Quote: And to Unforgiven: I don't rely on my relatives to bail me out. This is where things are and I am living with that, this has nothing to do with me not knowing what I was doing.
Do you trust your finacially secure relatives advice? That's usually the first person you talk to when looking at a deal.
Quote: This has to do with poor tracking laws of timber in AB and a company that is bullying myself and my neighbor and lying to us and continually wasting our time. I came home early from work to meet him to look at the clean up and he never showed up or called. I took three hours off work a mont later to meet with Leon and he was a half hour late, told me he would call the next day. Three weeks later he never called, so I call him and he says I am harrassing him.
I don't mean to be rude, just trying to make a point. This all sounds like a bunch of nose picking. Am I supposed to care if Leon was late or how many hours you took off work?
Quote: I am not crying about things and you dont think that I dont' know it is a big bad world out there? I have been through it all and survived. You won't meet anyone with more survival abilites than me and I do not need to change. I am a strong and capable person that moved 1100 kms on my own to someplace I don't know anyone, got a job, bought property, completely renovated my house (on my own) from the studs up, including hot water system, windows, electrical, drywall, flooring etc. I work a full time job, commute two hours a day and work on the farm until 11 pm every night and raise a 4 year old as a single parent.
I am not changing who I am or whining.
I get that your nose is out of joint from my last message. It shouldn't be. I offered you some good advice. You don't seem to understand it.
First, let go of your ego a minute. If I didn't want to help when you asked for advice I wouldn't have said anything. You won't like what I have to say but it's true and once you get to the point you accept it, you will begin to turn this thing around or at least learn a lesson from it.
To start with, you obviously don't know what you are doing or you wouldn't be talking about it on some message board on the Internet.
You have a written contract. IF you don't have a written contract, then you are going to learn that without a written contract you're screwed. This is why we have written contracts. You can say Leon told you this that and the next thing, and all Leon has to do is say that he didn't. Then you are stuck. If you do have a written contract, then you examine what is laid out in the written contract. The only thing that counts is whats written in the contract. Leon can say that you promised to bring the lads out a cup of tea everyday at 4 and sing a nice little ditty about the life of a lumberjack, but it doesn't matter unless it's in the written contract. Understand?
Now if you didn't bother paying a lawyer to look over the contract and advise you, then enjoy the little bit of money you saved. Was it worth it?
This is pretty simple. You should have a written cotnract that spells out all the responsibilites and oblgations of both parties named in the contract. If there is a violation then you take them to court and they pay what ever it costs to live up to the conditions of the contract. If it's burms or clean up, what ever.
You don't even have to utter a word on any website at all. If you know what you are doing. Which takes full circle. And you never said you know even the first thing about tort law or understand a contract in that list of wonderful abilities you have.
All sarcasm aside, you sound like a wonderful lady and mother, probably a very nice person too. But none of that counts in court, which is where this should be resolved. By the looks of what you have posted so far, you don't have the slightest idea what you are doing in that regard. The courts are full of people like you, getting screwed by people who know the rules and can use them against you because of your ignorance. And no offence but what you have posted so far here, is a pretty good indicator that you are going to get smoked.
You don't want to change? Whatever, get taken time and time again. Assume that no one will ever take what you got and fail to live up to their end of the arrangement. Keep thinking that because you are honest and live up to your obligations that everyone else will. That since your word is your bond, there is no need for contracts. There is a difference between being independant and foolish.
Talk to a lawyer and maybe you will find one that is able enough to get Leon tripped up enough to assume the liability or scared enough to take responsibility and do the right thing.
If you feel I'm rough on you good. It's so that you will remember to take great care right from the beginning so that you wind up carefree at the end.
Best of luck.
Allister