Oh Talloola - I'm sorry to hear your visit is under such difficult circumstances.
... if it's a nice stroll you'd like then I will tell you about the other part of my ritual when I visit Victoria - after stuffing ourselves silly at Barb's we go to the Breakwater to try and walk a bit of it off - it's only a couple blocks away from Fisherman's Wharf.
I actually prefer to do this walk by myself - the wind, the smell of the ocean, somehow it's very therapeutic for me. I used to live a block away from there and found myself walking that breakwater at least once a day. I still miss it.
It's only about 40 minutes if you're going slowly - half hour tops if you walk a bit more briskly.
Under the circumstances, this might be
the perfect place to spend a bit of time while you're waiting to go see your husband after surgery. There's also a nice little beach at the base of the breakwater with all kinds of driftwood logs you can sit on and just immerse yourself in the the sounds and smells of ocean. It always humbles, yet replenishes me.
You will let us know so we can keep you both in our thoughts that day won't you please?
Here's a nice pic of the breakwater.