Let's see, all my past relationships have been of a different year, born in different areas of the country, in fact world.
I'm someone who follows family history and where we come from, etc. I know a lot about where I came from, what hospital I was born in, and all that good stuff, just as I am interested in where my girlfriend comes from. It's not out od paranoia, but of interest.
And to answer your question, my situation is not the above, therefore I do not exactly need to know where my girlfriend was born in what hospital, because she's from Australia, so I'm pretty sure we're not related.
colpy said:
in my VERY small family, I share a birthday with, my grandson, and and with my daughter-in-laws father. That is 3 people with the same bithday out of a small group.
Exactly how does that prove me wrong?
Wow, you have the same birth date with your grandson and daughter in law's father.... I take it your grandson wasn't born the same year as you, as well as day? Is the D.In Law's Father the same day and year?
Even if you and he are the exact same age, we're you both given up for adoption at the same time?
No, most people wouldn't be very memorable about what hospital who was born in where.... but those who are adopted and are curious about where they came from and who their family is, then this is one of those things in the back of the mind for most.
Now when you throw all of the above together at once and throw yourself in that situation.... you're telling me you wouldn't have thought perhaps just once that there might be a relation chance at play?
Maybe it's just the upbringing in my own family where most are nurses or in the military, but that was always something in the back of my mind, and I'm not even adopted.
"I'm adopted"
"Wow, so am I"
"Did you goto such and such orphanage?"
"Why yes I did. Where were you born?"
"What a coincidence, so was I. How old are you again?"
"Wow, that's my birthday, exactly."
Cripes it's not hard to open that kind of discussion up and put two and two together.
If one of them never mentioned they were adopted because of embarassment, then it's their own fault for not sharing that information at the start to raise some flags.
Geez, this is just so transparent. Like I said, they either we're completely clueless, or they rushed to sex too fast to really care and then, surprise!
no sympathy form me. Poop happens