortunately, only 5% of women naturally possess the body type often portrayed by Americans in the media.[4]
58% of college-aged girls feel pressured to be a certain weight.[5]
Studies show that the more reality television a young girl watches, the more likely she is to find appearance important.[6]
More than 1/3 of the people who admit to “normal dieting,” will merge into pathological dieting. Roughly 1/4 of those will suffer from a partial or full-on eating disorder.[7]
In a survey, more than 40% of women and about 20% of men agreed they would consider cosmetic surgery in the future. The statistics remain relatively constant across gender, age, marital status, and race.[8]
Students, especially women, who consume more mainstream media, place a greater importance on sexiness and overall appearance than those who do not consume as much.[9]
95% of people with eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25.[10]
Only 10% of people suffering from an eating disorder will seek professional help.[11]
Palmer, Mario. "5 Facts About Body Image." Amplify. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://amplifyyourvoice.org/u/marioapalmer/2013/05/21/byob-be-your-own-beautiful. ↩︎

Good Therapy. "Eating and Food Issues." Accessed February 23, 2014, http://www.goodtherapy.org/therapy-for-eating-disorders.html. ↩︎

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. "Developing Adolescents." APA: American Psychological Association . Accessed February 24, 2014, http://www.apa.org/pi/families/resources/develop.pdf. ↩︎

Palmer, Mario. "5 Facts About Body Image." Amplify. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://amplifyyourvoice.org/u/marioapalmer/2013/05/21/byob-be-your-own-beautiful. ↩︎

National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders. "Eating Disorders Statistics." ANAD. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://www.anad.org/get-information/about-eating-disorders/eating-disorders-statistics/. ↩︎

Manwaring, Ayarza. "Reality television and its impact on women 's body image." Encompass. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://encompass.eku.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1049&context=etd. ↩︎

Geary, Kevin. "What Girls Are Taught About Health and Fitness (Roundtable)." The Rebooted Body. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://rebootedbody.com/038/. ↩︎

ASAPS: The American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery. "Survey Finds That Women Are More Likely To Consider Plastic Surgery Than They Were Ten Years Ago." Accessed February 24, 2014, http://www.surgery.org/media/news-r...-plastic-surgery-than-they-were-ten-years-ago. ↩︎

Palmer, Mario. "5 Facts About Body Image." Amplify. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://amplifyyourvoice.org/u/marioapalmer/2013/05/21/byob-be-your-own-beautiful. ↩︎

National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders. "Eating Disorders Statistics." ANAD. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://www.anad.org/get-information/about-eating-disorders/eating-disorders-statistics/. ↩︎

National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders. "Eating Disorders Statistics." ANAD. Accessed February 24, 2014, http://www.anad.org/get-information/about-eating-disorders/eating-disorders-statistics/. ↩︎
I have the body of a man, but I have always known I am a unicorn living in a mans body.

My sister is a Klingon.

These sad and unfortunate people are suffering from a mental disease, and while they should be treated with understanding and mercy.........
 

Hoid

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She isn't the first judge to make this finding.

Wouldn't B.C. Supreme Court Justice Gregory Bowden also be insane and need to be removed?

And all those doctors.

Also insane.
 

JLM

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Just because some judge agreed with wako prog dogma doesn't make a fact either. Judges are often wrong and a lot of the time it is simply because one side has a better or more expensive lawyer.


Throughout life you will often find that some people whether they are correct or wrong are still Assholes! :)
 

DaSleeper

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Throughout life you will often find that some people whether they are correct or wrong are still Assholes! :)
The thing about assholes is that everybody has one.....Male, female, transgenders, yes, even judges and lawyers
 

Hoid

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Throughout life you will often find that some people whether they are correct or wrong are still Assholes! :)
For instance, this is a story about 2 different judges making the same ruling
 

Hoid

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Well what we have here is people piling on a judge when in fact it is two judges.
 

JLM

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Which brings up another question. Why are we forever getting lawyers to decide shit that's likely written in a book somewhere, if not for centuries?
 

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Who cares if it's one, two or fifty? If they're wrong, they're wrong! And there's a biology book that says so.


Do not expect people to think for themselves. Some of them are simply not capable, and must bow to whatever fad is currently promoted by those they consider their betters..


Which brings up another question. Why are we forever getting lawyers to decide shit that's likely written in a book somewhere, if not for centuries?


Before post-modernism destroyed the concept of linear thought in the brain dead left.
 

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As someone who WAS forced as a kid to go to church when I did not want to, yes, it is bullying. Doesn't matter that my father wanted it, I didn't. That's bullying.


Did your folks ever force you to eat all the brussel sprouts on your plate when you were a kid?.... Maybe set bed-time when it was still light out and you just didn't want to go?


... Must be bullying, right?

Which proves to me that you're a transphobe and that the very thought of someone's genitals being changed makes you terrified more than the death of a person.

Proves that he's a transphobe does it?

.... If I didn't know better, I'd say you are acting like a bully
 

taxslave

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As someone who WAS forced as a kid to go to church when I did not want to, yes, it is bullying. Doesn't matter that my father wanted it, I didn't. That's bullying.
If it's in the best interest of the child and will save their life, yes? The whole blood transfusion BS that JW's force on their kids is wrong.
Depends on the case and what the case involves. In this case, the kid has already tried suicide ONCE, due to the dysphoria and assholery of his father. The court ruled right that the father has no interest in the safety or mental health of the son, therefore he got penalized for it.
Are judges wrong sometimes? Sure. Happens. Do YOU think he was wrong in this case; obviously so.
I don't.
But then I'd rather see a kid who lives than one who dies.
Which proves to me that you're a transphobe and that the very thought of someone's genitals being changed makes you terrified more than the death of a person.
I am hardly a transphobe. True I dong get why anyone would do something like this but that is not the issue. The issue is courts overriding a parent's decision on a minor disfiguring her body because it is currently the cool thing to do. If she, and it will always be a she not a he still want s to do this when she reaches 19 then she has the right to do so. Provided it does not cost the taxpayer.
 

JLM

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As someone who WAS forced as a kid to go to church when I did not want to, yes, it is bullying. Doesn't matter that my father wanted it, I didn't. That's bullying.


Let me guess, Serryah, you were born sometime after 1970, about the time this philosophy of "the tail wagging the dog" got started? Right?
 

Hoid

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Who cares if it's one, two or fifty? If they're wrong, they're wrong! And there's a biology book that says so.
who cares what the facts are

you have an opinion and you can pick and choose whatever facts you want that support that opinion.
 

JLM

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who cares what the facts are

you have an opinion and you can pick and choose whatever facts you want that support that opinion.


It doesn't matter as long as it IS "facts" you are using to support the opinion. If there's enough "facts" to choose from that in itself would validate the opinion. :)
 

Hoid

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Yes what is the difference between saying :

two judges arrived at the same finding after considering all the evidence including exhaustive testimony from numerous doctors,

or one judge arrived at a finding

the only difference is that the latter statement makes it easier for white natty climate change deniers to carry out their typical attack job