Contract of Wifely Expectations


Said1
#1
And guess what girls, I think this guy is recently single!

His stupid wife, just doesn't appreciate a good thing when she has it. Pls read all four pages to fully experience full blown rage.

Link (external - login to view)
 
Said1
#2
I can't believe this didn't garner any responses.

Here's a refreshed link.

www.thesmokinggun.com/archive...contract1.html (external - login to view)
 
Kreskin
#3
The odd thing is, if he went to prison he'd probably get marriage proposals.
 
Niflmir
#4
I remember reading this story a while back. I was pretty enraged. Of course, with people like Laura Schlessinger out there and the anti-PC rhetoric, there is no end to people trying to justify this guy´s actions. I have met many a person who didn´t think it was possible for a husband to rape his wife. Yes, apparently getting married is renunciation of free will.
 
tracy
#5
What a prince.... The sick thing is some women will tolerate this.
 
Kreskin
#6
Quote: Originally Posted by tracyView Post

What a prince.... The sick thing is some women will tolerate this.

True, it makes you wonder what goes on in the world that never surfaces in public.
 
CDNBear
#7
I remeber this story, the guy was a loon, even the BDSM community thought the guy was off his rocker and they have contracts simular to this, lmao.
 
CDNBear
#8
Quote: Originally Posted by tracyView Post

What a prince.... The sick thing is some women will tolerate this.

Quote: Originally Posted by KreskinView Post

True, it makes you wonder what goes on in the world that never surfaces in public.

You'ld be surprised...

www.collarme.com (external - login to view)
 
Vereya
#9
I only read the first two points, and just couldn't go on reading. What kind of person do you have to be, to continue a relationship with such a man, after you see this "document"?
 
Niflmir
#10
Quote: Originally Posted by VereyaView Post

I only read the first two points, and just couldn't go on reading. What kind of person do you have to be, to continue a relationship with such a man, after you see this "document"?

I think these things generally surface in relationships with psychological abuse/reward cycles that keep victims emotionally dependent on their abusers. This just happens to be a really extreme example.
 
Sparrow
#11
I couldn't even finish the first page. If a man handed me something like this I would have literally have made him eat his words and then kicked him to the curb.

He doesn't want a wife! He wants a toy! Any woman who signs this agreement deserves what she gets, I would have no pity for her. I shouldn't say that because it would take a women who has no self-esteem and really needs help.
 
Niflmir
#12
Quote: Originally Posted by SparrowView Post

I couldn't even finish the first page. If a man handed me something like this I would have literally have made him eat his words and then kicked him to the curb.

He doesn't want a wife! He wants a toy! Any woman who signs this agreement deserves what she gets, I would have no pity for her. I shouldn't say that because it would take a women who has no self-esteem and really needs help.

I would be more likely to say that the man needs a trip to the room with padded walls.
 
karrie
#13
You know, I hate to admit that I know people with contracts like this, people deeply involved in BDSM. It's a typical master/slave contract in their circles, laying out what it expected, what will be tolerated, what won't. It really doesn't hinge on there being a marriage even. One of the doms I know draws up similar contracts with the men who hire her to kick them around. Hygiene, dress code, etc., all are addressed in her contacts.

That being said, both parties have to be on the same page for a contract like that to not be utterly stupid (well, it's stupid anyway, but I hope you know what I mean). lol. It sounds from the write up like this guy was perhaps a bit immersed in the computer porn culture, rather than paying attention to what his wife actually wanted. There's an important lesson to be had there for every male....

..... just because some chick on the internet is into it, doesn't mean your significant other will be!!
 
hermanntrude
#14
Quote: Originally Posted by karrieView Post

..... just because some chick on the internet is into it, doesn't mean your significant other will be!!

usually cos the chick on the internet is being paid and gets to stop afterwards and count her cash
 
eh1eh
#15
A guy can dream can't? LOL Really though sounds like it wouldn't be that much fun but then again I'm married to a career woman and like it fine. I enjoy someone who can asert themselves.
Hey Bear , couldn't find your profile on that site you linked, what's your nic there?
 
karrie
#16
Quote: Originally Posted by eh1ehView Post

A guy can dream can't? LOL Really though sounds like it wouldn't be that much fun but then again I'm married to a career woman and like it fine. I enjoy someone who can asert themselves.
Hey Bear , couldn't find your profile on that site you linked, what's your nic there?

The funny thing is, the people I know who are involved in the BDSM scene, ARE career women. Much like the CEO's who seek out dominatrixes, so do dominant women often seek out someone to be their master in their down time. Obviously, this guy hit pretty wide from the mark, but if you note the wording of his contract, it's almost all about controlling her down time, not her day to day activities. There are women out there who gladly hand over their control of it. You just don't hear about them in the news, because they signed their contracts. lol.
 
CDNBear
#17
Quote: Originally Posted by karrieView Post

You know, I hate to admit that I know people with contracts like this, people deeply involved in BDSM. It's a typical master/slave contract in their circles, laying out what it expected, what will be tolerated, what won't. It really doesn't hinge on there being a marriage even. One of the doms I know draws up similar contracts with the men who hire her to kick them around. Hygiene, dress code, etc., all are addressed in her contacts.

That being said, both parties have to be on the same page for a contract like that to not be utterly stupid (well, it's stupid anyway, but I hope you know what I mean). lol. It sounds from the write up like this guy was perhaps a bit immersed in the computer porn culture, rather than paying attention to what his wife actually wanted. There's an important lesson to be had there for every male....

..... just because some chick on the internet is into it, doesn't mean your significant other will be!!

Absolutely, it's called S.S.C., Safe, Sane, Consentual.
Quote: Originally Posted by hermanntrudeView Post

usually cos the chick on the internet is being paid and gets to stop afterwards and count her cash

Not at all, many men and women, participate freely.

Quote: Originally Posted by eh1ehView Post

A guy can dream can't? LOL Really though sounds like it wouldn't be that much fun but then again I'm married to a career woman and like it fine. I enjoy someone who can asert themselves.
Hey Bear , couldn't find your profile on that site you linked, what's your nic there?

I'll never tell!!! LMAO!!!

Did you try "Jebus fish"?
 

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