Quote: Originally Posted by karrie
I find it kind of funny that you were ticked at us that we would speculate about a news article, but, here you are speculating about how best to break a family up and move children across the world from their father, how much better off they'd be, etc.
I get that you're ticked at him for letting you down, but wow.
Just stating my opinion, after the 'facts', that was my issue before,now facts are on the table.I was criticizing all the statements based on gossip and speculation,most of that is gone now.How many times would you think your husband could sleep around beforeyou could think of getting out of the mess.Once, ten times, 50 times, 500 times, I think it does make a bigdifference, once can just be a stupid mistake, and sure it can befixed, after that it has to be well thought over. The 'settling' that she would do, by staying, would be just that, settling, and the bottom line isn't always making sure the familystays together, what is best for her, she only knows, but just tryand put yourself in her place for a second, sitting in the kitchenthinking how many times your husband had sex with another woman,staying is not always the right thing to do.I'm just hoping for her to have a new beginning without all of thecrap that has happened.Of course I don't know what goes on between them, just imagining ifit happened to me, what I would do.My opinion is just that my opinion, just like yours, i'm not tickedas you put it, with anyone, just saying what I need to say, and withoutmy opinion, there would be too much 'jokes' about this matter, andmoney being the big thing, etc., it is just life, and misery raisingit's ugly head.
Interesting that you find it 'kind of funny'.