How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Omicron

#1Jun 29th, 2011

I solved everything.

I fixed everything.

But I'm alone.

They say I can go to a Huttrite colony and pick up a mate, but seriously.

Where the f-ck did you stupid little hillbillies get the idea that your daughter with me would bring the family down to lower than the arcane principal of barely being able to sketch images on a cave?

You're nuts.

I can make it a part of the wedding ceremony that you get to paint on the cave.

In Between Man

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by Omicron

But I'm alone.

Just embrace the solitude my friend. Look at me, I have no children, no wife, heck, I haven't even had a girlfriend since I was 10 and the girl next door moved away - and I'm the king of the world!!!

You'll get your energy back, don't worry. Take some fibre and get some exercise.

Last edited by In Between Man; Jun 29th, 2011 at 01:51 AM..

Cliffy

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

I was thinking more along the lines of laying off the booze and take some anger management training.

Corduroy

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Huh?

Ariadne

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Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Have you thought about seeing someone about the ears, perhaps a haircut?

Ariadne

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

What I do is put a block up so it doesn't happen again. I suppose that doesn't sound like the "healthy" solution, but I'm all but ensuring it doesn't happen again. The energy comes back after some centering ... going back to centered, familar memories and going forward.

Nuggler

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

...........Some seriously flawed folks............yikes.

BTW

Where's that Hutterite colony??

(o boy o boy o boy o boy)

Ariadne

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

And ... on a side note ... my son said something about whether I was getting fat and I told him it was no more than a pooch. He looked at me with a seriously puzzled look. I mentioned that when his sister returned from school, she was proud of her 'pooch'. He said that it was like a bagel belly ... adding that hers is more like a great dane than a pooch.

She's due to give birth on July 7, so he's entitled to make great dane remarks for another week or so.

Quote: Originally Posted by Nuggler

...........Some seriously flawed folks............yikes.

BTW

Where's that Hutterite colony??(o boy o boy o boy o boy)

I don't know, but if you ever figure it out let me know. I was in Ottawa for a couple of weeks and wanted to buy a goose down duvet for my daughter. I couldn't find any kind of useful map. Also in Alberta, if you know where to go, I would very much like to find a Hutterite goose down duvet.

cranky

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Ask a mediocre question and you have less of a chance at finding a quality answer.

Ask a quality question and you will get better results even if all you can find is a 90% correct answer.

Ask a quality question everyday, and you will be playing your odds in your favor.

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is that too philosophical?

Quote: Originally Posted by Ariadne

And ... on a side note ... my son said something about whether I was getting fat and I told him it was no more than a pooch. He looked at me with a seriously puzzled look. I mentioned that when his sister returned from school, she was proud of her 'pooch'. He said that it was like a bagel belly ... adding that hers is more like a great dane than a pooch.

She's due to give birth on July 7, so he's entitled to make great dane remarks for another week or so.

I don't know, but if you ever figure it out let me know. I was in Ottawa for a couple of weeks and wanted to buy a goose down duvet for my daughter. I couldn't find any kind of useful map. Also in Alberta, if you know where to go, I would very much like to find a Hutterite goose down duvet.

There's a colony near Claresholm Alberta. That should get your search started. Contacting the Claresholm town counsel would point you in the correct direction.

EagleSmack

#10

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by Ariadne

How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

What I do is put a block up so it doesn't happen again. I suppose that doesn't sound like the "healthy" solution, but I'm all but ensuring it doesn't happen again. The energy comes back after some centering ... going back to centered, familar memories and going forward.

I agree. Whenever I have a problem I don't say anything. I have a mental glass jar. I keep cramming problem after problem into the jar... keeping it all inside. Simply pushing each problem harder and harder inside. It works for me.

tick tick tick tick tick

YukonJack

#11

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

"How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?"

I knew some people who took the 'HAT TREATMENT'. They put a hat on the table and drank their favourite adult beverage until they saw two hats, felt no more pain, their heart was mended and got their energy back.

cranky

#12

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by EagleSmack

I agree. Whenever I have a problem I don't say anything. I have a mental glass jar. I keep cramming problem after problem into the jar... keeping it all inside. Simply pushing each problem harder and harder inside. It works for me.

tick tick tick tick tick

that works well until I start saving my farts in someone else's jar

lone wolf

#13

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

If you're seeking happiness in someone else, your search is in vain if you don't like yourself first.

Dexter Sinister

#14

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

I think seeking happiness at all is vain. Happiness emerges from having other things of real value, like family, friends, something interesting and useful to do, a well-stocked mind, stuff like that. And the lone wolf is right, you have to like yourself first, if you don't nobody else will either.

cranky

#15

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter Sinister

I think seeking happiness at all is vain. Happiness emerges from having other things of real value, like family, friends, something interesting and useful to do, a well-stocked mind, stuff like that. And the lone wolf is right, you have to like yourself first, if you don't nobody else will either.

Ive been reading some research on happiness, the keys to achieving greater happiness involves:
Being grateful for what you have
Giving and supporting charity
Participating in more 'flow' activites
Exercising and resting

There's a few more but i havent researched how to improve my memry

TenPenny

#16

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter Sinister

I think seeking happiness at all is vain. Happiness emerges from having other things of real value, like family, friends, something interesting and useful to do, a well-stocked mind, stuff like that. And the lone wolf is right, you have to like yourself first, if you don't nobody else will either.

Quite so; to seek happiness is a fool's errand. Happiness occurs when you are doing something else.

The cure to a broken heart is to carry on with life, and most importantly, explore your own interests. That's how you find your life mate, not by prowling around a bar or a bookstore, looking for breeding stock. Do what you enjoy doing, and don't put artificial pressure on yourself about finding a mate.

cranky

#17

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Vodka? Lol

TenPenny

#18

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by cranky

Vodka? Lol

alcohol, in exteme quantities, but only for one day.

That's always worked for me: one day of heavy drinking, preferably with one or two close friends, and lots of music (in my day, Dylan/Springsteen/Tom Waits/John Hiatt).

But, on no account, allow it to be more than one day. And do not, on any account, become violent. Best thing is an isolated cottage, where you don't get yourself, or anyone else, into trouble.

cranky

#19

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

If you want to volunteer your cottage, I think I can arrange to break up with my wife several weekends in a row

gopher

#20

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Looks like I'm not the only one looking for a prosperous wife.

Ariadne

#21

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by gopher

Looks like I'm not the only one looking for a prosperous wife.

The Dutch referred to the Germans as prosperous, but I doubt that's the sort of prosperous wife you're seeking.

gopher

#22

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

I'm a Yank, not a European. Funny thing is, I prefer European girls. Oh, and one with a fat wallet, not necessarily a fat tush.

Ariadne

#23

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Methinks the Europeans are inclined to go Dutch these days.

gopher

#24

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Alas, poor me!

Cliffy

#25

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 29th, 2011

Quote: Originally Posted by gopher

Alas, poor me!

If you look anything like Alfie, poor you indeed!

gerryh

#26

Re: How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

Jun 30th, 2011

How does one get their energy back after a broken heart?

suck it up buttercup, and move on.

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petros

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