Looking for cross-dressers/transgenders

jellyfarm

jellyfarm

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Hi all,
I'm working on a short film script about transgenders and cross-dressers and am halfway writing my story however, I feel I don't know enough about the psychology that goes behind this habit so I'm posting a call-out here to members here who may know someone who is. Don't worry, it'll be handled very discreetly. I'm just looking for a person who's willing to share their story in order to bring awareness to society that this phenomenon exists and that cross-dressing is something that isn't meant to be frowned on but to make it something that can be embraced.

Please PM me if you know someone. Thanks! I appreciate it. :)
 
hermanntrude

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i have afriend in the uk who is in the middle of changing from an unhappy man to a happy woman. i'll ask her if she's interested but i doubt it
 
CDNBear

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Jellyfarm,

I once waltzed about the world of BDSM, where cross dressing, and trans gendered did abound.

Oft maligned and chastised, I find their plight a misery in self making. I can only imagine the feelings and the drive one must feel swelling within, to dawn the trappings of the opposite gender to feel at rest. While praying their secret not be revealed, for fears of persecution.

How said is it that a society can embrace the horrors of war, the malignancy of drug addiction, the lies of bureaucracy, but yet not accept without harming, the plight of ones inner demons of sexual manifestations.

It throws no harm on greater society, it bears no scars that would harm others without their acquiescence. Those that cry 'what about the children', are the ones that create that issue. For the young have no concept of the error in the plight, until it is installed by the elders.

Life is far to short to be tortured by denial, intolerance and the pain that people provide all to freely. Sexuality, gender and oneself is as deeply personal as the colour of ones skin and should garner as much respect.

Now, I know many cross dressers and trans gendered. Ask away, and I shall be forthcoming with all I can afford you.
 
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Wow, that's cool jellyfarm. I hope you will share some of your findings with us after.

There was a cross-dresser who used to live in my building. Unfortunately they weren't too balanced so they did nothing to lend to the understanding.

However it is interesting to note that he preferred to be thought of as female and that is the way he always presented publically. Most went along with it without issue.

All the old ladies thought he was a she regardless of beard lines on the face.

Even when she said she had been raped and was pregnant they were talking about planning a shower. I found that quite fascinating. If you say something often enough after a while people begin to believe it regardless of the truth involved.

I saw little harm in accepting him as a woman. The other aspect I found fascinating was the one person hardest on him was a lesbian. She continually criticized and refused to acknowledge him as female in any way.
 
jellyfarm

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Wow~ I'm grateful for all the responses!
CDNBear, what's BDSM stand for btw? I've seen it while I was perusing websites but haven't foudn the definition for it.

OK before I go any further, I'll just reveal a little why I'm writing this story. Guess I've always had a little androgyny in me....a 'maleness' you could say. I've always been a tomboy but even now, there are times when I scoff at true soft femininity...I feel that it's too sissy for me..:lol: and hence I've always wondered about men having this desire to cross dress, straight men and gay men. OK, I'm learning to accept 100& masculinity or femininity but I do believe that whatever sex you are there are hormones of the opposite sex that affect our behaviours, after all all males were once females in the first 6 weeks of life having XX chromosomes in them.

So is the world predominantly female? I dunno.

So the story is about 2 couples and their lives interweaved. One is a straight man with a straight wife, who has a family and a high-flying career who secretly cross-dresses but falls in love with a transgender (gay man) who is in an abusive relationship with his partner, a bisexual. Yeah, complicated, right? But the story explores how alienated these characters can be in society and even then can't seem to get it right in their own alternative-world relationships.

Moral of the story: A rel'ship is a rel'ship. It's gonna take work and courage whether it's straight or gay.

CNDBear, there are some things I still need to know like what goes through a cross dresser's mind when he wears woman's clothing and why exactly is he drawn to them besides the softness of the material?

And you know how some prance around the mirror? Wonder if that's true and how are some straight men cross dressers able to hide their fetish from their wives?


Would appreciate the help! Thanks! :flower: :wav:
 
jellyfarm

jellyfarm

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Sal said:
Wow, that's cool jellyfarm. I hope you will share some of your findings with us after.
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I will when I find something interesting.

There was a cross-dresser who used to live in my building. Unfortunately they weren't too balanced so they did nothing to lend to the understanding.

However it is interesting to note that he preferred to be thought of as female and that is the way he always presented publically. Most went along with it without issue.

All the old ladies thought he was a she regardless of beard lines on the face.
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Funny you should say that because there wasa cross dresser in my university as well. He was straight but he dressed up as a woman and taught all his classes in that garb. He was a Maths professor at that. Guess he got his 'numbers' gone awry didn't he? Heheh!


I saw little harm in accepting him as a woman. The other aspect I found fascinating was the one person hardest on him was a lesbian. She continually criticized and refused to acknowledge him as female in any way.
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Yeah, some lesbians can be harsh because they are extremely proud to be female and seeing someone else do a half-baked job at it can get most riled up. Maybe they think it's competition?
 
zoofer

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I always wanted to get into women's panties.

Usually they objected.
 
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