Ontario sex-education debate turns heated in Halton

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When Joel Louzado first read through Ontario’s new sex education curriculum, he began to tear up.

The openly gay Grade 12 student from Oakville, Ont., was moved that different sexual and gender identities would be introduced to students as early as in Grade 3, when they are taught that some kids have gay parents.



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“Sexuality and gay people was not something that was talked about in school. It was something that I learned about from friends and I learned about online,” said Mr. Louzado, a Halton Catholic District School Board student trustee. “If I had learned about it in school before I had to deal with it, I feel like it would have been a lot easier to come to terms with my own sexuality and accept myself.”

Mr. Louzado defended the curriculum last week at a HCDSB meeting as a motion by trustee Anthony Danko was debated to delay a year in implementing the curriculum, instead of starting it in September as required by the province. The motion was defeated, and the board called police to deal with parents yelling at each other in the lobby after the meeting.

Marcus Logan, executive director of LGBTQ youth support group Positive Space Network of Halton, brought Catholic school students who access his services to the meeting. He said some parents told the youth they would go to hell, and connected homosexuality to pedophilia. As tensions flared, one woman even threatened to punch another parent, Mr. Logan said.

“This is not Christianity. This is not love,” he said. “I realize that what we experienced that night was a very small fraction of practising and faithful Catholic people and that does not, I feel, represent the Catholic people who I know.”

No charges were laid and the crowd dissipated soon after officers arrived, Halton police said.

As in the rest of Ontario, polarized debates within the Halton Catholic school community surrounding sex education show no signs of subsiding. Although Catholic schools will implement a modified curriculum that teaches the same concepts in a faith-based context, many parents are unhappy about the inclusion of such topics as same-sex relationships and masturbation.

“The program that would have the legal authority in the schools would still be the ministry program. And we really feel that the content of that program is not suitable for Catholic schools,” said Teresa Pierre, president of Parents as First Educators, a group opposed to the new curriculum. Even a modified curriculum provided by the Institute for Catholic Education is problematic, Ms. Pierre added, because it will still, for example, move some content into earlier grades, such as identifying genitalia in Grade 1. “The ICE program will follow the ministry’s program closely enough.”

The Ministry of Education is providing resources and experts to ICE and several other groups, such as the Ontario Principals’ Council, to help school boards implement the sex-ed curriculum. ICE executive director Michael Pautler said the group is also in talks with the province about funding for teaching materials to help implement ICE’s new curriculum in schools.

“We haven’t settled on a figure yet,” Mr. Pautler said. “Certainly, there’s been no money received from them to this point.”

Parents are still determined to block the new curriculum, Ms. Pierre said, and will approach trustees and their local MPPs again in the fall.

“They may take the step of holding their children out of school. That’s being talked about throughout the province right now,” Ms. Pierre said.

In the face of that outrage, Mr. Danko introduced his motion, arguing Catholic boards are legally entitled to adapt a curriculum if it contradicts their faith.

“It would give a chance to address reasonable concerns that many people of many backgrounds have about this,” he said, adding the fact that it has to be modified for Catholic schools proves the curriculum is not appropriate to begin with.

“If it’s not suitable for Catholic children, it’s not suitable for any children,” Mr. Danko said.

His motion failed to pass after the vote split evenly among eight trustees. Board chair Jane Michael broke the tie to go on the record opposing the motion, as parents yelled “Shame!”

“They’re not writing a new curriculum, they’re adjusting it to the 21st century,” said Ms. Michael, who sought guidance from bishops and a lawyer before the meeting and was advised the province could place the board under supervision if it tried to delay implementing the curriculum.

Ms. Michael said she is confident ICE will deliver a modified curriculum in line with Catholic values. “They’ve never failed us before.”

Mr. Pautler said the group will provide the Ministry of Education with a road map of its updated Family Life sex-ed curriculum, used in Catholic schools for decades, outlining how it covers all the requirements of the general curriculum.

“It is sometimes different by virtue of the language that is used,” Mr. Pautler said. “We draw on our faith tradition to explain and to position some of the ideas and some of the concepts that are presented.”

He said Family Life puts human development, sexuality and relationships in a broader context that expands students’ understanding of their faith.

In August, Catholic school boards will receive communications material to help parents understand how Ontario’s new curriculum will be integrated into Family Life. ICE will then distribute documents to help teachers develop lesson plans and deliver the curriculum in classrooms starting in October, and will add more as the organization develops resources.

Mr. Pautler said parents can be reassured because the Assembly of Catholic Bishops of Ontario will be among several organizations to review all the material before it is released.

“We’re confident that we can work with the curriculum and will develop resources that will assist teachers in delivering it in ways that are meaningful and appropriate,” he said.

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Despite protests, Ontario is going forward with a newer, more modern sex ed curriculum. These girls helped make it happen. | KERA News
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There’s a battle afoot over sex education in the Canadian province of Ontario. The government says it’s overhauling its sex ed curriculum — which it hasn’t done since 1998 — to prepare kids for issues like tolerance and consent. Some parents say they’ll pull their children out of class rather than expose them to what they call harmful material. But two teen activists are not only welcoming the changes: they helped make them.

A little background: starting in the fall of 2015, the new sex ed lesson plans will start in Grade One with “identifying body parts, including genitalia.” With each successive grade, the curriculum encourages more knowledge about sexuality, in a way that the government says is age and developmentally appropriate. But it didn’t emphasize the issue of consent enough for 13-year-old students Lia Valente and Tessa Hill.

The two eighth graders, for a class assignment, made a short film that deals frankly with rape, including cases like the sexual assault of a high school girl in Steubenville, Ohio.

The film, called “Allegedly: Rape Culture in our Society," got noticed, along with a petition to add consent to the sex-ed curriculum. The girls got to meet Ontario Premier Kathleen Wynne to talk about sex education, and why the consent needed to be emphasized in the lesson plans.

“I think the new curriculum is really awesome,” Hill says. “Both Lia and I are really happy it’s been updated.”

Valente adds: “I’m mostly just happy that the curriculum is finally going to catch up with what teens and young people have already been learning through the media, [since] that may not be healthy or reliable information.”

But what Valente calls reliable, others call inappropriate.

Thousands of Ontario parents kept their children out of school in recent protests against the new curriculum.

More than 2,000 people gathered recently on the lawns of the provincial legislature in Toronto. Many of the protestors wore signs of religious faith, from hijabs to rosaries, and many had concerns about content of lesson plans aimed at the youngest students. A 10-year-old named Manahil addressed the crowd, saying that first through third grades are “the time for kids to play and learn science, math, social studies and English. Not sex, the dirty stuff that will be taught at school.

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“I’m opposed to this because in the future, I don’t want to teach my kids anything ‘inappropriate,’” says 21-year-old Esther Henen. “In my definition, ‘inappropriate’ is anything exposing different parts, private parts, to the opposite gender.” Henen admitted she had not yet had time to read the proposed curriculum.

Threaded through the protests are suggestions that the debate over sex education is also for some a debate about homosexuality. One speaker asked to be “protected” from the purported homosexual agenda of Premier Wynne, Canada’s first openly gay premier.

Away from the arguments and the protests, Lia Valente and Tessa Hill are trying to spread the word about consent by showing their film online and at meetings. For them, a new approach to sex education means children won’t learn about sex solely from Internet porn or be unprepared for social media issues like sexting and body-shaming.

The girls know they’re growing up in a different world than their mothers did. Valente says her mother told her she didn’t know what “consent” meant “until she was in her 30s.”

The two are not daunted by the generational gap; they’re excited to tackle it.

“I am definitely going to grow up differently because of what I’ve learned…about sex in general, and gender and sexuality,” Hill says. “I know I can be comfortable in myself and also just be confident.”

Her province is trying to do the same.





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Apart from a couple small, and I do mean small, issues, I can't find any real problem with the new sex ED material.

It's good to see it finally dragged into the 20th century.
 

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Most people don't even know what they're complaining about.
I agree. And those that do, are far to entrenched in religious dogma to ever see the light of day.

Most of it is really commonsense stuff that kids should learn at an earlier age.

My only concern is, not every child matures at the same rate. I really wish there was a way to scale the presentation of said material to that, but there isn't, so you have to run with the greater good.
 

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I agree. And those that do, are far to entrenched in religious dogma to ever see the light of day.

Most of it is really commonsense stuff that kids should learn at an earlier age.

School is a very sterile place to learn about sex, which might not be such a bad thing, being more clinical about it in the first place. They're going to get all kinds of emotional and hormonal about it in a few years. I think the idea to present the information just as information, just something to learn, could be beneficial.

My only concern is, not every child matures at the same rate. I really wish there was a way to scale the presentation of said material to that, but there isn't, so you have to run with the greater good.

Even given that the material might be slightly above the heads of a few, in a few years they'll have a greater comprehension of what they've learned.
 

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School is a very sterile place to learn about sex, which might not be such a bad thing, being more clinical about it in the first place. They're going to get all kinds of emotional and hormonal about it in a few years. I think the idea to present the information just as information, just something to learn, could be beneficial.
It's quite obvious it was written to be pretty sterile, while including modules to increase tolerance while minimizing the marginalization of children from households that may not be as excepting of the curriculum.

I'll be honest, I find the presentation of the curriculum and the reaction to its cool welcoming, more ignorant than the curriculum itself, lol

And despite the involvement of a convicted pedo, I can't find any real fault with it.

Even given that the material might be slightly above the heads of a few, in a few years they'll have a greater comprehension of what they've learned.
One can hope. I have found in my own experiences, that being able to only grasp part of the material, can lead to a more dangerous place. For lack of a better term.
 

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It's quite obvious it was written to be pretty sterile, while including modules to increase tolerance while minimizing the marginalization of children from households that may not be as excepting of the curriculum.

I'll be honest, I find the presentation of the curriculum and the reaction to its cool welcoming, more ignorant than the curriculum itself, lol

And despite the involvement of a convicted pedo, I can't find any real fault with it.

The stuff I took in school was sterile, lol. If I recall correctly the description of what occurs after penetration was "some pleasure". Quite the understatement. Lol. The problem was it came kind of too late, we were already pubescent. We already knew his description was an understatement, even if not by personal experience than by simply being able to comprehend the level of pleasure by our hormonal drives alone.

I like the idea of it being introduced early, in stages, as part of simple biology. Because it's long past the time to let go of the hang ups about sex and understand that it's about biology. Once you grasp that part the emotional component, well it won't be easier, but at least you won't be dealing with half-truths and misinformation in an already confusing time.

One can hope. I have found in my own experiences, that being able to only grasp part of the material, can lead to a more dangerous place. For lack of a better term.
But I think, maybe, by starting younger it will be more ingrained within them. The proper, safe, healthy information will be.
 

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But I think, maybe, by starting younger it will be more ingrained within them. The proper, safe, healthy information will be.
I like how it conveys that you own your body. I think that will empower youngsters that may otherwise be more prone to victimization.

The stuff I took in school was sterile, lol. If I recall correctly the description of what occurs after penetration was "some pleasure". Quite the understatement. Lol. The problem was it came kind of too late, we were already pubescent. We already knew his description was an understatement, even if not by personal experience than by simply being able to comprehend the level of pleasure by our hormonal drives alone.

I like the idea of it being introduced early, in stages, as part of simple biology. Because it's long past the time to let go of the hang ups about sex and understand that it's about biology. Once you grasp that part the emotional component, well it won't be easier, but at least you won't be dealing with half-truths and misinformation in an already confusing time.
Sterile might have been to strong a word. Tame maybe. I was trying to get across that it wasn't pornographic or as extreme as some had portrayed it.
 

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I like how it conveys that you own your body. I think that will empower youngsters that may otherwise be more prone to victimization.

I think just talking to children about their bodies will do that.

Sterile might have been to strong a word. Tame maybe. I was trying to get across that it wasn't pornographic or as extreme as some had portrayed it.
I think clinical is the appropriate word, and I think it should be. And of course it's not going to be extreme. I will admit I haven't familiarized myself with all of it, but I've come across enough of it to know that.
 

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I think just talking to children about their bodies will do that.
I'm not sure about that.

I think clinical is the appropriate word, and I think it should be. And of course it's not going to be extreme. I will admit I haven't familiarized myself with all of it, but I've come across enough of it to know that.
I can assure you, it's not. I can understand how some may find the modules that promote tolerance of alt sexuality will ruffle feathers. Regardless of what age it's being directed at.
 

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I'm not sure about that.

Well not in just any which way, but if you're giving them information and helping them to understand their own biology that will go a long way.

I can assure you, it's not. I can understand how some may find the modules that promote tolerance of alt sexuality will ruffle feathers. Regardless of what age it's being directed at.
Well that's what people are really upset about, tolerance about alt sexuality. Any complaints about the rest of the material is just smoke and mirrors.
 

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Well not in just any which way, but if you're giving them information and helping them to understand their own biology that will go a long way.
One would hope.

Well that's what people are really upset about, tolerance about alt sexuality. Any complaints about the rest of the material is just smoke and mirrors.
I agree.
 

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One would hope.

Well, it's the public school system. It can't be all things to all kids, it has to do the best it can to reach the broadest base and do the most good. And don't forget, it may not be everything to this generation but maybe to the next? Or the one after that? These things build.

I think the part the irritates me the most is that they don't just come out and admit it.
 

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Catholic trustees call for one-year delay of Ontario’s new sex ed curriculum | Metro
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Two Toronto Catholic school trustees are calling for a one-year delay of Ontario’s new sex education curriculum to give parents a chance to respond to lessons they believe contradict Catholic values.

Trustees Angela Kennedy and Garry Tanuan want the Toronto Catholic District School Board to delay implementation of the curriculum, to be launched this fall across the province, because they say it doesn’t present sexuality in the context of love and marriage.

The fact that Catholic educators are being allowed to design special resources to help Catholic teachers present the material within a Catholic framework only proves the material is controversial to begin with, they suggest.

“Substantial parts of the curriculum contradict Catholic teachings,” said Kennedy in a joint statement released Thursday morning with Tanuan.

“To me the fact that the government has allowed a special teaching resource for Catholic schools to deliver the program is a red flag,” she said. “Even if (Catholic) teachers get different teacher prompts (suggestions for classroom discussion) it doesn’t seem like a total solution if they have to teach general expectations that we disagree with.

“Catholic schools shouldn’t be forced to teach a program that doesn’t ground the expression of sexuality in love and marriage.”

Tanuan said he favors waiting for a year to let Catholic trustees see the special teachers’ resources being developed for Catholic schools, which he said are scheduled to be released mid-fall.

“Then we can assure parents with certainty that children won’t be taught a philosophy that Catholics don’t believe in.”

The provincial government has insisted it will launch the long-awaited curriculum this fall because it gives crucial information on healthy relationships, cyber-bullying and helps students understand the concept of giving – or denying – consent to sexual activity. A wide coalition of health and education experts has called on the curriculum to prepare young people in an age of sexting, early puberty and easy access to pornography.

However some parents oppose the information presented as not age appropriate, and say they believe this sort of information is best left to parents. Thousands of parents kept their children home for a week in a recent boycott to protest the curriculum.

Kennedy said Ontario’s Education Act gives school trustees the power to determine whether curriculum is appropriate for Catholic schools. After witnessing concerns from some parents in both public and Catholic schools over the curriculum, Kennedy and Tanuan said they feel a responsibility to stand with parents in the public boards who think the program will teach kids to separate sex from loving, committed marital relationships.

“If it’s wrong for Catholic kids, then it’s wrong for all kids,” said Kennedy.

In 2013 Tanuan proposed a motion that his board oppose a new government requirement that schools allow gay-straight alliance clubs. Kennedy supported the motion, but it failed to win a majority of support from fellow trustees.

Police were called recently to Halton’s Catholic school board after a motion seeking to delay teaching Ontario’s new sex-ed curriculum failed, sparking conflict among a large crowd gathered in the foyer.

The fracas occurred just days before another protest rally was organized at Queen’s Park to protest the new health and physical education lessons, which are the first update to sex-ed in this province in more than two decades.

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Schools receiving any public funding should follow the provincial curriculum, end of story. Exempt 100% privately-funded schools from this particular course, problem solved.