Are we selfish?

[dancing-loon]

Hi, Hari;
so, you thought the whole time I was a male loon??? :smile::smile::smile: Very funny!!!

Thanks for the fine photo of yourself!8O Now I understand why you are still waiting for a bride!!

You might not believe me, but the same damn thing happened again tonight!!! Every word I wrote gone!!!:angry3::angry3::angryfire::angryfire:
I'm not going to try again! Someone else can take over and answer any questions you have.

About writing me a PM = private mail.... you don't qualify for that privilege yet. You need an X amount of posts before you can write and receive private mail. Get busy and keep posting!:smile:;-)

I wish you a happy Valentine's Day! Maybe one of your co-workers will dare give you a kiss on your b....8O http://dclips.fundraw.com/zobo500dir/www_Sticker_Tk_kiss_my_ass.jpg

Be happy!

 

[hariharan]

Hi loon,
A girl phoned me the other day and said..."Come on over, there's nobody home." I went over. Nobody was home.
I remember someone asked me to be her valentine. What happened to that? Did her change her mind after seeing my photo.

I am always HAPPY :lol:

Hi, Hari;
so, you thought the whole time I was a male loon??? :smile::smile::smile: Very funny!!!

Thanks for the fine photo of yourself!8O Now I understand why you are still waiting for a bride!!

You might not believe me, but the same damn thing happened again tonight!!! Every word I wrote gone!!!:angry3::angry3::angryfire::angryfire:
I'm not going to try again! Someone else can take over and answer any questions you have.

About writing me a PM = private mail.... you don't qualify for that privilege yet. You need an X amount of posts before you can write and receive private mail. Get busy and keep posting!:smile:;-)

I wish you a happy Valentine's Day! Maybe one of your co-workers will dare give you a kiss on your b....8O http://dclips.fundraw.com/zobo500dir/www_Sticker_Tk_kiss_my_ass.jpg

Be happy!

 

[dancing-loon]

You are unbeatable, Hari!! Nice joke:lol::lol:

The girl?? She passed out! The shock seeing you was too much for her tender soul!

 

[dancing-loon]

Hi, Hari;

you wrote this on my wall

I saw this in one of your post “Dogs that bark don't bite! Hahaha”Well, we all know that. Do you think, that dog knows that ? HeHeHeHe :laughing9: :laughing1: :laughing6: :laughing9: :laughing1: :laughing6: :laughing9: :laughing1: :laughing6:

I'm glad it is not me you are waiting for to get married to.... you would drive me nuts with all your "dumb" questions!:lol:

How is the bride coming along?? Still no one in sight? I get the feeling you are quite happy being free to "enjoy" your single life, admit it, Hari!!;-)

Thank you for asking if I had a nice day yesterday. Yes, I did.... I shoveled snow for two hours!!!:happy11:
How was your day... any lovely surprises?

I see, you still don't have a PM! You are a foreigner.... that must be the reason!

 

[katnut]

We do love because we want ourselves to be loved? Is this selfishness? Is there a thing that we do regularly without expecting anything in return? Clarify my doubt.

People want to be rewarded for anything they do. Egoizm is when the reward is benefit for myself, when I think about of my own pleasure.
Kabbalists teach us how to exchange egoizm to altruizm using only one thing right: intention (aim).
The right aim is the single most important and most difficult thing that percon must to do. Any deed performed with an intention "dedicated to the Creator" is spiritual, while the same deed performed with a "self-aimed intetion" is material and selfish.
The Kabbalists analizes all thoughts, actions, and events according to theirs impact on spiritual path.
Thanks to this process of analizing intention and learning from the selfishness you find, you begin to understand what happens to you and why you experience certain feelings and what you need to do.