Quote: Originally Posted by I think notThat was a very interesting post. Don't take this the wrong way, but any chance you are exaggerating?
I may be a little. And certainly there are always exceptions. So how about concrete examples.
Legally only authorised banks can convert currency. Yet I've seen people, money changers, standing in the bank's doorway, daily, same face, converting money outside. In the banks, lot's of burocracy, but not with these guys. But where do they get their money? Simple, they go to the bank! Now don't tell me the bank is that stupid to not know what's going on when the same guy stands at the door daily and exchanges money on a regular basis at the same bank!
Prostitution is illegal in China. Yet, if I, a single male, book into most hotels, right about sunset I'll start to hear a series of phone rignings right down the hall knowing it's about to hit my room within the next few calls. And sure enough, just like clockwork. offering a massage. Years ago, before I knew anything, I'd anser the phone and not understand. Later a knock on the door. The first time I was bloody confused. She was trying to get into my room while I had nothing but a towel around me. So I forced her to stay at the door while I got my dictionary, but when I'd gotten back to the door, she was gone. Only then did it dawn on me what was goin' on. Now I have to unplug my phone and use a DND sign every time. Or better yet, stay in a government hotel. But then, they are far and few between.
I've even gone so far as to ask a taxi driver to take me to a prostitution free hotel. Yet every time he'd take me to a brothel. I couln'd figure it out. Later I found out that the prostitution-free hotels are the government ones, and well known by taxi drivers. So what was goin' on? Well, later, as I started paying more attention, I'd noticed many taxis have stickers with phone numbers and addresses for local bath houses. Hmmmm.... Are they getting a cut?
On another occasion, i'd asked police officers for a local bath house sinse my appartment had no water (that's another story for a thread on Chinese ecology), so they showed me the way. Anyway, you'll like this story. Now this is after a few years of litle travelling, and in a new city where prostitution was more subtle. So anyway, I walk in and it seems all OK. I shower, put on my bath robe, walk to the back, and... Holy sh!t! Red light. So I step back in shock, recompose myself, and think, OK, none of my business, jut go to the room. Just as I'm about to regain my senses, one of the staff members OFFERS one to me! Holy ****. Second step back. So I walk to the room, p!ssed off (hey, I have mother and sister, this is just not on). I try to call 110 (police). inside line only. Sh!t. I go downstairs to use the front phone (I am really really p!ssed off). But then they say I can't use it, but I could use one of their personal cell phones (I want to nail these people!) By this time I'm not thinking rationally, so I take the phone and call a local net-friend! First time we'll meet face to face. Now using our own language, I tell him to call the police and send them over (I didn't call the police here since I'd have to use Chinese, and didn't want these pimps to hear me). So my friend says calm down, what's the problem. I says i'm in a brothel, and I'm pissed off, this is illegal and I want the police. He says calm down again, says he won't call the police but will be right there. So i wait while badmouthing the staff in my bathrobe. He arrives. Asks waht's the problem. They offered me a prostitute and I want to nail these pimps. So he explains, not a good idea, every bath house in town is the same, open secret (Oh now I know), and the police are paid. So if i called the police, small fine and they get back to business. As for me and my friend, well, a little trouble for us. I got the hint. So he gives them a word that I'm not happy (I think they'd figured that one out already though, and off I go to bed. yuck. So, next morning, 4 am, I'm up (couldn't sleep), go downstairs, shower, get out. Oh, still pissed off, this was more than a shock. First time I'd ever been OFFERED a woman so explicitley. At least in the hotels, she'd say massge, not sex, and I could turn down the massage and still pretend that maybe I'm jsut being paranoid about the sex part. Personal mind game to maintian my sanity, perhaps. But here there was no denying. They'd offered me sex. So I go to the cops, but language barrier, so I gave up and finally calmed down. But man i was pissed off for a day.
None of my friends will do business with anyone unless he's affiliated with his Guanxi.
I myself have sat in a banquet for police officers due to visa problems. The next day all my problems were solved. Yet only a day earlier, the problems seemed unsurmountable. Hmmm... He did not even really know these officers, and suddenly inviting them to a big expensive banquet?
I'd sat into a parents' meeting in which the school was lying to the parents. I was present to show a foreign face as I'd soon learnt, yet they'd conveniently cut out any question period. I.e, the school said what it wanted to say, and then that was the end. I suddenly had an appointment with some students right at that time. How convenient, good way to get me away from the parents. I know some Chinese and so could have told them alot.
I'd had to go see lawyers once, and the foreign affairs office on another occasion due to untruthful legal threats against me.
Fake 100 rmb notes abound. Every time I dig out 100, the shop must always check.
I've had numerous verbal agreements, but when it was time to sign on the dotted line, forget it. Hmmmm....
Copying copyrighted materials is the norm, even in schools.
Schools will hire Russians to teach English because they're white! No matter what credentials. Good marketing for students. I've witnessed it.
I'd been in a Buddhist restaurant which tried to jack up the price for me.
A pickpocket tried but failed to get my wallet on a bus.
I'd managed on numerous occasions to drop prices during bargaining 200 fold. Now if that's not dishonesty! On another occasion, people who thought I didn't understand Chinese would tell their friends that sinse I'm a foreigner I could pay more. Boy do they loose face when I then rip them apart in Chinese.
I've had one person try to rewrite my contract and switch it before signing! How low is that!
Women will regularly ask of foreigners' financial status!
And the list goes on. Some of this might happen in Canada, but I'd never had all of these, prostitution, bribery, police and taxi collusion, contract corruption, dishonering of contracts and dishonest attempts to change it or threaten staff, 20X jack ups in prices, bribing police, etc. etc. etc. all happening to me within a 4 year period? And then to hear similar or same stories or evenworse stories from all directions? And then observe how my Chinese friends themselves refuse to deal outside their guanxi? I'd never come across remotely similar in Canada to that extent, as a part of daily life! Incredible. Strangely enough, though, i still love China out of amazement at how some people have learnt to remain honest, strong and upright in character even in such a tough moral environment. Amazing.