Ok.
so I have this issue that I would like to discuss,
so as you all know, I have a "friend" that we hang out with and stuff.. don't need to get into that history all over again..
for the 2nd time now I have had this issue come up that has really ticked me off when a trip is coming up very soon and she is coming with me.
this guy who has been involved with her in a very odd way.. off and on, mostly off. has decided that now that he's single he's going to talk to her again.. this is not it.
back in August, the two of us went camping north of Edmonton for a weekend..
a few days before we went this guy calls her up and asks her "so do you want to go to the football game on Friday?" course she has to decline saying "sorry, i'm going camping" I didn't think much of it then, I was thinking "haha sucker, you lose"
ok so now, almost 2 months later 3 days before our trip to a wedding for a weekend, AGAIN he calls and says "want to come with me to Moncton for the weekend to see the Eskimos Game?" and she had to decline again!
she both times tells me and you can see in her attitude that she's upset because typical, the times she's going somewhere, he contacts her and asks her to do these things.
I'm pissed off because Both times now that I've planned in advance to do these events with her and all is done and ready to go, this guy rears his face in and plants a very irresistable offer to her and she has to turn him down!!
now I know she would have loved to go to Moncton and see this game.. and I'm pissed off because now I am beginning to feel like I'm preventing her from doing this!
Even though this has been planned for some time now! I'm mad because unintentionally he's tried to show me up twice and I start to worry that she is going to resent making the plans with me.. when she could be off with this "guy"
I feel that it's going to possibly become a distraction and I'll be the one who suffers.
like what the hell??
so I have this issue that I would like to discuss,
so as you all know, I have a "friend" that we hang out with and stuff.. don't need to get into that history all over again..
for the 2nd time now I have had this issue come up that has really ticked me off when a trip is coming up very soon and she is coming with me.
this guy who has been involved with her in a very odd way.. off and on, mostly off. has decided that now that he's single he's going to talk to her again.. this is not it.
back in August, the two of us went camping north of Edmonton for a weekend..
a few days before we went this guy calls her up and asks her "so do you want to go to the football game on Friday?" course she has to decline saying "sorry, i'm going camping" I didn't think much of it then, I was thinking "haha sucker, you lose"
ok so now, almost 2 months later 3 days before our trip to a wedding for a weekend, AGAIN he calls and says "want to come with me to Moncton for the weekend to see the Eskimos Game?" and she had to decline again!
she both times tells me and you can see in her attitude that she's upset because typical, the times she's going somewhere, he contacts her and asks her to do these things.
I'm pissed off because Both times now that I've planned in advance to do these events with her and all is done and ready to go, this guy rears his face in and plants a very irresistable offer to her and she has to turn him down!!
now I know she would have loved to go to Moncton and see this game.. and I'm pissed off because now I am beginning to feel like I'm preventing her from doing this!
Even though this has been planned for some time now! I'm mad because unintentionally he's tried to show me up twice and I start to worry that she is going to resent making the plans with me.. when she could be off with this "guy"
I feel that it's going to possibly become a distraction and I'll be the one who suffers.
like what the hell??