Don't get me wrong, of course there's a lot about war that I don't know anything about, but unfortunately (or maybe fortunately) I wasn't born at a time where I would be likely to do active duty in any wars, like others of my generation.
Obviously, I disagree. As I said, the Cold War was the only existential threat to the U.S. and Canada that either has faced since the early 1800s. It was millions of young men and women on watch, with the attitude of "Anytime, baby!" that left you free to live your life as you chose. Me, in West Berlin and Central America, countering Soviet maneuvers. Curious, on a ship at sea. RCS, ready to face the fire, and presumably training the men and women who would face the fire. EagleSmack, keeping security and discipline in the Fleet. Gopher (who I believe was an infantryman), ready to expose his favorite skin to Soviet fire.
We did what we did. We don't expect to be lionized for it. But denigrating us because we weren't in the Battle of the Bulge or at Vimy Ridge is a dick move. Least of all, being told in effect "You weren't a real soldier" by somebody who was never a soldier of any type.
I'm being pretty hard on you here, but I'm not just bashing you. I'm asking you to just give Curious the respect he earned on that ship. Disagree with him all you like. Call him a fool if you like. Your ability to do that is what we served for. But remember that at one time in his life, he volunteered to face an icy death beneath the waves so that you could live in freedom.
He just decided he was going to act like a twit and belittle me and presume to know more about me than I would know about him, although I would imagine he was on the front lines in Afghanistan, Iraq 1 and Iraq 2 and probably Vietnam as well. I should have kept my mouth shut as I haven't spent months in rain soaked, rat infested trenches, with missiles soaring 6" over my head with the noise enough to blow an ear drum. A lot of people aren't cut out for active duty in war, me being one of them, but there's other ways to be useful without criticism from the likes of that asshole!
Be the better man. You've got a good many miles (kilometers) under your belt. I get into it with EagleSmack pretty hard sometimes, but you'll notice that I never, EVER disparage his service.
As I said, call him a fool, a twit, or a twat as much as you like. He probably deserves it (as do I, from time to time). But the uniform deserves respect, and the people who wore it deserve at least to not be disparaged just because they weren't Special Forces racking up feats of derring-do on a daily basis.
Memorial Day, Canada Day, 4th of July, Remembrance (Veterans) Day. We were there, and we deserve respect for that, if for nothing else.