8 Year old Yemeni Girl Granted Divorce

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A Yemeni court on Tuesday granted a divorce to an eight-year-old girl whose unemployed father forced her into an arranged marriage this year, saying he feared she might be kidnapped. "I am happy that I am divorced now. I will be able to go back to school," Nojud Mohammed Ali said, after a public hearing in Sanaa's court of first instance.
Her former husband, 28-year-old Faez Ali Thameur, said he married the child "with her consent and that of her parents" but that he did not object to her divorce petition.
In response to a question from Judge Mohammed al-Qadhi, he acknowledged that the "marriage was consummated, but I did not beat her."
Yemen, one of the world's poorest countries, has no law governing the minimum age of marriage.
Nojud was a second grader in primary school when the marriage took place two and a half months ago.
"They asked me to sign the marriage contract and remain in my father's house until I was 18. But a week after signing, my father and my mother forced me to go live with him."
Nojud's father, Mohammad Ali Al-Ahdal, said he had felt obliged to marry off his daughter, an act he claims she consented to.
He said he was frightened after his oldest daughter had been kidnapped several years ago and later married to her abductor. He said the same man then kidnapped another of his daughters who was already married and had four children, resulting in him being jailed.
Dressed in traditional black, Nojud said she would now go to live in the home of her maternal uncle and did not want to see her father.
The girl's lawyer, Shadha Nasser, said Nojud's case was not unique. "I believe there are thousands of similar cases," she said, adding that civil society groups are pressing parliament to set the minimum age for marriage at 18.
 

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In response to a question from Judge Mohammed al-Qadhi, he acknowledged that the "marriage was consummated, but I did not beat her."

That makes him a real hero......An eight year old? That is just sick.
 

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That makes him a real hero......An eight year old? That is just sick.

My daughter just turned 8. She is such a little kid. Sure, she thinks she's a teenager, but, she's a little kid.

And yeah, I thought that made him a real hero too. Didn't beat her. Wow. Considering all the other ways of threatening and coercing and terrorizing someone, not beating her doesn't exactly make me think warm and fuzzy thoughts. Creep. I hope this at least helps spark some pressure for laws regarding the age of consent and marriage and such.

At least they granted the divorce. The most heartbreaking for me was her statement 'I will be able to go back to school.'
 

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They granted the divorce, but I wonder on what grounds the divorce was granted. Common decency at least, but this sort of thing has happed before and apparently it was not against the law. I assume it was just an unopposed divorce petition.
 

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So sick. What's really sad is that it isn't even seen as that unusual in some places. Girls are used like currency.