Genius
Posts: 833 
April 28th, 2006, 03:08 AM
Wow, she must be pretty damn special. Are you sure she wants something with you though? Like I dont mean to sound harsh but just careful that you dont get hurt.
I had a *similar* situation last year. When I was living in Switzerland, I met a great Canadian guy and we hit it off, became great mates but he had a girlfriend at the time, so nothing ever happened. Then I started seeing one of his best mates and all of a sudden, he dumps his girlfriend. But I was happy with my guy so it didnt bother me. So I came back to Australia, he went back to Canada and we're still good friends now but in the last 6 months or so, hes been REALLY flirty when we chat online and on the phone as well. Anyway, I got it in my head that he likes me and I still like him so I decided to go to Canada at the end of this year and visit him! That's not the reason I'm going by the way, just an added bonus. But now, hes got a new girlfriend and they're pretty loved up from what I gather, he's told me ALL about her and I really dont care cos I want him!
I really hope he's not a member of this forum haha. Well if you are, then NOT fair to play hot and cold on me like that!
Wow, that was very boring and long-winded. Anyway, my point is that you gotta be careful Jers that it's something you both want before you put your life on hold for her.
Having said that, I'm rooting for ya dude!
Wow, she must be pretty damn special. Are you sure she wants something with you though? Like I dont mean to sound harsh but just careful that you dont get hurt.
I had a *similar* situation last year. When I was living in Switzerland, I met a great Canadian guy and we hit it off, became great mates but he had a girlfriend at the time, so nothing ever happened. Then I started seeing one of his best mates and all of a sudden, he dumps his girlfriend. But I was happy with my guy so it didnt bother me. So I came back to Australia, he went back to Canada and we're still good friends now but in the last 6 months or so, hes been REALLY flirty when we chat online and on the phone as well. Anyway, I got it in my head that he likes me and I still like him so I decided to go to Canada at the end of this year and visit him! That's not the reason I'm going by the way, just an added bonus. But now, hes got a new girlfriend and they're pretty loved up from what I gather, he's told me ALL about her and I really dont care cos I want him!
I really hope he's not a member of this forum haha. Well if you are, then NOT fair to play hot and cold on me like that!
Wow, that was very boring and long-winded. Anyway, my point is that you gotta be careful Jers that it's something you both want before you put your life on hold for her.
Having said that, I'm rooting for ya dude!
Bright Spark
Posts: 383
April 28th, 2006, 05:13 PM
Ya, i think the same thing to Jersay. Your feelings for her are so sweet. I would hate to see her squash your poor heart.
When you guys talk, does she say anything about what she feels for you? Do you have any kind of sense of where she coming from with you? Or are you more of a ego stroke for her? Be careful with this because there are alot of people out there who enjoy having admirers.
Ya, i think the same thing to Jersay. Your feelings for her are so sweet. I would hate to see her squash your poor heart.
When you guys talk, does she say anything about what she feels for you? Do you have any kind of sense of where she coming from with you? Or are you more of a ego stroke for her? Be careful with this because there are alot of people out there who enjoy having admirers.
