This is a problem that has plagued me over the past 10 - 15 years. I used to be shy and never said much of anything. Then one day someone said to me "you talk so much" and I felt so hurt. For a number of years I felt two things about those words. First I thought she was obnoxious for saying them right to my face and more than that - I was embarrassed. Later on, another person said it to me. Then about a month ago, my own brother kind of made an apology to my cousin regarding my talking. My cousin hasn't been around me for years and since we had lots of catching up to do - I guess she hadn't noticed. I would not have known about his comment but she voiced it out loud right in front of him because she didn't agree. Maybe by the time she left here, she did agree. I have no idea. I did notice that her own husband has the same problem so maybe she's just used to it. It's even been pointed out to me on here. Not with the words "you talk too much". Words like "how about a break in paragraphs, or how about less words" and I know what that person is trying to tell me. Again I get embarrassed.
I looked it up on google. It appears that many people have the same problem. I am an extremely anxious person and another brother of mine says that he notices that the more anxious I become, the more I talk. Do you - or have you had this difficulty and what did you do about it. My only saving grace is that I don't talk to the customers oddly enough.8O:-(
I looked it up on google. It appears that many people have the same problem. I am an extremely anxious person and another brother of mine says that he notices that the more anxious I become, the more I talk. Do you - or have you had this difficulty and what did you do about it. My only saving grace is that I don't talk to the customers oddly enough.8O:-(