The problem has absolutely nothing to do with celibacy. It has everything to do with homosexuality in the priesthood. There are self protecting homosexual cliques, and seminaries with a pervasive homo erotic culture that have developed, especially in the more tolerant post Vatican 2 environment.. from which the abuse scandals have originated.
Those in the priesthood with a normal, mature, heterosexual orientation have caused almost none of the problems, and those are the ones who would marry (real marriage between a man a woman) if given the option.
It is those who are seeking a shelter for deviant sexual appetites disguised in religious cloth, and opportunities for predation on vulnerable young boys that have to be eliminated.
Allowing marriage or women's oridination would not address the issue, and neither of those are up for discusssion in the Church. They are fundamental to the character of Catholicism. Eliminating homosexual candidates from consideration from religious vocations is the only way to address the problem.
That is official Vatican policy, but there is a vicious homosexual subculture in the Church that seeks to sabatoge that at every turn, and recruit new members.. it all has the imprint of the Devil. :x