Ok, I just got dumped by a guy I've been seeing for just over a month.....pissy amount of time, I know. And I never even liked him anyway. But rejection hurts like a biatch. I need some comforting 
I just got dumped
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Haha, thanks Colpy! I'm past my sad stage and I'm just angry now!
Get this...the guy is 23 and a virgin. Now thats fine if you choose it to be the case, but that's just his situation cos he's shit with girls. I felt sorry for him, hence why I stayed with him. And I got dumped....for being nice! Ggggggrrrr
Get this...the guy is 23 and a virgin. Now thats fine if you choose it to be the case, but that's just his situation cos he's shit with girls. I felt sorry for him, hence why I stayed with him. And I got dumped....for being nice! Ggggggrrrr
I've got a solution for you, but it would take coming to canada. oh well. lol.
Sorry about getting dumped and all.
Sorry about getting dumped and all.
Um... you "never even liked him anyway?" He probably figured that out. Even the dumbest guys can usually spot that one. What were you thinking? What did you expect to happen? Why would you date a guy you don't like?
I know it can be rough getting dumped, but I find it hard to be sympathetic under the circumstances. It was going nowhere anyway and you knew it, you're just upset because he dumped you before you dumped him.
I know it can be rough getting dumped, but I find it hard to be sympathetic under the circumstances. It was going nowhere anyway and you knew it, you're just upset because he dumped you before you dumped him.
Glossprincess, how well do I understand you!
It is a strange thing with most men - the better you treat him, the nicer you are to him, the less he tries to do the same for you. There's just no changing them.
And don't you cry or get angry, dear. Just do what my cousing always advises me to do, when I am upset over something - lift your right hand, say - to hell with it (you need to say it very energectically), and then put your hand down as fast as you can. sometimes it does make you feel better, when you are doing everything right
Besides, look at it from this point of view - since he is a virgin at 23, when you finally get to bed, he wouldn't be able to do one single thing worth the time you've wasted on him. So why be upset? Cheer up!!
It is a strange thing with most men - the better you treat him, the nicer you are to him, the less he tries to do the same for you. There's just no changing them.
And don't you cry or get angry, dear. Just do what my cousing always advises me to do, when I am upset over something - lift your right hand, say - to hell with it (you need to say it very energectically), and then put your hand down as fast as you can.
sometimes it does make you feel better, when you are doing everything right Besides, look at it from this point of view - since he is a virgin at 23, when you finally get to bed, he wouldn't be able to do one single thing worth the time you've wasted on him. So why be upset? Cheer up!!
Sorry for being dumped glossprincess. But if you guys were only together for like a month, and you didn't like him and if he dumped you he didn't like you (I mean not like in the get together and be together kind of way) Then you should move on until the guy comes along that you feel is right. :wink:
#juan said:You were obviously too good for him
Still a virgin at 23? This guy had no sense of adventure at all. Most men at 23 would have burst from R.S.S.* by that age.
* Retained Sperm Syndrome
ahhh thats scarey Juan....very scary, 23 and still a virgin eh?, Wasnt Julio Englasias a virgin til he was 28?...and look at him!
Finder said:
I don't think coming to Canada is the solution and I hope you Finder do not have any hidden agenda lol J/k I am sorry to hear that Hun, no worries the guy was a loser! :lol:
Dexter, you're completely right! But perhaps I did like him just the tiniest, weeniest, most miniscule amount! He's soo shy and gets really nervous over nothing and I found it incredibly cute and endearing! But that's not enough reason to stay with him....I dunno what I was thinking *sigh*
I'm upset with myself for staying with him when I shouldnt have and the rejection stings, ya know?
Meh, I'll get over it. Thanks for all the advice and support though
I'm upset with myself for staying with him when I shouldnt have and the rejection stings, ya know?
Meh, I'll get over it. Thanks for all the advice and support though
Jees Glossy: I'm a carin kinda guy, really. In spite of whut ya been tol about me by the crown attorney and the police.But::::::::::: :? :? Yer goin out with a guy ya DON'T like. For a whole MONTH :!: :!:
Way back before I got married, if I went out with a girl, I could pick up almost immediately that she
l. Liked me
2.Didn't like me
3.Just would really like to ram a knife in my ribs.
And I ain't too bright. So,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,if this guy has any marbles at all, he shoulda dumped ya after the first date, or as soon as he realized you thought he might be good for a pet, or garden troll, or something besides a human being. Or you shoulda dumped him first (ego).
So, cry it out. Yer probably pissed cause you didn't do the dump him first option.
Get over it. He probably has.
Ugg's advice to the lovelorn. Believe it..........or don't
8)
I know, I know, I know, I know!!!!! Meh, now I feel like crap for bitchin about it in the first place
Stupid Sarah, stupid stupid stupid!!!
Stupid Sarah, stupid stupid stupid!!!
Nah, you aren't stupid. You did, afterall, rid yourself of someone you really didn't care for. Now you can find someone you do. He, probably won't dump ya, cause he will "know" you like him. Us guys are like dogs in a way. Scratch us behind the ears, feed us, be sincere, rub our tummies, and we'll folla ya anywhere, ferever. See??
Ask anyone. :roll:
:lol: Ugg. :?:
Ugg's advice to the lovelorn is a non profit whadyacallit.
Sometimes men are rat bastards! But I think you will move on in good time.
I know that it used to piss me off when guys i wasn't all that interested in dumped me before i dumped them. But sometimes i was the dumper, and you just can't fake interest. Maybe he being the virgin wanted you to break his..um..cherry...and got mad cuz he wasn't getting any.
I know that it used to piss me off when guys i wasn't all that interested in dumped me before i dumped them. But sometimes i was the dumper, and you just can't fake interest. Maybe he being the virgin wanted you to break his..um..cherry...and got mad cuz he wasn't getting any.
^^^^ Haha, thats what I've been told by a few different people! I dont think its true somehow, if he's gone without it for 23 years, I'm sure he could go without it for a month!