Getting my PhD

Kreskin
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.. in having to live with female drama.

I work in an exclusively female place (except me), have a website that is exclusively female (except me) and have a wife and daughter. Most of the time I just duck and stay away from all the crap that goes on...but holy cow my life seems crazy around all these raging hormones.

You ladies need to lighten up!
 
Machjo
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Huh?
 
Kreskin
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Quote: Originally Posted by MachjoView Post

Huh?

That's why the PhD.
 
karrie
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Quote: Originally Posted by KreskinView Post

.. in having to live with female drama.

I work in an exclusively female place (except me), have a website that is exclusively female (except me) and have a wife and daughter. Most of the time I just duck and stay away from all the crap that goes on...but holy cow my life seems crazy around all these raging hormones.

You ladies need to lighten up!


Having read and reviewed your statement, I will unfortunately have to fail you for the course 'tact 101'. Your approach is whiny, and the winky face at the end does not make it humorous. In order to re-enroll in 'tact', you must also re-take your sympathy practicum, as well as the 'shut up and grin' class.
 
Kreskin
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Quote: Originally Posted by karrieView Post

Having read and reviewed your statement, I will unfortunately have to fail you for the course 'tact 101'. Your approach is whiny, and the winky face at the end does not make it humorous. In order to re-enroll in 'tact', you must also re-take your sympathy practicum, as well as the 'shut up and grin' class.

Foiled again. The pain and misery continues.
 
talloola
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Quote: Originally Posted by KreskinView Post

.. in having to live with female drama.

I work in an exclusively female place (except me), have a website that is exclusively female (except me) and have a wife and daughter. Most of the time I just duck and stay away from all the crap that goes on...but holy cow my life seems crazy around all these raging hormones.

You ladies need to lighten up!

I know your daughter loves you, but what about 'ALL' the other females, are they all
in love with you, hence the raging hormones, and what about your own hormones, you do
have them you know.

lol lol
 
gopher
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Most guys would like to exchange places with Kreskin!

 
Machjo
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Hey CC girls. I love you all. I might not agree with you all the time, but hey, you're a pleasure to to have around.

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How would you grade that?
 
Kreskin
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I wish it was the case. It's like a war zone at work (and my site).
 
Machjo
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I love you even more now, Karrie.

Now that I have my PhD (and intend to keep it):

Kreskin, you've been a bad boy. Now up to your room.

forget PhD. It's an FD (Femininity Doctorate).
 
Dexter Sinister
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Most guys would like to exchange places with Kreskin!

Not me. I know exactly what he's talking about. Nobody can tell me men and women don't think and behave differently. I've managed groups of up to two dozen people with various mixtures of males and females, and my observation (admittedly only anecdotal) is that men will work on a team with people they personally dislike for the sake of the common objective, women will not, they will sabotage each other. Men will focus on the task to be done, women will focus on the relationships among team members, and I found the greatest challenge in being a manager was balancing those differences.

Something else I've noticed, as a manager of mixed gender work teams, and as a husband, and a father of females, and a friend of many women, is that women cannot not talk if there's anyone within hearing distance, even when there's nothing to say. They'll say something anyway.
 
Curiosity
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LOL Kreskin

Even I as a female - hear ya loud and clear!

I grew up in a family of six sisters and one brother - I followed my brother around because he never talked
as much as the bossy females....never got on my case for getting mud on my shoes or jeans....and taught me
how to spit! Spitting enraged the sisters - which delighted me.

My sympathy to you fella! hehehe
 
TenPenny
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Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter SinisterView Post

Not me. I know exactly what he's talking about. Nobody can tell me men and women don't think and behave differently. I've managed groups of up to two dozen people with various mixtures of males and females, and my observation (admittedly only anecdotal) is that men will work on a team with people they personally dislike for the sake of the common objective, women will not, they will sabotage each other. Men will focus on the task to be done, women will focus on the relationships among team members, and I found the greatest challenge in being a manager was balancing those differences.

I remember what the general manager of an office mentioned to me one day at lunch: in a group of women at work, if two of them have a disupute, it simmers for weeks, all the other women have to get dragged into it, there's all kinds of whispering and talk...it makes life hell for everyone. If two men have a dispute at 10 am, they tell each other to go F themselves, then at 11:45, it's 'So, where are we going for lunch today?'

I also remember my university days. Sharing a residence room with another person, you're living side by side in a space about 15 x25 ft. There were plenty of cases of guys sharing rooms who didn't like each other, they just carried on. Starting about 6 wks into the term, though, there were always girls changing rooms because they didn't get along with their roommates.

Men and women think differently,that's all there is to it.
 
SirJosephPorter
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Quote: Originally Posted by gopherView Post

Most guys would like to exchange places with Kreskin!

I was going to say that gopher, but you beat me to it. Kreskin, I think most men will envy you.
 
TenPenny
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Quote: Originally Posted by gopherView Post

Most guys would like to exchange places with Kreskin!

Except those who are already in similar situations.
 
SirJosephPorter
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Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter SinisterView Post

Not me. I know exactly what he's talking about. Nobody can tell me men and women don't think and behave differently. I've managed groups of up to two dozen people with various mixtures of males and females, and my observation (admittedly only anecdotal) is that men will work on a team with people they personally dislike for the sake of the common objective, women will not, they will sabotage each other. Men will focus on the task to be done, women will focus on the relationships among team members, and I found the greatest challenge in being a manager was balancing those differences.

Something else I've noticed, as a manager of mixed gender work teams, and as a husband, and a father of females, and a friend of many women, is that women cannot not talk if there's anyone within hearing distance, even when there's nothing to say. They'll say something anyway.

I think the reason for that may be that men can compartmentalize their thoughts. I may dislike somebody, but I will compartmentalize the dislike, put it aside, if there is another, greater goal to be achieved.

Women are more into relationships, human interactions, so it is more difficult for them to compartmentalize. If they dislike somebody, that will spill over into any interactions they have with that particular person.

It is just a different way of thinking, it has its advantages and disadvantages.

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Except those who are already in similar situations.

Well, I haven’t been in a similar situation. In our house these used to be male majority, we have one son and that is it.

During my career (engineering and then IT), it was mostly male workforce, both the careers were (I assume still are) male oriented. As to my leisure interests, my big passion is chess. Women are not attracted to chess even after giving them all kinds of incentives. Chess players used to practice affirmative action long before anybody thought of the word. In any chess tournament there is always a prize for the best woman player (so the woman can compete for all the open prizes plus for the women’s prize). Still there are very few women in chess.

In Gilbert and Sullivan, it is mostly mixed crowd, but nowhere near majority females. So in both social or in work situation, I have never been in a female majority place. Many times I have been in a male majority situation.
 
AnnaG
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Quote: Originally Posted by KreskinView Post

.. in having to live with female drama.

I work in an exclusively female place (except me), have a website that is exclusively female (except me) and have a wife and daughter. Most of the time I just duck and stay away from all the crap that goes on...but holy cow my life seems crazy around all these raging hormones.

You ladies need to lighten up!

lol Ok, dad. hehehe

Quote: Originally Posted by machjoView Post

hey cc girls. I love you all. I might not agree with you all the time, but hey, you're a pleasure to to have around.

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how would you grade that?

A -

Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter SinisterView Post

Not me. I know exactly what he's talking about. Nobody can tell me men and women don't think and behave differently. I've managed groups of up to two dozen people with various mixtures of males and females, and my observation (admittedly only anecdotal) is that men will work on a team with people they personally dislike for the sake of the common objective, women will not, they will sabotage each other. Men will focus on the task to be done, women will focus on the relationships among team members, and I found the greatest challenge in being a manager was balancing those differences.

Something else I've noticed, as a manager of mixed gender work teams, and as a husband, and a father of females, and a friend of many women, is that women cannot not talk if there's anyone within hearing distance, even when there's nothing to say. They'll say something anyway.

*Anna gives Dex a wedgie*

Funny, but it takes men a really long time to figure out that it's really stupid to piss off the cook. Perhaps some women are petty, chatty, and vindictive, but what good are men really? Some critter to do heavy lifting? We have machines for that. Sex? We have machines for that, too. Kids? Not anymore. Now we have test tube kids.
 
Curiosity
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Anna don't give away the secrets hehehe.......!

I just a creepy feeling of women approaching each other in a dress shop..... "Hey dude - wanna get it on later? " oh ick. Vive la difference!
 
Dexter Sinister
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Funny, but it takes men a really long time to figure out that it's really stupid to piss off the cook.

Women aren't good at that either. At Chateau Sinister, I'm the cook most of the time.
 
Curiosity
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Dexter My husband totally outdid me on preparing the most wonderful meals - for large groups or just the two of us.....

What I prepared during the week was so pitiful and mundane - compared with his ideas. He really enjoyed dreaming up new ideas and looked forward to a Saturday or Sunday preparing a great meal. It's a gift and I was so happy he wasn't inclined to keep it to himself!!
 
AnnaG
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Quote: Originally Posted by CuriosityView Post

Anna don't give away the secrets hehehe.......!

I just a creepy feeling of women approaching each other in a dress shop..... "Hey dude - wanna get it on later? " oh ick. Vive la difference!

lol

Whatcher sign, baby?

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Women aren't good at that either. At Chateau Sinister, I'm the cook most of the time.

Oh cool, another househubby.

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Dexter My husband totally outdid me on preparing the most wonderful meals - for large groups or just the two of us.....

What I prepared during the week was so pitiful and mundane - compared with his ideas. He really enjoyed dreaming up new ideas and looked forward to a Saturday or Sunday preparing a great meal. It's a gift and I was so happy he wasn't inclined to keep it to himself!!

Yeah. Les comes up with some pretty tasty stuff, too.
 
talloola
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Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter SinisterView Post

Not me. I know exactly what he's talking about. Nobody can tell me men and women don't think and behave differently. I've managed groups of up to two dozen people with various mixtures of males and females, and my observation (admittedly only anecdotal) is that men will work on a team with people they personally dislike for the sake of the common objective, women will not, they will sabotage each other. Men will focus on the task to be done, women will focus on the relationships among team members, and I found the greatest challenge in being a manager was balancing those differences.

Something else I've noticed, as a manager of mixed gender work teams, and as a husband, and a father of females, and a friend of many women, is that women cannot not talk if there's anyone within hearing distance, even when there's nothing to say. They'll say something anyway.

The 'can't not talk' is my husband, and never me, I am the opposite, and enjoy quality quiet, BUT he is
italian, maybe that gets him off the hook, not sure. lol
 
Kreskin
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The women I work with (at both places) acknowledge there is extra emotional baggage brought to the teams.

Women can carry a grudge much farther than men. Like Ten Penny said, guys can scrap then get on with life, all within a few hours.
 
Goober
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Quote: Originally Posted by KreskinView Post

.. in having to live with female drama.

I work in an exclusively female place (except me), have a website that is exclusively female (except me) and have a wife and daughter. Most of the time I just duck and stay away from all the crap that goes on...but holy cow my life seems crazy around all these raging hormones.

You ladies need to lighten up!

My wife worked at a place in Montreal - 1 male supervisor - 50 women - Guess he had a great job.

Quote: Originally Posted by KreskinView Post

The women I work with (at both places) acknowledge there is extra emotional baggage brought to the teams.

Women can carry a grudge much farther than men. Like Ten Penny said, guys can scrap then get on with life, all within a few hours.

Studies have shown that women can and are the most creative at harassment both emotionally and mentally- Men sort of duke it out - verbally - women - not so much.
 
VanIsle
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Quote: Originally Posted by KreskinView Post

Foiled again. The pain and misery continues.

I'm sure you're just a peach to have around all the time right?????
You should have to really live with those raging hormones (not just be around them) and you'll know why they call them raging hormones.
Let's see: Can you have a baby? NO Do you get your monthly? NO Do your ankles and hands and stomach swell up? NO Do you have hot flashes (flushes)? NO.
Do you need to know anything more about raging hormones???? or have you learned enough?
Our doctor says that it is completely true that men can concentrate on only one thing at a time while women multi-task very well. That includes all of the above.
 
Kreskin
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I learned.. I promise!
 
VanIsle
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I learned.. I promise!

Good Boy!
 
Curiosity
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HAHAKreskin

I'm not gonna ask if you tried flirting with any of them - even once.....
 
Nuggler
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HAHAKreskin

I'm not gonna ask if you tried flirting with any of them - even once.....


.................and that would be the sling into which you would be getting your ass , right quickly, no? Or, just as soon as one of the flirtees got pissed at ya and decided that the flirt was sexy'all hair-ass-ment.

Not for all the money an promises in the world would I trade ya places.
 
Kreskin
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Nug is right. There is enough drama when following the PC manual. Otherwise it could be a slippery slide into a hornet's nest.
 
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