So was I , then Star Wars came along and I needed a breathing aperatus.
Wanted to do Lea so bad. Those buns did it for me.
It could be. But, in my experience, a first born son makes for a more peaceful household than a firstborn daughter. Sons don't push the limits in the same way daughters do, and so the household rules are more set when the second or third born comes along, without the same screaming matches.