Love thy neighbour but be likeable yourself

Harikrish

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Harikrish observes: the divine canon gave the Jews 613 commandments except the one that would make them 'likeable'? It is not hard to figure that being likeable reduces tension between peoples. But to be disliked, Persecuted, Expulsion and antisemitism for 3000 years would have got any Rabbi questioning the 613 other commandments that failed to achieve the goal to make Jews likeable.
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Rosends wrote:
In Jewish thinking, There are what we call 613 commandments (the "Taryag mitzvot"). However, It is important to note that even in biblical/temple times, There was no expectation that every person observed every commandment. If you take even a cursory look at the list
http://www.Jewfaq.Org/m/613.Htm
you will see that some are observed by the average person passively, Some are easily done during the course of daily life, And some are for specialized times, Places and/or people so they are simply not incumbent upon the average person.
It is also essential to understand that each of these 613 serves as a foundation for other "rules" which govern daily life. There are codes of law which are just as binding, And provide the detail about how to live, But which are not explicitly listed as divine commandment. So while the list of textual mitzvot says simply to sanctify the sabbath, We have an entire corpus of law about exactly HOW one does that. The oral law clarifies and explains the process and method by which one can follow the written law. The one without the other is useless.
So if someone says that the expectation was that every person "keep" all 613, That is inevitably in error.

There are a lot of dos and don'ts in the 613 commandments. But I could not find any commandment that tells Jews to be 'likeable'. With 3000 years of persecution, Expulsion and antisemitism, One would think a commandment to be 'likeable' might have help Jews overcome the burden of 613 commandments that still left them undeserving of proper recognition throughout their history.
I don't mean to be disparaging. But would adding one more commandment to be likeable to the existing 613 be so difficult?
 

Harikrish

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Harikrish observes: Christians love the God of the Bible. They even love the messiah whom the Jews rejected. But they stop when it comes to loving the Jewish people. Is it possible the Jews believe because they keep 613 commandments they don't have to be likeable? Their attitude of indifference and arrogance is why kosher candles are more popular than the people's fat that went into making it.

Now Christians don't keep all 613 commandments that were given to Moses for the Jews to keep. Nor do they have one that tells them to be likeable either. So how have Christians managed to keep faith without suffering the same Jewish backlash?

Christians have created 30, 000 different denominations of Christians so one can pick which group is least dislikable to the newly convert. That same person wouldn't have that choice if they were all likeable, Christian leaders reason.

So how does one like a Christian when there are no commandment that orders a Christian to be likeable? One has to consider the alternative which is a Jew keeping 613 commandments that make them even more dislikable.

Love thy neighbour but be likeable yourself.

Harikrish biblical scholar and spiritual leader.
 

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So how does one like a Christian when there are no commandment that orders a Christian to be likeable?
Leviticus 19:18 "In everything, then, do to others as you would have them do to you. For this is the essence of the Law and the prophets". In fact Jesus (if you believe all that crap) described it as "The Second Great Commandment".


Not too sure about your "Biblical scholar" credentials there.
 

Harikrish

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Leviticus 19:18 "In everything, then, do to others as you would have them do to you. For this is the essence of the Law and the prophets". In fact Jesus (if you believe all that crap) described it as "The Second Great Commandment".
Not too sure about your "Biblical scholar" credentials there.
Leviticus 19:18 Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the Lord.
Leviticus is not asking people to be likeable. It is telling us to love others as much as we love ourselves.
Likeable people are seen as approachable and personable because they are open-minded and willing to talk to and listen to many different types of people. They avoid having preconceived notions of self centeredness. In short one has to work on ones personality to be more appealing without mandating others have to love you. Likeable is acceptance at a more casual level. In comparison love is more demanding and presumptuous.
Read my post again!
Harikrish observes: Christians love the God of the Bible. They even love the messiah whom the Jews rejected. But they stop when it comes to loving the Jewish people. Is it possible the Jews believe because they keep 613 commandments they don't have to be likeable? Their attitude of indifference and arrogance is why kosher candles are more popular than the people's fat that went into making it.
Now Christians don't keep all 613 commandments that were given to Moses for the Jews to keep. Nor do they have one that tells them to be likeable either. So how have Christians managed to keep faith without suffering the same Jewish backlash?
Christians have created 30, 000 different denominations of Christians so one can pick which group is least dislikable to the newly convert. That same person wouldn't have that choice if they were all likeable, Christian leaders reason.
So how does one like a Christian when there are no commandment that orders a Christian to be likeable? One has to consider the alternative which is a Jew keeping 613 commandments that make them even more dislikable.
Love thy neighbour but be likeable yourself.
Harikrish biblical scholar and spiritual leader.