Imperturbability Found
Posts: 1,540 
Location: Underground Parking Level Four
Location: Underground Parking Level Four
June 13th, 2008, 12:26 PM
You went out with someone who took pictures of you in the nude
...some of which are quite graphic...and now he is threatening to send them to your fiance and future in-laws if you don't sleep with him.
IMO: Sleep with him chancy as it may be.
You went out with someone who took pictures of you in the nude
...some of which are quite graphic...and now he is threatening to send them to your fiance and future in-laws if you don't sleep with him.
IMO: Sleep with him chancy as it may be.
sick and twisted
Posts: 2,362 
Location: Backwater, Ontario.
Location: Backwater, Ontario.
June 13th, 2008, 12:36 PM
Why that BRUTE!! That MONSTER!!
After what we've meant to each other:
All the snow, toe, blow, show, mow, jobs I done fer that man,
WELL!!! I NEVER!!........woops.......guess I did!!
Guess I'll have my cuzzins
go and have a "talk" with that piece of dirt!!!!
He won't be doin a whole lot anytime soon.
The prick~!!!
can you imagine the nerve!!!
Why that BRUTE!! That MONSTER!!After what we've meant to each other:
All the snow, toe, blow, show, mow, jobs I done fer that man,
WELL!!! I NEVER!!........woops.......guess I did!!
Guess I'll have my cuzzins
go and have a "talk" with that piece of dirt!!!!He won't be doin a whole lot anytime soon.
The prick~!!!
can you imagine the nerve!!! 
The Angry Beaver
Posts: 3,660
Location: Atlantic Canada
Location: Atlantic Canada
June 13th, 2008, 12:55 PM
Another gender specific situation....
*THREAD QUESTION PRAXIFIED BY PRAXIUS*
You went out with someone who took pictures of you in the nude... some of which are quite graphic...and now he/she is threatening to send them to your fiance and future in-laws if you don't sleep with him/her.
Sounds like blackmailed-rape to me (I just made that up in my head, dunno if there's such a thing or not)
But either way, it's blackmail in my books and chances are based on the threat alone, their lives would be made an even worse hell then they could even fathom doing to my own with silly pictures.
And besides that, what I did in my past, ever, I am not ashamed of. They can send them to whoever they think they could.... my future wife, or her family..... it won't change the way I am living or who I am now, and if they can't deal with my past, then that's their problem and they can make their own decisions on that.... and if it ends everything, then it wasn't meant to be anyways, so there's still no loss on my part.
If anything, chances are they'll only get everybody pissed at them for even trying to get childish and interfere with our lives, and they'll have more problems to deal with then they originally thought.
And not only all that, but if I did decide to have sex with them to shut them up about some photos taken of me, then that would open up an even worse situation, as then I would have cheated on my fiance/girlfriend during the relationship in order to hide my past, and if they we're willing to blackmail me with old photos of something I did years ago, what's stopping them from doing the same thing in regards to telling them all that we had sex?
Nothing.... therefore the one blackmailing me wouldn't get anything they wanted.... and regardless, I wouldn't let someone trying to interfere in my life get away with doing something like that..... as I said, I would make their life a worse hell then they could ever fathom.
Another gender specific situation....
*THREAD QUESTION PRAXIFIED BY PRAXIUS*
You went out with someone who took pictures of you in the nude... some of which are quite graphic...and now he/she is threatening to send them to your fiance and future in-laws if you don't sleep with him/her.
Sounds like blackmailed-rape to me (I just made that up in my head, dunno if there's such a thing or not)
But either way, it's blackmail in my books and chances are based on the threat alone, their lives would be made an even worse hell then they could even fathom doing to my own with silly pictures.
And besides that, what I did in my past, ever, I am not ashamed of. They can send them to whoever they think they could.... my future wife, or her family..... it won't change the way I am living or who I am now, and if they can't deal with my past, then that's their problem and they can make their own decisions on that.... and if it ends everything, then it wasn't meant to be anyways, so there's still no loss on my part.
If anything, chances are they'll only get everybody pissed at them for even trying to get childish and interfere with our lives, and they'll have more problems to deal with then they originally thought.
And not only all that, but if I did decide to have sex with them to shut them up about some photos taken of me, then that would open up an even worse situation, as then I would have cheated on my fiance/girlfriend during the relationship in order to hide my past, and if they we're willing to blackmail me with old photos of something I did years ago, what's stopping them from doing the same thing in regards to telling them all that we had sex?
Nothing.... therefore the one blackmailing me wouldn't get anything they wanted.... and regardless, I wouldn't let someone trying to interfere in my life get away with doing something like that..... as I said, I would make their life a worse hell then they could ever fathom.
NHL Hockey Insider
Posts: 3,278
Location: Vancouver Island
Location: Vancouver Island
June 13th, 2008, 01:27 PM
Quoting karrie
I'm with you Karrie, would have written exact same post.
I'd walk to the nearest police station with my fiance (he's not worth a marriage if he can't suck it up and deal) and explain that I was being blackmailed for sex, see what the officers thought of the legalities of such a situation.
