Good morning everybody! This will be quick this morning, our daughter is coming over and she, myself and the dog are going 4' by'ing. Good way to use a work day, in my opinion.
What you say is very true, Research, and there is one other aspect of it. There is an underlying sense of superiority that is felt by the other when you dump advice on them, for it is the assumption that you, in all your wisdom, know what is best.
My parents were very cool about such things, from the time we were adults they not only didn't give unsolicited advice, they were highly reluctant to give advice even when requested, for they would simply say that we were intelligent adults, and there was no doubt that we would figure out what was best for us.
They were right, and it 'empowered' us. Ack! I hate it! I hate that word 'empowered'! And I just used it in a sentence! I leave, mortified.