How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

[Omicron]

I solved everything.

I fixed everything.

But I'm alone.

They say I can go to a Huttrite colony and pick up a mate, but seriously.

Where the f-ck did you stupid little hillbillies get the idea that your daughter with me would bring the family down to lower than the arcane principal of barely being able to sketch images on a cave?

You're nuts.

I can make it a part of the wedding ceremony that you get to paint on the cave.

 

[In Between Man]

But I'm alone.

Just embrace the solitude my friend. Look at me, I have no children, no wife, heck, I haven't even had a girlfriend since I was 10 and the girl next door moved away - and I'm the king of the world!!!

You'll get your energy back, don't worry. Take some fibre and get some exercise.

:lol::lol::lol:

 

[Cliffy]

I was thinking more along the lines of laying off the booze and take some anger management training.

 

[Corduroy]

Huh?

 

[Ariadne]

Have you thought about seeing someone about the ears, perhaps a haircut?

 

[Ariadne]

How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?


What I do is put a block up so it doesn't happen again. I suppose that doesn't sound like the "healthy" solution, but I'm all but ensuring it doesn't happen again. The energy comes back after some centering ... going back to centered, familar memories and going forward.

 

[Nuggler]

8O...........Some seriously flawed folks............yikes.


BTW

Where's that Hutterite colony??:blob4o boy o boy o boy o boy)

 

[Ariadne]

And ... on a side note ... my son said something about whether I was getting fat and I told him it was no more than a pooch. He looked at me with a seriously puzzled look. I mentioned that when his sister returned from school, she was proud of her 'pooch'. He said that it was like a bagel belly ... adding that hers is more like a great dane than a pooch.

She's due to give birth on July 7, so he's entitled to make great dane remarks for another week or so.

8O...........Some seriously flawed folks............yikes.


BTW

Where's that Hutterite colony??:blob4o boy o boy o boy o boy)

I don't know, but if you ever figure it out let me know. I was in Ottawa for a couple of weeks and wanted to buy a goose down duvet for my daughter. I couldn't find any kind of useful map. Also in Alberta, if you know where to go, I would very much like to find a Hutterite goose down duvet.

 

[cranky]

Ask a mediocre question and you have less of a chance at finding a quality answer.

Ask a quality question and you will get better results even if all you can find is a 90% correct answer.

Ask a quality question everyday, and you will be playing your odds in your favor.

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is that too philosophical?

And ... on a side note ... my son said something about whether I was getting fat and I told him it was no more than a pooch. He looked at me with a seriously puzzled look. I mentioned that when his sister returned from school, she was proud of her 'pooch'. He said that it was like a bagel belly ... adding that hers is more like a great dane than a pooch.

She's due to give birth on July 7, so he's entitled to make great dane remarks for another week or so.



I don't know, but if you ever figure it out let me know. I was in Ottawa for a couple of weeks and wanted to buy a goose down duvet for my daughter. I couldn't find any kind of useful map. Also in Alberta, if you know where to go, I would very much like to find a Hutterite goose down duvet.

There's a colony near Claresholm Alberta. That should get your search started. Contacting the Claresholm town counsel would point you in the correct direction.

 

[EagleSmack]

How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?


What I do is put a block up so it doesn't happen again. I suppose that doesn't sound like the "healthy" solution, but I'm all but ensuring it doesn't happen again. The energy comes back after some centering ... going back to centered, familar memories and going forward.

I agree. Whenever I have a problem I don't say anything. I have a mental glass jar. I keep cramming problem after problem into the jar... keeping it all inside. Simply pushing each problem harder and harder inside. It works for me.


tick tick tick tick tick

 

[YukonJack]

"How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?"

I knew some people who took the 'HAT TREATMENT'. They put a hat on the table and drank their favourite adult beverage until they saw two hats, felt no more pain, their heart was mended and got their energy back.

 

[cranky]

I agree. Whenever I have a problem I don't say anything. I have a mental glass jar. I keep cramming problem after problem into the jar... keeping it all inside. Simply pushing each problem harder and harder inside. It works for me.


tick tick tick tick tick

that works well until I start saving my farts in someone else's jar

 

[lone wolf]

If you're seeking happiness in someone else, your search is in vain if you don't like yourself first.

 

[Dexter Sinister]

I think seeking happiness at all is vain. Happiness emerges from having other things of real value, like family, friends, something interesting and useful to do, a well-stocked mind, stuff like that. And the lone wolf is right, you have to like yourself first, if you don't nobody else will either.

 

[cranky]

I think seeking happiness at all is vain. Happiness emerges from having other things of real value, like family, friends, something interesting and useful to do, a well-stocked mind, stuff like that. And the lone wolf is right, you have to like yourself first, if you don't nobody else will either.

Ive been reading some research on happiness, the keys to achieving greater happiness involves:
Being grateful for what you have
Giving and supporting charity
Participating in more 'flow' activites
Exercising and resting

There's a few more but i havent researched how to improve my memry

 

[TenPenny]

I think seeking happiness at all is vain. Happiness emerges from having other things of real value, like family, friends, something interesting and useful to do, a well-stocked mind, stuff like that. And the lone wolf is right, you have to like yourself first, if you don't nobody else will either.

Quite so; to seek happiness is a fool's errand. Happiness occurs when you are doing something else.

The cure to a broken heart is to carry on with life, and most importantly, explore your own interests. That's how you find your life mate, not by prowling around a bar or a bookstore, looking for breeding stock. Do what you enjoy doing, and don't put artificial pressure on yourself about finding a mate.

 

[cranky]

Vodka? Lol

 

[TenPenny]

Vodka? Lol

alcohol, in exteme quantities, but only for one day.

That's always worked for me: one day of heavy drinking, preferably with one or two close friends, and lots of music (in my day, Dylan/Springsteen/Tom Waits/John Hiatt).

But, on no account, allow it to be more than one day. And do not, on any account, become violent. Best thing is an isolated cottage, where you don't get yourself, or anyone else, into trouble.

 

[cranky]

If you want to volunteer your cottage, I think I can arrange to break up with my wife several weekends in a row

 

[gopher]

Looks like I'm not the only one looking for a prosperous wife.