Of course, they deserve help. But they also have to accept some responsibility. The two key precursors of poverty are obvious- quitting school early and starting a family without benefit of reliable employment and, in many cases, a stable partner. Kids know that. They have to be reminded forcefully that poverty is often a choice less than it is a condition.
Fine, so you come across some woman who is poor with three kids born before she was 21, trying to eke out an existence and what do you do? Reinforce her bad choices by pointing them out to her? Why not offer to pay her a decent salary to support her family while she attends school? Wouldn't that be more productive than rubbing her nose in her faults?