I am all for variety in life I do not think my parents spanked me to be an automaton but to show me some basic rights and wrong the man who beats his wife or any another person period could argue then he is expressing him self as an individual but we know that is not so .
My parents always allowed me to express my individuality and I am very different than my two sisters.
thank them for the structure which has helped me become who I am but by no means did it define me as a person just as I am sure all who have been spanked are not the same as I
Right On, Justin! I thank my parents too, they provided me with a solid foundation and a set of morals that served me well over the years. I have five youngers sisters and all of us are individuals in our own right but we have basic core values that were learned when young.
Spanking was a small part of the discipline used by my parents, and reserved for huge infractions of the rules. By far the greater punishments were having extra chores added to our daily routines or losing our TV privileges, or having our allowance taken away. No matter the method used, we learned young that good behaviour was rewarded and bad behaviour was not worth the punishment.