Some would argue we're soft in the head rather than soft in the heart.;-)
But honestly, Im very proud of the effort Dave has been making here. He'll be the first to admit, he was wayy waaaaayyyyy out of line on the vine. He has expressed some remorse for that on the vine, in my forum, and to me privately. Some have chosen not to acknowledge any apology and that is thier right I suppose. Here, for the most part, he seems to really be making an effort.
Positive reinforcement works wonders on Dave--and on most of us frankly.
Most of the viners, while not interested in being Daves buddy, are willing to let go of the past so long as it doesnt come here. There's still a bit of a problem with bleed through from time to time but I know dave is trying.