Imperturbability Found
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Location: Underground Parking Level Four
Location: Underground Parking Level Four
June 13th, 2008, 01:27 PM
It is your day off and it is raining and you are bored, so you decide to watch some television but alas nothing interests you.
So you decide to go to the local convenience store to pick up some beer and chips and decide to look around for a movie to rent.
You chose the movie, pay for it and your other goodies and take the movie home.
Once you have the movie set up up you settle into your favourite chair and start the DVD, which is a porn movie that you have heard is very good.
About ten minutes into the movie you notice that one of the actors is your long time partner.
IMO: Confrontation time.
It is your day off and it is raining and you are bored, so you decide to watch some television but alas nothing interests you.
So you decide to go to the local convenience store to pick up some beer and chips and decide to look around for a movie to rent.
You chose the movie, pay for it and your other goodies and take the movie home.
Once you have the movie set up up you settle into your favourite chair and start the DVD, which is a porn movie that you have heard is very good.
About ten minutes into the movie you notice that one of the actors is your long time partner.
IMO: Confrontation time.
seriously
no, I mean it.
OK then, it's done.
June 13th, 2008, 01:35 PM
On so many levels, it just wouldn't happen. First of all, who goes out to rent porn anymore? I've got it on the net and my satellite dish. And even with them being there, my mind is ten times better at exciting me than some image, or a bit of bad acting.
Second of all, the day my hubby is in a porn, he'd be throwing a screening. I guarantee it. You'd never get him to stop showing that vid off.
On so many levels, it just wouldn't happen. First of all, who goes out to rent porn anymore? I've got it on the net and my satellite dish. And even with them being there, my mind is ten times better at exciting me than some image, or a bit of bad acting.
Second of all, the day my hubby is in a porn, he'd be throwing a screening. I guarantee it. You'd never get him to stop showing that vid off.
The Angry Beaver
Posts: 3,631 
Location: Atlantic Canada
Location: Atlantic Canada
June 13th, 2008, 02:04 PM
Anywho, towards the question:
I don't see it as being much different then dating a boyfriend/girlfriend who had 30+ partners before you started dating one another..... if anything, them being in the porn industry, they are usually screened and tested very occasionally, so one would assume that they'd be much safer then your typical bar ****.
You just stumbled apon a window to their past.... they can not hide it, they can not argue it.... what it is, is. For me to answer with anymore detail, I'll need to be in that situation to properly determine what my course of action would be.
• How many movies did they do?
• How many people were they doing at once?
• Did they have any gay encounters during a filming?
• What kind of sexual acts were in the film?
Not only do these and many other questions change the overall view of the situation for everybody put in this type of scenario, but it would change the overall relationship, as you would probably start comparing the things they did while in porn and what you both are doing now....
Quoting scratch
How come all your questions recently seem to relate to sexual confrontations/encounters of the awkward kind? It is your day off and it is raining and you are bored, so you decide to watch some television but alas nothing interests you.
So you decide to go to the local convenience store to pick up some beer and chips and decide to look around for a movie to rent.
You chose the movie, pay for it and your other goodies and take the movie home.
Once you have the movie set up up you settle into your favourite chair and start the DVD, which is a porn movie that you have heard is very good.
About ten minutes into the movie you notice that one of the actors is your long time partner.
So you decide to go to the local convenience store to pick up some beer and chips and decide to look around for a movie to rent.
You chose the movie, pay for it and your other goodies and take the movie home.
Once you have the movie set up up you settle into your favourite chair and start the DVD, which is a porn movie that you have heard is very good.
About ten minutes into the movie you notice that one of the actors is your long time partner.
Anywho, towards the question:
I don't see it as being much different then dating a boyfriend/girlfriend who had 30+ partners before you started dating one another..... if anything, them being in the porn industry, they are usually screened and tested very occasionally, so one would assume that they'd be much safer then your typical bar ****.
You just stumbled apon a window to their past.... they can not hide it, they can not argue it.... what it is, is. For me to answer with anymore detail, I'll need to be in that situation to properly determine what my course of action would be.
• How many movies did they do?
• How many people were they doing at once?
• Did they have any gay encounters during a filming?
• What kind of sexual acts were in the film?
Not only do these and many other questions change the overall view of the situation for everybody put in this type of scenario, but it would change the overall relationship, as you would probably start comparing the things they did while in porn and what you both are doing now....
