Have you ever been sexually coerced?

[White_Unifier]

Have you ever been sexually coerced?

 

[MHz]

Are you going to take it that nobody has been molested when nobody replies? The most difficult question in group was from the ones that had to admit it was the best sex ever. They tended to be older when the abuse took place and all of then about sex basically all the time they are awake.

 

[TenPenny]

That sort of depends on what you mean by 'coerced', but if you mean that a woman put her hands down my pants, then I guess I'd have to say yes. Which, oddly enough, was what I said shortly after it happened.

 

[JLM]

Do we need more than one thread on this?

 

[White_Unifier]

Do we need more than one thread on this?

Sorry. I erred in the poll and didn't know how to fix it.

 

[TenPenny]

Do we need more than one thread on this?

Yes, we need 69 threads on it.

 

[White_Unifier]

Given the demographics in this forum, I believe that the poll will probably over-represent male victims compared to the general victim population, but so be it.

That sort of depends on what you mean by 'coerced', but if you mean that a woman put her hands down my pants, then I guess I'd have to say yes. Which, oddly enough, was what I said shortly after it happened.

I guess coerced could include everything from begging to pouting to threatening suicide (usually to keep a person in a relationship) to using physical force or a weapon to drugging or taking advantage of a passed-out person to many other similar things. Even a 'yes' can be coerced.

 

[TenPenny]

A weapon. I suppose you could call it a weapon, that red hair and sweet lips. Does that count?

 

[MHz]

That sort of depends on what you mean by 'coerced', but if you mean that a woman put her hands down my pants, then I guess I'd have to say yes. Which, oddly enough, was what I said shortly after it happened.

Premature climaxer, check. You forgot to mention she grabbed your snatch instead of your peepee

 

[TenPenny]

If you do it quickly, you can do it again. Quantity over quality. Just like pizza.

 

[White_Unifier]

A weapon. I suppose you could call it a weapon, that red hair and sweet lips. Does that count?

Unwanted touching with intent to arouse counts as coercion too, no?

Same with crying to keep a person in a relationship.

 

[Mowich]

Same with crying to keep a person in a relationship.

You lump 'crying to keep a person in a relationship' as sexual coercion? Really? Gotta tell you I cried a few times over broken relationships and it never did me a lick of good.....and sex was the furthest thing from either of our minds at the time.

 

[White_Unifier]

You lump 'crying to keep a person in a relationship' as sexual coercion? Really? Gotta tell you I cried a few times over broken relationships and it never did me a lick of good.....and sex was the furthest thing from either of our minds at the time.

It depends on the context. For example, crying along with holding a knife to the person's stomach and threatening suicide, or crying while making unwanted sexual advances and engaging in unwanted sexual petting or kissing. Obviously all of this depends on context. I leave it to the participants to use their better judgement in the poll.

Pressuring a person into a relationship can also serve as a first step towards sexual coercion even when the person is pressured into a non-sexual relationship initially.