Man's life does not stop by his death; he will continue to live but in his new spiritual soul, not in his material body.
To this meaning one of the poets said:
"Truly, people are created to live, not to perish;
it is only a transmission:
from the World home of trial to the next world home of prosperity or misery."
http://man-after-death.site.io/#What_Is_Death_
God's love for righteous people is more than the mother's love for her child; in fact He inserted the love in the mother's heart, so that she will love her child and take care of him.
God Most Gracious, out of His mercy, he makes the mother and father love their children, and the children love their parents. And they will love their kindred.
Moreover He inserted in people the love for many things:
- Men love women –– so that reproduction will continue,
- People love sons and children –– so that progeny and offspring will be preserved,
- People love the large amounts of gold and silver –– so that they will work to get money and livelihood, and the affairs in the society will go on.
- They love [to possess] the good horses (and cars),
- They love [to possess] the cattle –– so they will eat the meat of the sheep, goat, cow and camel,
- They love [to possess] the cultivation and crops –– so they will eat the bread, vegetables and fruits.
This is in the Quran 3: 14
زُيِّنَ لِلنَّاسِ حُبُّ الشَّهَوَاتِ مِنَ النِّسَاء وَالْبَنِينَ وَالْقَنَاطِيرِ الْمُقَنطَرَةِ مِنَ الذَّهَبِ وَالْفِضَّةِ وَالْخَيْلِ الْمُسَوَّمَةِ وَالأَنْعَامِ وَالْحَرْثِ ذَلِكَ مَتَاعُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا وَاللّهُ عِندَهُ حُسْنُ الْمَآبِ
The explanation:
(Beautified to men is the love of lusts –– women, children, large amounts of gold and silver, horses ornamented [with silver badges], cattle and tillage.
[All of] that is the [temporary] enjoyment of the Worldly life; but with God [in the Hereafter] is the best resort.
But prior to everything, God's love has to be the priority over all other things and beings; because man usually loves his father and mother, his sons, brothers, wife, tribe [, sect and party], his wealth that he earned, some trade he is earnest that it should not fail, and some houses and dwellings that his soul likes very much.
While God's love should be more than all this; as in the Quran 9: 24
قُلْ إِن كَانَ آبَاؤُكُمْ وَأَبْنَآؤُكُمْ وَإِخْوَانُكُمْ وَأَزْوَاجُكُمْ وَعَشِيرَتُكُمْ وَأَمْوَالٌ اقْتَرَفْتُمُوهَا وَتِجَارَةٌ تَخْشَوْنَ كَسَادَهَا وَمَسَاكِنُ تَرْضَوْنَهَا أَحَبَّ إِلَيْكُم مِّنَ اللّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ وَجِهَادٍ فِي سَبِيلِهِ فَتَرَبَّصُواْ حَتَّى يَأْتِيَ اللّهُ بِأَمْرِهِ وَاللّهُ لاَ يَهْدِي الْقَوْمَ الْفَاسِقِينَ
The explanation:
(Say [to them, O Mohammed]:
"If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your clan, your possessions that you have gained, commerce you fear may slacken, dwellings you love –
if these are dearer to you than God and His messenger and to struggle in His way; then wait till God brings His 'amr' [: the angels of death]; God guides not the people of the ungodly.")