What really freaks me out is the danger associated with messing around so much, so aggressively with a woman's hormones. It makes me SO nervous that the medical industry is so willing to dabble. And it strikes me as an area where, yet again, the stigma drives it. Because society, even to this day, expects a fertile woman. To this day, women feel less like a woman if they don't have babies, if they have to adopt. Yet, the adoptions I've seen where the moms get together before the baby is even born... wow... the connection is so instant. The baby is so very theirs, from day one, that it made my cousin angry that she'd wasted so much time going the other route and beating her head against the wall.
I do completely understand that there are women who can't handle the thought of doing it any other way. But I think society still needs to close some gaps to make adoption a more viable, less stigmatized choice, for the women (both giving up, and adopting), who want a different option.
Careful, you almost sound like a women's rights lobbyist