This Is A Video EVERYONE Needs To See. For The First Time In My Life, I'm Speechless.

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This media we call social is anything but, when we open our computers and it’s our doors we shut”… This is one of the most vital messages that everyone needs to hear.

Look Up is a spoken word for the “online” generation. Written, performed and directed by Gary Turk, it is an extremely important life lesson for our youth. Children are growing up in a world where they don’t play outside or communicate with their friends. It seems today everything is done via text message or over the internet. It’s heartbreaking… I feel guilty myself. We need to spread this message before it’s too late. Please do your part and SHARE it with everyone you know.
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http://www.cbc.ca/news/health/social-media-affecting-teens-concepts-of-friendship-intimacy-1.2543158

Social media is affecting the way kids look at friendship and intimacy, according to researchers.

The typical teenager has 300 Facebook friends and 79 Twitter followers, the Pew Internet and American Life project found in its report, Teens, Social Media, and Privacy.

And some have many more.

The 2013 study also says the norms around privacy are changing, and the majority of teens post photos and personal information about themselves for all their on-line contacts to see.

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More recent survey data released last week by the Canadian non-profit digital literacy group MediaSmarts shows Canadian youth do take some steps to protect their privacy - for example, by not posting their contact information on social media.

But the paper, Online Privacy, Online Publicity, also points out that most kids have only a limited understanding of things such as privacy policies, geo-location services and the implications of sharing their passwords.

The research contributes to an emerging picture of how teens' ideas about friendship and intimacy have been influenced by their immersion in the on-line world, says Patricia Greenfield, a UCLA developmental psychologist and the director of the Children's Digital Media Center @ Los Angeles.

In her own research, Greenfield has found that young people feel socially supported by having large networks of on-line friends, and these are not necessarily friends they ever see face-to-face.

"We found in our study that people, college students, are not getting a sense of social support from being on the phone. They're getting social support through bigger networks and having a sense that their audience is large."

The result is a decline in intimate friendships, Greenfield says. Instead, many young people now derive personal support and affirmation from "likes" and feedback to their postings.

"The whole idea behind intimacy is self-disclosure. Now they're doing self-disclosure to an audience of hundreds."

Other research at UCLA shows teens' increasingly preferred mode of communication with their friends, texting, makes them feel less connected and bonded than face-to-face communication.

Graduate student Lauren Sherman studied various forms of communication between pairs of friends. She found the closer the experience was to in-person conversation, the more emotionally connected the friends felt. For example, video chat rated higher than a phone call, but the phone created a closer connection than texting.

"I don't think digital communication in itself is a bad thing," said Sherman, "but if we're losing out on opportunities to connect with people as well as we can, that's a problem."

Studies have estimated teens typically send more than 3,000 texts a month.

Greenfield says that indicates kids are opting for efficiency of connection over intimacy.
 
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This media we call social is anything but, when we open our computers and it’s our doors we shut”… This is one of the most vital messages that everyone needs to hear.

Look Up is a spoken word for the “online” generation. Written, performed and directed by Gary Turk, it is an extremely important life lesson for our youth. Children are growing up in a world where they don’t play outside or communicate with their friends. It seems today everything is done via text message or over the internet. It’s heartbreaking… I feel guilty myself. We need to spread this message before it’s too late. Please do your part and SHARE it with everyone you know.

This Is A Video EVERYONE Needs To See. For The First Time In My Life, I’m Speechless. | PetFlow Blog - The most interesting news for pet parents around the world.
This is not new, or sudden. The two greatest isolators in history before the internet were television and air conditioning. Back in the 30s, 40s, and even into the 50s, people would visit each other in the evenings, go to clubs (far more then than there are now), or just sit on the stoop or porch and chat with passers-by, especially on hot summer evenings. Air conditioning and television killed that. The online world is just a continuation of the trend.
 

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This media we call social is anything but, when we open our computers and it’s our doors we shut”… This is one of the most vital messages that everyone needs to hear.

Look Up is a spoken word for the “online” generation. Written, performed and directed by Gary Turk, it is an extremely important life lesson for our youth. Children are growing up in a world where they don’t play outside or communicate with their friends. It seems today everything is done via text message or over the internet. It’s heartbreaking… I feel guilty myself. We need to spread this message before it’s too late. Please do your part and SHARE it with everyone you know.

This Is A Video EVERYONE Needs To See. For The First Time In My Life, I’m Speechless. | PetFlow Blog - The most interesting news for pet parents around the world.



If this is the way this guy lives....... sucks to be him. Doesn't mean everyone is like this. I know no one that fits his description. None of my kids, their friends, none of my wife's daycare moms, their kids. None of our friends.

It's called projection, and obviously he needs to get a life if this is what he sees life as being.
 

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This is not new, or sudden. The two greatest isolators in history before the internet were television and air conditioning. Back in the 30s, 40s, and even into the 50s, people would visit each other in the evenings, go to clubs (far more then than there are now), or just sit on the stoop or porch and chat with passers-by, especially on hot summer evenings. Air conditioning and television killed that. The online world is just a continuation of the trend.

I wish I had a time machine. I would love to go back and see this...people sitting around and enjoying each others conversations...it would have been awesome.

There is/ was a guy in New York who had a oddities shop and he'd sit outside his shop with the door open and talk with people.
 

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If this is the way this guy lives....... sucks to be him. Doesn't mean everyone is like this. I know no one that fits his description. None of my kids, their friends, none of my wife's daycare moms, their kids. None of our friends.

It's called projection, and obviously he needs to get a life if this is what he sees life as being.
Nope, it is called insight and understanding what is and has changed.
Social media affecting teens' concepts of friendship, intimacy - Health - CBC News
 

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I wish I had a time machine. I would love to go back and see this...people sitting around and enjoying each others conversations...it would have been awesome.

There is/ was a guy in New York who had a oddities shop and he'd sit outside his shop with the door open and talk with people.
You have a time machine. It's called "old movies." Particularly the "domestic" ones (think Spencer Tracy/Katharine Hepburn). You see scenes in New York apartments, and suddenly it hits you. . . there's no TV in the room.
 

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Nope, it is called insight and understanding what is and has changed.
Social media affecting teens' concepts of friendship, intimacy - Health - CBC News


Nothing definitive in that article.

"I don't think digital communication in itself is a bad thing," said Sherman, "but if we're losing out on opportunities to connect with people as well as we can, that's a problem."
Studies have estimated teens typically send more than 3,000 texts a month.
Greenfield says that indicates kids are opting for efficiency of connection over intimacy.




Go through the entire thing, there are a lot of if's, perhaps, and maybe's.



You can find pretty much anything you want if you look hard enough. If you want to show that social media is bad for kids, you could find examples of that, if you wanted to show that social media was good for kids, you could find examples of that.

You have a time machine. It's called "old movies." Particularly the "domestic" ones (think Spencer Tracy/Katharine Hepburn). You see scenes in New York apartments, and suddenly it hits you. . . there's no TV in the room.


and your point is? At one time they had no radios in the room, no electric lamps. It's called progress.
 

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These vast social networks do have their positive sides. Facilitating easy communication across communities, countries, and continents has vastly improved our understanding and empathy for one another. When the only people you talked to were people in your immediate community, it creates kind of an echo chamber where norms are entrenched and few people would dare to challenge them.

That said, you don't need to be online all day every day, but the technology has done some good things for us.
 

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every time I see 'epic', 'viral', 'must-see', and such on the interweb, I get mad and start pulling wings off flies again.

it's like watching a retarded tv commercial and deciding I won't buy the product because the ad agency is so douchebaggy.

no offense to this particular OP but you get my point.

besides, with about 15 years of internet porn and gore under my belt, it is pretty much impossible to impress me with some video or a 'good read'.
 

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every time I see 'epic', 'viral', 'must-see', and such on the interweb, I get mad and start pulling wings off flies again.

it's like watching a retarded tv commercial and deciding I won't buy the product because the ad agency is so douchebaggy.

no offense to this particular OP but you get my point.

besides, with about 15 years of internet porn and gore under my belt, it is pretty much impossible to impress me with some video or a 'good read'.

As many do, I copied the text word for word.
 

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How come when there is a social change, the popular reaction is to view it as a decline? I think internet media has brought an explosion of interaction that did not previously exist. Those who participate are evolving in some respects and declining in others. This does not require judgement by those who long for familiarity, they should realize the past fades.
or you can go live like the mennonites. :)
 

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Back to the OP.
The decline of the family farm, the loss of rural community, the collapse of the extended family, the flight of population to the city, the isolation of the urban worker from his neighbours, the destruction of a small-town ethos by the automobile, the decline of leisure time. the propaganda of the corporate state and its worship of materialism are all Obama's fault and the fault of his running-dog lackeys in Canada and other client states.
Other than that, I have no opinion.
 

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have to be honest... I couldn't get through it, it's all over FB and everyone is hailing it as wonderful and making comments like, I am unplugging...:roll:

see 'em on there tomorrow

the piece about how these aren't their real friends is malarkey...

your real friends are who ever happens to help you in the moment when you most need it...period

as for who knows you....who ever YOU are honest with...on line, off line, neighbours, who ever....the rest is a crap shoot.
 

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I baked you a pie, Sal. Drop over anytime; don't be a stranger.
where's my fuking waffles with ice cream?

I hate pie, what's wrong with you, everyone knows that...

get baking, and make sure the icing is butter cream...k

be there shortly...I'll bring the coffee

things just get stranger and stranger...*maniacal laugh*