Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter Sinister
If you could try arguing from a position other than "you'll agree once you understand" you might get a little more traction. Understanding does not imply agreement, and your comment about human nature demonstrates that you know one side of Lessans' equation doesn't work, whether you realize it or not. If you understood that, you'd see that Lessans has nothing to offer.
Dexter, you need to at least give Lessans a chance, even if you don't believe he is right. I know how difficult it is to believe that peace is possible. It sounds not only impossible, but absolutely insane. If someone would say that to me, I would think he was a quack, so I know where you are coming from. But please give this knowledge a chance, and if you still think he has nothing to offer, you will have all the time in the world to reject his findings.
Quote: Originally Posted by s_lone
As you say, these forums are about free expression. I do have the right to tell you honestly what I think and never did I suggest you don't have the right to post here. I did suggest you are wasting your time though. But you are free to do what you want (even though you disagree on being free).
Your very last comment made me realize that you don't quite yet understand this knowledge. I am not putting you down; I'm just indicating that you don't quite get it yet. I never said I was not free to choose; I have always said I have options; but I am not free once the choice is made.
Quote: Originally Posted by s_loneIf you are hurt about my opinion, that's your issue. I didn't treat you like a dog, (I don't treat dogs like garbage by the way), I treated you like a human being for this whole thread and I did show you respect all along by telling you my honest opinion.
I don't disagree with this.
Quote: Originally Posted by s_loneI told you in a very blunt way that I think you are mentally intoxicated by Lessans.
That is your opinion.
Quote: Originally Posted by s_loneYou have lost your capacity to analyze his claims critically and you take every single thing he's written for cash, the ''sight'' example is just a very revealing example of how your critical mind has taken a very wrong turn.
I still say that is your opinion s_lone.
Quote: Originally Posted by "s_loneYou're no better than creationists who insist on believing the world has been created 6000 years ago despite the overwhelming evidence that it hasn't.
Until we can decipher what is true and what is not, you cannot use the fact that this has been established by science. I'm sorry that this disrupts your entire worldview. I really am. I did not come here to upset anyone. I hope you know this.
Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter Sinister
Perhaps, but it's not possible to prevent that first blow. An example: you've mentioned having children and your surname is not Lessans, from which I assume you are, or at least were at one time, married. If you're paying attention in an intimate relationship like that, you'll soon learn that it's very easy to hurt someone quite badly without being aware of it. That first blow does not need to be intentional, human nature being what it is it'll happen regardless. Lessans' utopian world assumes people have a great deal more information about and understanding of the choices before them than they can ever really have.
You are right about this. That is why there will be lawmakers who will look at all of those human relationships where people are not sure who is right and who is wrong, to let everyone [in the world] know who is striking the first blow. Once people realize that they are the ones who must yield because they would be striking the first blow, they will desire to yield so as not to be responsible for hurting someone or ruining a relationship.
Quote: Originally Posted by mentalfloss
Can you give me the coles notes version please? I think it would be interesting how these principles would apply specifically to these issues at present.
I'm sorry, I don't have coles notes yet. But in time they will be available.
Quote: Originally Posted by JLM
Peacegirl- Why do you keep saying the same things over and over and over and over? You sound like a child in grocery store asking for a lolly pop.
JLM, I don't know what to say. I'm laughing and I'm crying at the same time.