How Feminism Destroys Femininity in Women and Love


china
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How Feminism Destroys Femininity in Women and Love

"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters."
- Cato the Elder

The New Age and Spiritual movements are fond of saying that history has been controlled by patriarchal societies which have suppressed the "feminine energy", hence causing imbalance and destruction. For example, the popular Internet films "Esoteric Agenda" and "Kymatica" make this point.

However, what these movements are afraid to admit, is that modern day feminism totally suppresses and destroys this "feminine energy" more than any patriarchal society ever did. And that’s the irony, that feminism destroys femininity. So then, why use such a term when it’s effects are the exact opposite? Why isn’t this movement called “masculinity for women”?

Obviously, whoever was behind this movement knew something about neurolinguistic programming – that by pretending to be the opposite of what you are, you trick and lure people in using deception. In this case, women who consider themselves “feminine” will uncritically assume that a movement called “feminism” must be on their side in helping with their womanhood and femininity, when nothing could be further from the truth.

The sad thing is that many women are tricked into thinking that this "new feminism" is somehow liberating them and allowing them to reach their full potential. Yet how can they become self-actualized by suppressing their own natural life force or feminine energy? How is that wholesome or harmonious, when it's destructive to relationships and forces men to emasculate themselves and deny their own masculinity? Any time you try to bring up something by oppressing others, it will be a formula for destruction. These women are tricked and lured in by the promise of “equality”, which eventually turns them asexual, bestial and dominant before they know it. That’s the “trap of feminism”.

The natural female energy is loving, caring, nurturing, tender, and seeks a symbiotic relationship with the male energy. This results in the creation of life, the highest power. Whatever you want to call it - God, Mother Nature, the Universal Creative Force, etc. - that is how it was naturally meant to be. Male and female energy were meant to complement each other, not compete and tear each other down, or engage in any "battle of the sexes", which is what has happened (and may possibly be engineered by the global elite according to some sources, Google "Nick Rockefeller and feminism").

Yet the feminist movement and its values preach the complete opposite and antithesis. Not only do they incite male bashing and double standards against men in society (examples are numerous, see here for some), but they indoctrinate women to look down on men, NOT NEED men, NOT WANT men, be independent, and view males as lower forms of life that are creeps and oppressors by nature. Men are not respected or admired, but seen as immature and dumb.

Obviously this is destructive and not good at all for male/female relationships. How can such attitudes be beneficial to the symbiotic complementary nature of male/female energy, or to its balance? It is anything but. Yet it is taboo to point this out, cause you are labeled as a "woman hater" or "misogynist" if you say the obvious truth.

It's a form of mind control, probably set up by the Global Elite, or New World Order, as the conspiracy movement calls them, to divide and conquer us. It's just another way they use to set us against each other, so that we don't unite and rise up against the real enemy, which are the Global Elite who are running the show. Aaron Russo, in an interview with Alex Jones, revealed that Nick Rockefeller of the infamous Rockefeller dynasty, told him that the Rockefeller Foundation created and funded the feminist movement, for instance.

But even charismatic conspiracy leaders like David Icke, who are passionate and relentless about exposing the ways in which this Global Elite or NWO control and divide us, are afraid to bring up modern feminism as one of the culprits of this engineered chaos and disorder. Probably it's because they have a large female fan base and do not wish to lose them, so they avoid this taboo. Not even they, being passionate truth seekers, dare to violate it. Only Men's Rights leaders like Tom Leykis and others have dared to expose this taboo issue.

Nevertheless, the truth is that feminism destroys natural healthy male/female relationships, makes dating a nightmare of epic proportions, and totally disrupts the natural harmony of men and women. It turns women hateful and apathetic toward men. In effect, it gives women an unaccountable status where they can get away with anything, and demonetize anyone who resists. As a result, they can abuse and mistreat men without judgment or consequences, for it is taboo to argue or stand up to them.

Females in America are given role models in the form of action stars, like Angelina Jolie, who in Tomb Raider as Lara Croft, is rough and tough, kicks ***, does not need men, does not act sweet, feminine or tender, does not giggle or blush, and all the while looking sexy at the same time.

Yet any honest natural man will tell you that such a woman with no feminine qualities is not attractive at all, and dealing with her is very awkward. How can you have a loving, intimate, fulfilling relationship with a woman who is rough and tough, doesn't need you and tries to act stronger than you? You can't flirt with her, court her, or charm her without feeling like you are violating her "independence from femininity". Yet you can't treat her like a male buddy either, because no matter how hard she tries to act like a man, she is not one, in ANY way. So what can you do with her?! You can't treat her like a man or a woman! It's the most awkward and unnatural thing.

Plus, a feminist can never become a man, because a normal man is not high strung or easily offended by little things the way a feminist or masculine woman is. Thus these feminists are more like bestial freaks of nature, rather than men, which is a horrible thing.

Furthermore, these feminists and independent women do not like to dress feminine. They hate wearing skits and high heels (which they view as oppressive) and like cutting their hair short to look like men. How can that be beautiful or feminine to men? How can that bring out the male attraction for the feminine? How can being strong, masculine and independent soothe a man's need for tenderness and fulfill his need for love and romance and his need to merge with the female energy?!

IT CAN'T AND IT DOESN'T!

What strong independent American women don’t understand, is that you can’t make a man become more masculine by becoming masculine yourself. You bring out the masculinity in a man by becoming FEMININE! That’s the key truth that feminism hides from you. Obviously feminism has F***ED up relationships in America, whether it was engineered or not. There's no way around it. And that's NOT a good thing.

I am not a chauvinist or sexist at all. I do not advocate male dominance or female submission either. I am just exposing the truth about the destructive harmful force called feminism which pollutes female minds in America and seeks to infest the rest of the world too. It prevents men from acting like men and women from acting like women. I am merely advocating that balance and harmony be restored, for men to be men again, and women to be women.

I am not anti-female at all. I love women and many of my best friends are females. But this “artificial liberated strong masculine woman” created by modern feminism is anything but natural or normal. It runs against nature, femininity and every natural thing.

It's a total scam against women. It masculines women and emasculates men, twisting the male/female dynamic out of whack, turning America into the most unnatural dating scene in the world. It is also tyranny in disguise, which seeks to placate and weaken males, while giving women unaccountable power, which corrupts and ruins relationships.

Feminists NEVER win on logic or reason, because their movement is not a rational one at all, but a hateful emotional one that uses shaming tactics rather than reason. Overall, it is destructive and deceptive to both men and women. Worst of all, it destroys and suppresses the most beautiful thing in the world - the feminine beauty and soul.

So if you are really pro-women and pro-female, you'd expose this scam and bring awareness of it, so people can see what it really is. You'd help women get back in touch with their true divine female energy inherent in them, and stop this scam which tries to get women to deny their own femininity.

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I,m so happy that's only happening in America.....whoooo !
 
Mowich
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First Canada and now women? You're hitting on all bases aren't you, China.
 
china
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Quote: Originally Posted by Mowich View Post

First Canada and now women? You're hitting on all bases aren't you, China.


Love them both.
 
karrie
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Despite the fact that I often argue against feminism, because I find it is typically based on putting men down, your opening quote negates any value your article might have.

Humanism is a valuable notion. Equality while acknowledging difference, individual freedom to achieve what we'd like despite gender, skin colour, religion, nation..... these are important ideals. Feminism is long past due to be set aside for humanism.

But that won't happen with men who think they need to 'win' the fight for equality.

Quote: Originally Posted by Mowich View Post

First Canada and now women? You're hitting on all bases aren't you, China.



Didn't you read how his article about Canada was largely based in women being the problem? It's all hand in hand
 
china
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But that won't happen with men who think they need to 'win' the fight for equality.

Isn't it that the other way around .....or is it !
What I mean is that I am a man with all the man's characteristics and have no desire to alter them.
Last edited by china; May 27th, 2013 at 06:44 PM..
 
hunboldt
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Re:
"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters."

- Cato the Elder

At the tender age of 82 years Young Cato up & married the 17 year old daughter of one of his clients...

Cartage Deleta Este, indeed....
 
china
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At the tender age of 82 years Young Cato up & married the 17 year old daughter of one of his clients...

Cartage Deleta Este, indeed...

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I hope that was a mutual agreement or.....love at first sight....?
 
karrie
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Quote: Originally Posted by china View Post

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I hope that was a mutual agreement or.....love at first sight....?

Oh yes, 17 year old girls marry 82 year old men out of choice ALL the time. Just like decrepit old white men who travel abroad to marry hot young Asian women are accepted as suitors because the women love them for their looks.
 
china
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Quote: Originally Posted by karrie View Post

Oh yes, 17 year old girls marry 82 year old men out of choice ALL the time. Just like decrepit old white men who travel abroad to marry hot young Asian women are accepted as suitors because the women love them for their looks.

Reader Response from the same forum ........


- “ One thing I noticed while I was getting my ESL certificate. American women of various ages who taught at that English school in USA were ALL married to FOREIGN MEN!!!

You will ask, WTF? How could that happen? Easy! These American girls taught English abroad for many years and they understood that feminism crap means loneliness and complete destruction within themselves. So they learned manners, romance and classiness. It was amazing, first time I actually talked to American women who were smart and intelligent, but they did not want to even hear about American men because of their selfishness and "ice-bubble", constant football games and jerkiness.

So, basically, this is a two-way street! It is not exactly men who is feeling bad, it is American women as well. What is missing here is that people DO NOT know how they should be acting, how they should be living, how romantic relationship should be because American population has NO CONNECTION to the outside world, culture, movies or music! How many times during the day do you see reports about Canadian politics in the
USA ? How many times have you seen news about improvements of Russian economy? How many times have you heard about amazing cultural event in Italy ? NEVER! And I used to watch CNN a lot in the past. And I wouls slap Nancy Grace in the face cuz she says so much bulls*it. Who freakin' cares about someone who raped a child? Yes, it is bad, but talk about it for 1 hour??? Complete retardation.

In addition, I would hear American students (girls) talking how amazing it was while they volunteered in Africa and that they will move to Africa to live there, cuz people are just insanely nice, polite and respectful. I would also hear American students (girls) be completely happy with life in
Europe during study abroad and say their time in Spain or France was a blast of their lifetime. So same goes for American girls - they are much happier abroad. The only problem - they don't know that!

WTF is wrong with image of men in the
USA ? If you look nice - you're gay. If you are dressed in fancy clothes - Armani, D&G, Gucci - you are gay. If you smell of expensive cologne - you're gay. If you have tight clothes or talk smart - you are gay. If you listen to techno music instead of cheap rock or retarded r'n'b - you are gay. If you drive certain car - you are gay. If you hug another guy or hang out with good looking guys - you are gay. So it seems to be easier to freaking become gay in the USA , I freaking swear! Ladislav knows that TOO, I read his post about American people reacting to see him dressing up better.

So in France, almost 80% of guys would look GAY to American girls, cuz they are dressed fancy, they wear fashionable clothes everywhere they go and they are very good looking! So guess what? 80% of French guys are retarded or American chicks have retarded perception? I think French guys are completely cool and American chicks are retarded.

There is only 1 solution for both men and women from the
USA who want to be socially happy - GO ABROAD, get a life!”

- “ I think the one of the main problems of American women is that they simply did not get any more "free", they did not achieve equality or more power for women. What they achieved is:

1. As mentioned in the article above - "Anti-biological behavior" which teaches them to hate men, which also ruins families and respect for men

2. Feminism made women in
America basically copy men in everything. Women stopped dressing well, looking well, cooking, looking after kids, cleaning - everything is done by guys now. So what did American women achieve? They did not become "free", they basically became "MEN" in general term. However, American guys provide everything and guys are much better cooks than American women! And guys watch the kids and guys make money and guys are still bitched at every day. WTF? I have to say, guys are getting degraded as well, but I see very decent men with extremely retarded women (however, reversed is true as well). Somehow, hot girls date retards and hot guys date obese ugly women. Just so f*cked up.

3. What makes me mad is that with all this feminism crap talk, why wouldn't women go into construction jobs? What about serving in the military and dying in
Iraq instead of guys? I mean, come on people, do women actually enjoy being men? I am not saying women should be weak, dumb or sit at home cooking, but jeez - how perverted biological image of female has become in the US ? It's unbelievable.

I remember how Ukrainian or Russian girls would say "I enjoy looking good because I am a woman and I am supposed to look feminine and tender"... Wow, I have never heard any American girl say that and I expect they never even think that in their head. So what do they think about? It's out of my imagination, but probably nothing smart.

HUGE point that surprised me in the
US relationship is that women and men are competing in their relationship rather than complementing (adding to, helping) each other. When you open up and share your true thoughts and ideas in front of an American chicks, she considers you weak and "loser". So she never releases her deep emotions either. So both of you rely on some superficial bond that does not even bond you because how can you even bond if there is no trust and no openness? Ukrainian girls actually love to talk deep talks, to "release your soul" as they say. They are OK for you to cry on their shoulder sometimes and they expect to cry on your shoulder if they feel like it. Also, how Ukrainian girls say in Russian or Ukrainian: "Ya hochu byt' za muzhem kak za kamennoi stenoi". That means literally: "I want to be behind my husband like a brick wall". Basically, they expect support, attention and protection (moral, physical and verbal) from their husband - not constant depressing banter, not constant competition proving who is better and who has more balls. Think of it, I hope this reveals some interesting details because I just don't see anything between Americans in their relationship - no basis, no concrete, it seems like friends with benefits who decide to get married because the sex is good. I am not seeing emotions, feelings, sensations, touches, massages, walks holding hands etc.

In addition, Ukrainian guys will most of the time speak for both him and his girlfriend when together in public. For example, when a waiter comes in a restaurant and asks if they (guy and girl) want some ice water, the guy asks a girl and then responds something like: "Yes, WE will take the ice water". Extremely funny, but when I watched "Couples Retreat" comedy, one of the advises was the same: "You guys talk about me and you, where does WE comes in?". But to me, it seems there is no "WE" in American relationship. Too much independence, too much competition between genders, too much closeness and everyone minds their own business without even sharing their true thoughts and often without trust to their loved ones. And I mean "real trust" as I know it from Ukrainian culture, as I experienced it with Ukrainian girlfriends.”


Yes young man/woman ....go abroad.....(smile)
 
Angstrom
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What most men that whine about American girls fail to understand.
And I'll let you all in on the secret.
Deep down, even with all this modernization and feminine movement, and all that BS you post.

Deep down women still crave the cave man.
The last 60 years doesn't all of a sudden negate billions
Of years of evolution.

The problem is men just need to step it up a notch.
I have no problem with my women.
And let me assure you she is well satisfied.

So Grow some balls already!

Stop posting this little boy " I can't submit my women crap".

Maybe the real problem is you have lost touch with your inner cave man,
That naturally (billions of years of evolution) makes her feel & act like a real women.
And has nothing to do with the other sex or the tiny minuscule and insignificant last 60
Years of feminism.
Last edited by Angstrom; May 27th, 2013 at 07:43 PM..
 
hunboldt
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Quote: Originally Posted by hunboldt View Post

Re:

"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters."




- Cato the Elder

At the tender age of 82 years Young Cato up & married the 17 year old daughter of one of his clients...

Cartage Deleta Este, indeed....


terribly sorry - he was seventy eight. He had children at 80 and at 82....

A son was born to Salonia in the year 154 BCE, when Censorius had completed his 80th year of age. Two years later the first son of Censorius died, followed by his father three years after that. We can only imagine that Censorius died a happy man.

 
china
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He had children at 80 and at 82....

.....what a man .....hahahaahaaah!

Wasn't PET in his late 70s...80s when he had his daughter ....?
 
china
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Quote: Originally Posted by Angstrom View Post

What most men that whine about American girls fail to understand.
And I'll let you all in on the secret.
Deep down, even with all this modernization and feminine movement, and all that BS you post.

Deep down women still crave the cave man.
The last 60 years doesn't all of a sudden negate billions
Of years of evolution.

The problem is men just need to step it up a notch.
I have no problem with my women.
And let me assure you she is well satisfied.

So Grow some balls already!

Stop posting this little boy " I can't submit my women crap".

Maybe the real problem is you have lost touch with your inner cave man,
That naturally (billions of years of evolution) makes her feel & act like a real women.
And has nothing to do with the other sex or the tiny minuscule and insignificant last 60
Years of feminism.

I might have lost some of my "inner cave man" Angstrom but at the age of 62 (in few days) I have very satisfying relation with a opposite sex and at the same time ( please trust me ) I can break many of jaws .
China (Billings Bridge area).
Last edited by china; May 27th, 2013 at 08:01 PM..
 
Angstrom
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Quote: Originally Posted by china View Post

I might have lost my "inner cave man" Angstrom but at the age of 62 (in few days) I have very satisfying relation with a opposite sex and at the same time ( please trust me ) I can break many of jaws .(Billings Bridge area).

The women feminism movement, is part of Natural selection and evolution.
Only stronger and more dominant males can hope of sweeping them off their feet.

For all the others, go look somewhere your weaker and none dominant gene's will do the trick
 
china
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Quote: Originally Posted by Angstrom View Post

The women feminism movement, is part of Natural selection and evolution.
Only stronger and more dominant males can hope of sweeping them off their feet.

For all the others, go look somewhere your weaker and none dominant gene's will do the trick

Somewhat correct ,,what I mean is that even a "cave man" with 'the brains' would have an advantage , don't you think so ?lol
 
Angstrom
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Quote: Originally Posted by china View Post

Somewhat correct ,,what I mean is that even a "cave man" with 'the brains' would have an advantage , don't you think so ?lol

Only a Alpha cave man with a minimum IQ of 115 to be exact, would be abled to dominate today's alpha American women.

Yes! You are correct.

And of course this is,
All part of natural selection and evolution of life under our current circumstances.

We should conclude that weak dumb male will not have hope of finding & living a happy married
American life.

Look abroad if this is your case to avoid being dominated into a beta male slave life.
Last edited by Angstrom; May 27th, 2013 at 09:22 PM..
 
karrie
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Quote: Originally Posted by Angstrom View Post

Only a Alpha cave man with a minimum IQ of 115 to be exact, would be abled to dominate today's alpha American women.

Moronic.

Every day across this country, men who are less than 'ideal' land wives, have babies, build families. the people who sit around moping about the 'only' people who can do it (and yes, I mean men and women), are those who are *******s in some way shape or form that they aren't willing to acknowledge and change. It's the blame game, plain and simple. "I'm too pretty" "Women are too self assured"
 
china
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Quote:

Look abroad if this is your case to avoid being dominated into a beta male slave life.

Hahaahahaah, I don't know what gives you the Idea that I am being dominated or what ever ,,,hahahah. Some over my best friends are women ( here in Canada ) .When I go abroad is not for "escaping domination by women " hahaha ......are you a teenager or something ? lol

.

Quote: Originally Posted by karrie View Post

Moronic.

Every day across this country, men who are less than 'ideal' land wives, have babies, build families. the people who sit around moping about the 'only' people who can do it (and yes, I mean men and women), are those who are *******s in some way shape or form that they aren't willing to acknowledge and change. It's the blame game, plain and simple. "I'm too pretty" "Women are too self assured"

Well said karrie
 
Angstrom
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Quote: Originally Posted by karrie View Post

Moronic.

Every day across this country, men who are less than 'ideal' land wives, have babies, build families. the people who sit around moping about the 'only' people who can do it (and yes, I mean men and women), are those who are *******s in some way shape or form that they aren't willing to acknowledge and change. It's the blame game, plain and simple. "I'm too pretty" "Women are too self assured"



Yes it's the blame game! Your right!
And yes I'm being a bit moronic too cause it amuses me to be such.



My message is still correct. Stop making excuses or playing the blame game.
Grow some ballz and get in touch with your inner cave man.

America has produced the Alpha Woman.
Only alpha alpha male need apply.

That's the way of life, natural selection & evolution
 
WLDB
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Quote: Originally Posted by china View Post

.....what a man .....hahahaahaaah!

Wasn't PET in his late 70s...80s when he had his daughter ....?

Around 70ish. But the mother wasnt 17. She was well into adulthood and had her own thing going on work wise.

My great grandfather was 70 when my grandfather was born. There was a 30 year age gap between him and his wife. He was actually older than his mother in law by a year or two I think. So relationships with huge age gaps dont bother me much. If they didnt happen I never would have been born.

Still, quoting Cato is an odd choice. Women were barely above slaves in his time and society.
 
Zipperfish
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Quote: Originally Posted by Angstrom View Post

Only a Alpha cave man with a minimum IQ of 115 to be exact, would be abled to dominate today's alpha American women.

I dunno, I'm dumb as a post and I was b*alls deep in yo mama last night.
 
Nuggler
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Quote: Originally Posted by hunboldt View Post

Re:

"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters."




- Cato the Elder

At the tender age of 82 years Young Cato up & married the 17 year old daughter of one of his clients...

Cartage Deleta Este, indeed....

Don't care how ya bring'em - just Brigham Young !!
 
Dexter Sinister
+2
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Quote: Originally Posted by china View Post

It's a form of mind control, probably set up by the Global Elite, or New World Order, as the conspiracy movement calls them, to divide and conquer us. It's just another way they use to set us against each other, so that we don't unite and rise up against the real enemy, which are the Global Elite who are running the show. Aaron Russo, in an interview with Alex Jones, revealed that Nick Rockefeller of the infamous Rockefeller dynasty, told him that the Rockefeller Foundation created and funded the feminist movement, for instance..

And credibility drops to zero right there.
 
Angstrom
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Quote: Originally Posted by china View Post

Hahaahahaah, I don't know what gives you the Idea that I am being dominated or what ever ,,,hahahah. Some over my best friends are women ( here in Canada ) .When I go abroad is not for "escaping domination by women " hahaha .....

It's weird, I wasn't really saying that you where being dominated.......
Nope that's not at all what I was saying.....

Are you feeling susceptible?

What I was saying is.
If anything is true in your original post.
Then what I'm saying would actually make sense.
But we all know it doesn't.

So ya, a BS reply for a BS thread.

Quote: Originally Posted by Zipperfish View Post

I dunno, I'm dumb as a post and I was b*alls deep in yo mama last night.

Then you must of been, being dominated
I'm sitting here posting BS. Replying to this BS thread.

And y'all to dumb to understand I'm just having fun joking around.
You need to learn to lighten up party poopers...



The article is written up by a guy, whining that women are too dominant.
It's not to hard to conclude that probably he can't handle American women.
Whining about it in a article sounds like a real manly man thing to do after all.

And that's fine. But instead of going forward and insulting them and playing
The blame game, if the article creator would have looked at himself, maybe
He would realize he's not very dominating.

He sounds like a big wet noodle in his article.
Last edited by Angstrom; May 28th, 2013 at 05:26 AM..
 
china
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Quote:

Not written by China


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Are North American Women Really THAT Bad?





Photo by Borderfilms (Doug)

It’s been interesting to read the comments people have left on that article I wrote for Vagabondish. While the article was entitled ‘What It’s Like to be Female and Foreign in Japan’ (foreign, as in non-Japanese) the focus of discussion has strayed from the topic of a western woman’s perspective on dating abroad and zeroed in on the subject of North-American women and how self-centered, demanding, spoiled and unattractive they all are.
I wish I was exaggerating.
Here are a few of the comments:
“I have traveled all over the world conducting a multi-billion dollar business, and American/Canadian women are valued about as much as a homeless man in New York City. They are viewed as feminazis, narcissistic, histrionic, materialistic, shallow, and useless.
Now I am not one to generalize, but even from my own experience, I cannot say this viewpoint is not that far from the truth. Why else do you think America has one of the highest divorce rates in the world? Generally speaking, American women make the worst WIVES, but are known for being great for CASUAL UNATTACHED SEX.” – Allan
“…Western women have ridiculous material expectations of their men and expect to be put on a pedestal at all times (instead of being equitable partners). Bringing little to the sexless & boring relationship other than expensive bathroom faucets, obesity, credit card debt and demands to work harder to afford undeserved luxuries to fit in with their consumer culture.” – Tommy
“The problem is that American women are known the world over as being self-centered and demanding princesses who feel like men should be kissing up to their posteriors. Not so in Europe, and most assuredly not true in Japan.” – Jeff
“You can keep the Western women in the west. They are fat, evil and smell like yeast. in addition, they think that everyone should be nice to them. They seem to be expecting some thing that they do not deserve. I say stay away eeeuuuwwww!” – Unchi-kun
Holy moly.
I don’t know about you, but while reading some of these, I had a mental image of a giant, Godzilla-sized slice of wonder bread stomping around Tokyo hollering “Be nice to me or else I’ll eat you! Muahahaha!”
If this is how men abroad view the female population of North America, well then forget sewing a Canadian flag to my backpack, next time I leave the U.S. I’ll be going Russian all the way and wearing a fur hat. I’m kidding.
But in all seriousness, if you think that those few comments are an anomaly, try googling “demanding American women” or “spoiled American women” and you’ll see how many blog or forum posts have been written on the subject. Some of the sites even encourage men to boycott dating American women altogether; as if they were toxic mold or a hazardous chemical more deserving of a warning label than any decent man’s attention.
While it would certainly be easy to write their blog posts and comments off as the bitter words of the burned and broken-hearted, I think there’s some truth to their assertions. I’ve written about how Americans have a reputation for being shallow and superficial in the past and as anyone would agree, Americans won’t be winning any awards in the healthy eating department any time soon.
But aren’t these stereotypes (the idea that all Americans are overweight, demanding and superficial) equally true for both genders? Why are the female half of the population being given all the blame here?
Whether these mens’ reasons for their ban on North-American women are justified or not, it would seem to me that finding a life partner is hard enough as it is. Why make it any more difficult by swearing off 180 million citizens of this planet (the approximate number of women living in Canada and the US) just because they happen to be born in the wrong corner of the globe?
I think that so long as you and the other person share common values and interests and there’s some chemistry there, that little line under ‘place of birth’ in a person’s passport shouldn’t matter much.
What do you think? Is there any truth to the North American woman’s bad rep?
 
karrie
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#26
I would have to say. If a man is going to pass up dating North American women because he doesn't like the stereotype of North American women, well, that bodes well for North American women. He can go find a more suitable 'breedline', and pick a suitably tempered woman out of that bunch. Poor thing.
 
china
+1
#27
Vietnam...2nd happiest country in the world: survey





Vietnam is the second happiest country in the world, according to a survey by a British think tank, which, unlike usually for such surveys, has not focused on nations' economic performance.
The New Economics Foundation's Happy Planet Index (HPI) shows the extent to which 151 countries across the globe produce long, happy and sustainable lives for their people.

The three component measures of the HPI are life expectancy, experienced well-being, and ecological footprint.
Vietnam scored 60.4, behind only Costa Rica, which scored 64.
In 2009 Vietnam had ranked fifth out of 143 countries.
Except for Vietnam the nine other countries in the top 10 are South and Central American .
The countries with the lowest scores are Qatar, Chad and Botswana.
The US ranks 105th on the index.
“The Happy Planet Index measures what really matters – long and happy lives now and the potential for good lives in the future," Nic Marks, NEF fellow and creator of the HPI, said.
"For too long we have relied on incomplete measures of progress that focus only on economic activity, such as GDP.”
The NEF has released the HPI two times earlier – in 2006 and 2009.
Source: Thanh Nien News
 
DaSleeper
+1
#28
You seem to need a therapist.......I recommend this one for you.......

GEICO - Sarge - YouTube
 
china
#29
5 Ways Working Abroad Helped Me Grow


Photo by Paulo Brandão
By Kelly Dunning
Can you pinpoint the pivotal time in your life when you became an adult? For me, it was when I finally left my home to go traveling.
I took a working holiday in New Zealand for six months and while I was there I met my English boyfriend and lived in England with him for 14 months. During these 20 months of travel I grew more than I ever could have if I had stayed in Canada.
When I left Canada at the age of 22 I was confused and conflicted. I wondered what my future would bring and I had only a slight inkling that there was so much more to see and do in the great big world out there. When I returned to Canada at age 24 after having worked and lived abroad in New Zealand and England for two years I was a strong and confident adult with a plan for my future. Here are five of the ways that working abroad helped me to grow up:
1. I learned to trust my future self

Before I went to work abroad, I used to get panicked when I thought about my future. I was worried that I would make a wrong choice and I would never be able to accomplish all of the things that I dreamed of doing.
Luckily, I found myself working as a tour guide at a creepy old haunted prison by the sea in New Zealand and met a confident, irreverent, hilarious and completely fearless English guy who taught me one of the most important lessons of my life; how to trust my future self.
He showed me that I didn’t have to have it all figured out. I needed to focus on the here and now. Lee gave me a huge gift, the confidence to trust myself to make the right choice when the time comes for that decision to be made. Now I still don’t know what I will do with my life, but I don’t worry about it anymore because I trust myself to make it awesome.
2. I learned when to quit

When I was in Christchurch New Zealand on a working holiday New Zealand visa I struggled to find a job for a while and finally got a position fundraising for Green Peace.
I wanted to do my part to help the environment but what I didn’t realize was that “chugging” (or “charity mugging” as they call it in the UK) was completely wrong for me. I hated approaching people who were simply trying to walk down the street and guilt-tripping them about melting ice caps and polar bears. Yes, the issues were important, but I felt uncomfortable using the pushy salesperson techniques that we had been taught to sway people into donating. I cracked under the pressure of making a quota every week.
One Tuesday afternoon only a few weeks into the job, I realized that I simply could not approach one more stranger. I quit. You might say that was a stupid decision because I really needed the money. However, I think it’s important to learn when to quit something if it is completely making you feel miserable every second of the day.
3. I gained a work ethic

Of course, since I had quit my job at Greenpeace and decided to go to England with Lee on a UK work permit I had absolutely no money and I was due to learn another important lesson.
When I arrived in Accrington, a small working class town in Northern England, I needed a job desperately and I took anything I could find. I ended up working at a nursery and I was immediately thrown into 45 hours per week of changing dirty nappies, calming down crying babies, entertaining restless three year olds and wiping up never ending spills. I enjoyed it because I love kids, but it was hard work.
Up until then, I had been a high achieving Canadian honour student who had studied Fine Arts at University. I had never had a full time job that had been more than a summer gig and those don’t really count because I always knew I would be taking it easy back at school in a few months. I worked in that job for 10 months and finally learned what a full work week is like.
4. I used that work ethic to create my dream job

The experience of working at the nursery in Accrington taught me two things. First of all, it was like endurance training which made me better at working hard for long hours. Second of all, it made me realize that if I had the potential to work this hard I wanted to be working for myself doing something I love, not for minimum wage for someone else.
Writing is my passion so I began building up a name for myself as a freelance writer on evenings and weekends. My writing portfolio slowly grew and I took on more assignments. After a while I reduced my hours to part time at the nursery because my writing had grown so much.
Eventually after about a year I was able to quit my “day job” and earn more money from writing full time. These days I make my own hours, work from anywhere in the world and have total control over the writing projects that I do. However, there was no way that I could have logged the hours to build the freelance career that I have now with a lazy university student sense of entitlement, I needed to have the work ethic that I learned in Accrington.
5. I made a life of my own design, not anyone else’s

Perhaps part of the reason why I had been so confused and conflicted before I went traveling was because I was so worried about making my life fit in with everyone else’s expectations. I was putting too much weight on what others would think.
Working abroad in another country gives you a chance to wipe the slate clean of all other previous constructs you have made of yourself. If you have been following a life path that is even a little bit designed to please others, it will never make you truly happy.
During those two years abroad I thought about what I really wanted to do with my life right now in my 20s. The answer was easy, I wanted to write and I wanted to travel. So what did I do? I worked as hard as I could to set up a career as a freelance writer so that I could making a living remotely and then took off to travel the world. Right now I am sitting in a hotel room in the Cameron Highlands region of Malaysia, looking out the window at the lush green jungle hills.
I have learned that trying to make your life fit into someone else’s expectations simply doesn’t work. What you will realize is that it is an impossible goal, because someone will always chime in with their two cents about what you “should” be doing. You can’t please anyone, so stop trying. Simply decide what it is you love to do and then direct all of your energy into making it your reality, even if it is unconventional.
Working abroad changed my life in so many ways and I have never been happier and more confident than I am now. I am so grateful for the things that my travels have taught me and as I continue to travel I look forward to learning more.

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What a great woman....!
 
DaSleeper
#30
Pathetic ........you are
 

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