I just got dumped


glossprincess
#1
Ok, I just got dumped by a guy I've been seeing for just over a month.....pissy amount of time, I know. And I never even liked him anyway. But rejection hurts like a biatch. I need some comforting
 
FiveParadox
#2
Aw. Sorry to hear that, glossprincess! *hug*
 
glossprincess
#3
Thanks Five. I'm gonna go have cry and hopefully I'll be ok after that.......
 
dekhqonbacha
#4
let us know when you finish crying.
Otherwise you might not catch what we say.
 
Colpy
#5
The guy is obviously an idiot...........
 
glossprincess
#6
Haha, thanks Colpy! I'm past my sad stage and I'm just angry now!

Get this...the guy is 23 and a virgin. Now thats fine if you choose it to be the case, but that's just his situation cos he's **** with girls. I felt sorry for him, hence why I stayed with him. And I got dumped....for being nice! Ggggggrrrr
 
Finder
#7
I've got a solution for you, but it would take coming to canada. oh well. lol.

Sorry about getting dumped and all.
 
#juan
#8
You were obviously too good for him

Still a virgin at 23? This guy had no sense of adventure at all. Most men at 23 would have burst from R.S.S.* by that age. :P






* Retained Sperm Syndrome
 
dekhqonbacha
#9
He must be good all alone with everything. I mean he must mastribuate.
 
Dexter Sinister
#10
Um... you "never even liked him anyway?" He probably figured that out. Even the dumbest guys can usually spot that one. What were you thinking? What did you expect to happen? Why would you date a guy you don't like?

I know it can be rough getting dumped, but I find it hard to be sympathetic under the circumstances. It was going nowhere anyway and you knew it, you're just upset because he dumped you before you dumped him.
 
Vereya
#11
Glossprincess, how well do I understand you!
It is a strange thing with most men - the better you treat him, the nicer you are to him, the less he tries to do the same for you. There's just no changing them.
And don't you cry or get angry, dear. Just do what my cousing always advises me to do, when I am upset over something - lift your right hand, say - to hell with it (you need to say it very energectically), and then put your hand down as fast as you can. sometimes it does make you feel better, when you are doing everything right
Besides, look at it from this point of view - since he is a virgin at 23, when you finally get to bed, he wouldn't be able to do one single thing worth the time you've wasted on him. So why be upset? Cheer up!!
 
Jersay
#12
Sorry for being dumped glossprincess. But if you guys were only together for like a month, and you didn't like him and if he dumped you he didn't like you (I mean not like in the get together and be together kind of way) Then you should move on until the guy comes along that you feel is right.
 
Daz_Hockey
#13
Quote: Originally Posted by #juan

You were obviously too good for him

Still a virgin at 23? This guy had no sense of adventure at all. Most men at 23 would have burst from R.S.S.* by that age. :P






* Retained Sperm Syndrome

ahhh thats scarey Juan....very scary, 23 and still a virgin eh?, Wasnt Julio Englasias a virgin til he was 28?...and look at him!
 
evil midnight
#14
Quote: Originally Posted by Finder

I've got a solution for you, but it would take coming to canada. oh well. lol.

Sorry about getting dumped and all.

I don't think coming to Canada is the solution and I hope you Finder do not have any hidden agenda lol J/k I am sorry to hear that Hun, no worries the guy was a loser!
 
glossprincess
#15
Dexter, you're completely right! But perhaps I did like him just the tiniest, weeniest, most miniscule amount! He's soo shy and gets really nervous over nothing and I found it incredibly cute and endearing! But that's not enough reason to stay with him....I dunno what I was thinking *sigh*

I'm upset with myself for staying with him when I shouldnt have and the rejection stings, ya know?

Meh, I'll get over it. Thanks for all the advice and support though
 
Nuggler
#16
Jees Glossy: I'm a carin kinda guy, really. In spite of whut ya been tol about me by the crown attorney and the police.

But::::::::::: Yer goin out with a guy ya DON'T like. For a whole MONTH

Way back before I got married, if I went out with a girl, I could pick up almost immediately that she
l. Liked me
2.Didn't like me
3.Just would really like to ram a knife in my ribs.

And I ain't too bright. So,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,if this guy has any marbles at all, he shoulda dumped ya after the first date, or as soon as he realized you thought he might be good for a pet, or garden troll, or something besides a human being. Or you shoulda dumped him first (ego).

So, cry it out. Yer probably pissed cause you didn't do the dump him first option.

Get over it. He probably has.

Ugg's advice to the lovelorn. Believe it..........or don't

 
glossprincess
#17
I know, I know, I know, I know!!!!! Meh, now I feel like crap for bitchin about it in the first place

Stupid Sarah, stupid stupid stupid!!!
 
Nuggler
#18
Nah, you aren't stupid. You did, afterall, rid yourself of someone you really didn't care for. Now you can find someone you do. He, probably won't dump ya, cause he will "know" you like him.

Us guys are like dogs in a way. Scratch us behind the ears, feed us, be sincere, rub our tummies, and we'll folla ya anywhere, ferever. See??

Ask anyone.

Ugg.

Ugg's advice to the lovelorn is a non profit whadyacallit.
 
Semperfi_dani
#19
Sometimes men are rat bastards! But I think you will move on in good time.

I know that it used to piss me off when guys i wasn't all that interested in dumped me before i dumped them. But sometimes i was the dumper, and you just can't fake interest. Maybe he being the virgin wanted you to break his..um..cherry...and got mad cuz he wasn't getting any.
 
glossprincess
#20
^^^^ Haha, thats what I've been told by a few different people! I dont think its true somehow, if he's gone without it for 23 years, I'm sure he could go without it for a month!
 
Mogz
#21
Quote: Originally Posted by #juan

You were obviously too good for him

Still a virgin at 23? This guy had no sense of adventure at all. Most men at 23 would have burst from R.S.S.* by that age. :P






* Retained Sperm Syndrome

I know a guy that's 26, maybe even 27 by now, and he's still a virgin. Sad in'it?
 
Dexter Sinister
#22
Quote: Originally Posted by glossprincess

Stupid Sarah, stupid stupid stupid!!!

No, not stupid, just human. Don't beat yourself up about it. One of my basic rules of life is never speak ill of yourself. There are lots of other people who'll do that for you, don't encourage them.

Hey, we all screw up, we all make mistakes, we all need forgiveness, from ourselves most of all. It doesn't matter Princess, anyone who really loves you will understand and some day you'll laugh about this with them. Probably next week, in fact. My mother had a guy like that in her past, whose name she couldn't remember (which tells you how important he was to her) so she called him Otis Glop. I have a woman like that in my past too, whose name I *do* remember but won't share on the Internet: physically very attractive, dumb as a cork, but I was 28 and very lonely and very ready and wanting to be a husband and father, and she had this beautiful little boy, a ready-made family... Gawd, what a terrible temptation that was. I managed to avoid that mistake, but I've made some others.
 
glossprincess
#23
Thanks Dexter, very wise, you are! I definitely feel better now but I think I'm gonna have a wee little break from men for a while! All but two of the guys I've dated have been merely a source of attention for me but I have to learn how to be happy with who I am without constantly needing to be validated by men.

Do I sound sensible now, or what?!
 
MissAmz
#24
right on! i used to make the mistake of thinking i was miserable because i was single but u need to be happy with urself before u can make a relationship work. plus theres no use rushing into things, you'l be fine chick
 
skinzer
#25
Meh, cheer up, I've never had a real girlfriend yet (except for that girl that I was sure she liked me but she was actually in love somebody else) and I'm 18. I feel pretty much like reject right now. And I'm new in town, almost no friends and those friends don't really like hanging out with me. I really try to be nice with my friends and the more I try, the worst it is. It seems so hard to find someone that is nice and that wouldn't care for my stupidity. So cheer up, you're not worse than me.
 
Finder
#26
Quote: Originally Posted by skinzer

Meh, cheer up, I've never had a real girlfriend yet (except for that girl that I was sure she liked me but she was actually in love somebody else) and I'm 18. I feel pretty much like reject right now. And I'm new in town, almost no friends and those friends don't really like hanging out with me. I really try to be nice with my friends and the more I try, the worst it is. It seems so hard to find someone that is nice and that wouldn't care for my stupidity. So cheer up, you're not worse than me.

you and glossie are still very young. I didn't have much luck at your ages either.
 
iBubble
#27
As they all say, there are plenty more smelly fish in the sea!
 
Angee Baby
#28
o, i know how you feel. My Bf of a month just broke up with me, OVER AN EMAIL. and this is what he said, now how shallow is this, (well first before telling you how he said it i have a cold aka chest infection. and we were talking about breaking up 'cause we havent seen eachother in two weeks 'cause i was away on hollidays.) heres what he had said

" well i dont no if we should break up or not? what do you think?"
i reply
"well i dont want this to be just up to me im not in this relationship by myself."
he said
"well how long until your better?"
i said
" well im supposed to be better in a week."
he SAID
"then i dont want to see you anymore."

WHAT THE HECK HE CANT EVEN WAIT AROUND FOR ME FOR A FRIGGING WEEK????? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. but yah. like you i can relate cuz even though i didnt like him anymore it still hurts.

just dont let it get to you,
 
talloola
#29
Quote: Originally Posted by Dexter SinisterView Post

Um... you "never even liked him anyway?" He probably figured that out. Even the dumbest guys can usually spot that one. What were you thinking? What did you expect to happen? Why would you date a guy you don't like?

I know it can be rough getting dumped, but I find it hard to be sympathetic under the circumstances. It was going nowhere anyway and you knew it, you're just upset because he dumped you before you dumped him.

You took the words right out of my mouth. No sympathy here at all.
 
daisygirl
#30
Um, don't know how to tell you this, Angie Baby and talloola, but you're responding to a post that's over a year old. I think she has probably forgotten the guy by now.
 

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