Re: Assimilation of Immigrants
DasFX said:
As the prodigy of visible minority immigrants, I've seen first hand the struggles that new immigrants face. Torn between a society in the old country and a new foreign society, many are often left with a difficult decision. Do I assimilate or do I remain true to my roots. Many things skew immigrants to chose the latter, the feeling of not belonging, perceived racism, not being knowledgeable about the language, culture and society, however I think it is the wrong choice.
So many immigrants, in my opinion, try to re-create the old country here. They never learn the language (well) and therefore are forced to interact with "their own kind" only. Many people call me and my sisters "Coconuts". (Brown on the outside, white in the middle) but I don't care. I have not betrayed India, I was born here, and I grew up here. I have no loyalty to India. That being said, I still know a lot about it, I know about the culture, religion, language and traditions of my parent's homeland, but I also know the same about my homeland.
Hi DasFx,
you have an interesting point of view and I don't necessarily disagree with you, but I gave it some thought and based on what I have seen from immigrant friends/relatives and from my travels abroad, I figure that there can be a positive light to all of this.
First of all, like you, my parents were immigrants as well. They embraced Canada because they knew it was the key to a better life. However, similar to your situation, they also kept their customs, traditions, and langauges and made sure that their kids (me and my siblings) got exposed to this as well as giving us the freedom of embracing the new with the old. They didn't force us, they gave us the choice. Like you, I chose to grow up being a Canadian while embracing my roots. I feel that I am lucky because I am able to understand both. I have to thank my parents for this, really, because I have seen many kids of these immigrants lose their langauge and culture completely.
This leads me to my second point, what good is it to have a society where everybody acts the same, embraces the same values, culture, etc, etc, and the only distinguishing feature is the colour of their skin? It is one thing to assimilate/integrate, but it is another to just give up everything to be something else. I think what makes Canada so great is the diversity that exists within it. One of the problems we face today is that some people can't tolerate the customs of other ethnic groups and some over-generalize a race based on the actions of a few bad people. Education may help to solve this problem. Please keep reading...
You mentioned that many immigrants try to re-create their old country. I can understand why immigrants would want to do this. It's not because they are racist or prejudice or whatever, it is because they are vulnerable and as they say there is safety in numbers. I've had a couple of girlfriends (and friends) that have come to Canada from a non-English speaking country. As I got to know them, I've found that there are certain individuals that prey on these new and naive immigrants. As you probably know, Canada is known for it's space and to get from one place to another, you will need a car at some point in time (as public transit can't take you everywhere). One of my gf's bought a rusty 1991 BMW that had a lot of issues for $12,000. I believe she overpaid. Had I known her at that time, I would have probably saved her some money, but because she was a new immigrant from a place where cars are more expensive (Taiwan) and not knowing anything about cars, she didn't know any better. I won't even go into how much she paid for her condo because that would just make me mad.
To me, having re-creations of old countries from different types of people is an advantage for Canada. It shows visitors to this country the different ethnic groups that exist within it and the history that it carries. When I was on vacation in Shanghai, one of the first places I visited was the Old Bund and the New Bund. What makes the Old Bund so interesting is because it was a replica of European culture... in China. I'm amazed when walking through the streets and looking around, you would never have guessed you were in China. Then there is the history behind it and how the Europeans took advantage of the Chinese during those days and how things have changed since then. This is the type of education I'm talking about. You can't deny and ignore the fact that there was rampant racism against the Chinese at that time, but the key to the experience is that things have changed since then... attitudes have changed. This is reinforced with the fact that by looking across the river you get a spectacular view of the New Bund. A sign of the new China that has moved past the problems of the past. The old with the new.
In Vancouver, these old countries now are becoming an attraction for visitors. Tourism. We now have an historic Chinatown near downtown Vancouver, we have a new Chinatown in Richmond, we have an Indian section near 49th & Main, we have an Italian section near Commercial st, we have a Korean section on North Rd, I could go on and on... easy. Some of the advantages to all these different ethnic groups located in different areas is that it eases the transition for new immigrants from what they are used to, to what they should expect in Canada. I think it is a *big* mistake to just put immigrants right smack in the middle of a different culture. Not only will there be culture shock on both sides, it probably introduces the type of things that we all hate ... misconceptions, intolerance, over-genereralizatons, misunderstanding (all which leads to worse things like racism)... simply because their cultures are different and they don't understand why. Instead, what these old-countries do is help these new immigrants get settled in and learn the nuances of Canadian culture so that they don't get offended or whatever when they see something they don't understand. Unfortunately, some immigrants choose not to learn about Canada and I think it is their loss... not ours.
It always give me a great sense of patriotism when people of a different culture attempt to learn the traditions of another. We are all living under the same roof (Canada) so why not learn everything there is to learn about each other? It only makes us better not worse. This is the education I'm talking about. So when we go travelling abroad and even here in Canada, and see, for example, Japanese people loudly sucking and slurping their noodles, we don't prejudge them as being rude because we understand that it is their culture.