Hmmm, many years ago I was very much against abortion... I changed my tune when I was involved with helping a desperate 15 year old teen go through such a thing...
She was a lovely girl, couldn't face her parents, couldn't tell a soul ... Her family were highly religious and they would disown her if they ever knew...
It was a most unpleasant experience to share and quite the drama to actually get an abortion here in NZ... We went through 6 visits to various groups, counsellors, doctors, clinics etc before the deed was done, paper work like there was no tomorrow and the day came where I drove us to the city to do the deed. Was blardy awful...
We were met by protesters who hammered my car, the clinic waiting room was chocka full! Mostly males actually, partners, Dads, brothers, all support people. More paper work to fill in. Upstairs there were just cubicle rooms side by side, was just dreadful.. My heart sunk numerous times wondering if I was wrongly being involved in the thing! I had to help her, it was her choice, yet against what I believed in...
That was years ago now and to this day I still shudder when I think of what it actually takes to go through an abortion. Not an easy decision to make for any woman, but a decision she must make of her own free will.
Very sad ... I'm on the fence because of the above... Neither for nor against...