Well then if you are taking your child to church and you persist with it you will be instilling your beliefs in your child. If that's your choice as a parent then you need to know that religion will become a part of him because of the fact that he is very impressionable at the age of 5. You have made your choice but for me I would avoid the church for him at least until he is capable of making an intelligent decision on his own. Perhaps the age of 12 would be a good time to introduce a child to religion IMHO. I trust you are coming to learn and accep this concept karrie, as it's apparent to me that you didn't understand when I first introduced it to you a few days ago. In fact you appeared to be quite hostile toward the idea. Think about that o.k? It's not originally my idea, it comes from the experts who are qualified to talk about such things. Perhaps do some research if you care about the implications enough?
I'm not trying to tell you what to do with your child, I'm only giving you the logical consequences of the religious education you have chosen. And I'm very concerned that somehting I say may be taken as an insult so I want to jus ensure you that none is intended. The new rules ya know. ;-)
I know plenty of people who were raised Catholic, my own siblings for example, who are now atheists. The core values of respect for others, respect for self were still kept, but they discarded what didn't apply to their personal truth. So your assertion that my kids will not be able to decide for themselves down the road simply does not hold true to me. And I'm sorry if I made you feel I was hostile towards the ideas you presented. Not one idea you have put forward has offended me. To be truthful, and not trying to pick a fight, the attitude you put them forth with at times is what has bugged me and caused issue.
You have to take into account that MY beliefs are what will be instilled. And, my beliefs include religious tolerance, that all humans should have the same gonvermental rights, that scientific exploration is key to human understanding, and that one should never stop learning or exploring. I don't see anything wrong with letting my children get an education in many different areas, backed up with MY beliefs.