Choices are not allowed if they hurt someone else.
I can't CHOOSE to kill someone. Because its a CHOICE that HURTS someone else
I can't CHOOSE to rape someone. Because its a CHOICE that HURTS someone else
So.
I can't CHOOSE to abort my baby. Because its a CHOICE that HURTS someone else
Now the different situations are valid:
If your raped, or if you lover lies to you about himself, and you become pregnent, then you are valid for an abortion. If the boyfriend lies about a visectomy, or he tampers with your birth control, or he lies to you about safe sex. That is not your choice. You have had a baby forced upon you, but in different aspects. One physically harmful, another deceitful.
If your mentally challenged you can't grasp right and wrong, and you can't consent to sex. So if your mentally unchallenged, the person, or its caregiver should have the option to have the child aborted.
If a woman is very ill, and sick and becomes pregnant, and the odds are against her and/or her baby, then an abortion should be valid.
This covers all FAIR circumstances.
BUT:
If you put yourself under the influence to a substance and get pregnant, you should not be able to abort. You should go through the 9 months, have the baby, and put it into social services.
If you were silly and forgot to use protection, or "were in the moment" - same thing.
If their was no deceit or wrong-doing and you had a mishap with the birth control - thats the risks you take when you consent to sex, and you should not be able to abort.
In all these cases a woman can still work for 6-7 months through the pregnancy and then is put out for the last 3-4 months of the pregnancy and birth. Then you bare no responsibilty and you can put it in social services.
Now some might ask: What type of circumstance is that for a child to be brought into the world only to be given up to social services?
To me its better to give a life a chance at something then denying them no chance at all.
I don't understand this, if your not under those 3 categories, why would people want to abort their child instead of temporary inconfort, where you can still work for most of it, then have the birth, and then you bare no more responsibilty?
And don't give me Human Rights, or rights, etc. RIGHTS apply to both sides of this arguement:
1) Denying a woman the right to choose what to do with her body
2) The right to cause cruel and inhuman death to a living being inside you
Rights go both ways here.
A life with bad circumstances is better then no life at all (referring to the baby).
Abortion is probably the biggest genocide of our time. Millions upon millions of lives haven't been given the chance at a life. This is why me and others are so passionate about the issue.
I don't care if I am a man. You may not know this, but there is alot of woman who have the same feelings as me.
And I am not over the top here either: My stance is reasonable. Others would rather see abortion illegal under all circumstances. I don't believe that.
Edit: Other issue to address, that I forgot:
The if you make it illegal, woman will find a way, and an unsafe way.
Do you realize rate now 85% of ALL physicians REFUSE to perform abortions due to ethical standings?
And if abortion is illegal (with some exceptions), then it WILL save more lives, then will be lost, for women taking unsafe routes to rid themselves of it.
And their is always that (disgraceful) Morning after pill, that the women that would want to abort but couldn't because of laws, would get off the black market.
