There are some women or very young girls who become pregnant who are unable to give their intellectual consent because they may have fragile intellect or some other conflicting disability where it would be advisable for them to abort....that is when
government intervention would be necessary, along with their parents if it was possible.
Your statement: Killing your own baby is not "carrying on a normal life".
...... is a good point made, however unfortunately what is normal these days is the concept that the early stages of gestation, an embryo is not a life-form.
What is normal to many women is post-abortion leaves a scar many of them carry for the remainder of their lives. I cannot stand in judgment for any of the women who make that difficult decision.
Some may not ever carry on a 'normal life' from that moment on, but what do you suggest they do?
Commit suicide? Spend time in jail? What?
And how does the sperm donor fit into this scenario.
I certainly would stand in judgment of any government who took it upon itself to make that determination for its female population.