Okay... while I find the declaration a bit dumb and naive,
Meh, that's your opinion....
I also take offense at the notion that someone who has only one partner would be boring in bed.
If you're going to have problems with what I am saying, please get it right.
I would like to point out that I never said someone who only has one sexual partner would be boring in bed, you said that. What I said was in relation to someone who never had sex until after they were married. You could have had sex prior to getting married with just one partner, and worked on that side of the relationship before you both agreed that you could see yourselves spending the rest of your lives together..... but making such a decision with missing factors such as each person's sexual preferences, kinks, likes/dislikes, etc... is what I have a personal issue with.... but to each their own.
You can't be a good artist if you don't practice.
Personality is personality.
But Personality isn't Sexual Experience/Knowlege. I could have a great personality and at the same time, end up poking your eye out..... hypothetically speaking of course.
Then again.... someone's ability to be good at sex is subjective to the person receiving the services from the person in question.... which is why nothing I say or what you say is absolute in this topic... I'm stating my opinion, I am not stating fact.
A willingness to adapt and change according to your partner and to try new things, doesn't necessarily come about just because you've got a lot of notches on your belt. I'll assume you were just being funny but, ouch Prax.
I was being funny, but you misunderstood what I was talking about.
Hell, in honesty, I've only had 3 sexual partners so far in my 28 years on this planet.... to many, that's not a lot.... to some others, it is..... but I'm not talking about how many sexual partners one has, I'm talking about whether or not you know you and your partner are sexually compatible prior to deciding you both can live with one another for the rest of your lives. When you're not being fullfilled with the person you love and married, and they are restrictive in certain things you like (or vice versa) then there is a ignition for someone to start cheating.... not always, but the chances are there and they do increase, as someone will continually want to fullfill some kinky fantasy, their partner won't, but you know of others who will.
Is it right? Nope.... but it does happen. Getting a little sexual education with your partner prior to marrying them and starting a life can help in some cases. Sex isn't the be all / end all of a relationship... but it is a valid part of the relationship that should be taken into considderation.... and I personally don't think it should be left up to guessing or wishful thinking until after you're married to the person you feel you should be.
My snippy comment towards her public attention grabbing that she wants to be a virgin, is more so towards that fact that
A) - Who gives a crap what she does with her personal sexual life, and
B) - It was just a simple marketing ploy to suck in more parents to buy her music for their kids, because she's a "Good Role Model" much as what Jessica Simpson attempted to try.
But in the end, Simpson's marriage failed, she got divorced, and currently a small blip on the celeb radar with a few apperances here and there.... along with her covers of other people's songs that she's butchers to a horrible and slow death.
A mirror of what Sparks has in store for her future.
When you try and revolve your personal life around what will make you more money, rather then just relying on your talent and hard work, you won't last very long when your personal life begins to contradict what you preached to everybody to get you to where you are today.
That's show biz.
