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Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

kiwi_NZ

#1Jun 10th, 2009

Are you the parent/s of homosexual or lesbian children? How do you feel about having gay children, does it effect your daily life? Could a parent be to blame or are our children born to it.

What are your thoughts? Are your children victimised, are you as the parent victimised?

I personally don't have gay or lesbian children but if I did it wouldn't bother me as much as it would bother their father or society in general. Why is this? Should we not be more concerned about their happiness rather than their sexual preference?

Would love other members thoughts on such a delicate topic as it can be sometimes

Cliffy

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Mothers and fathers have different sets of expectations of their children. Mothers are more inclined to want their children to be happy, men want their children to more successful than they were. (generalizations, I know, but what can you do is a small space?)

L Gilbert

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

I'm straight, wifey is bi. One straight kid (oldest) and one that experiments. I'm happy if the wifey and kids are.

Mum-in-law is the cranky one. She's a dear but she's Irish Catholic. Dad-in-law is cool. My Mum is either ignorant about everything or won't say anything. Not going to push it. Sis-in-law was gay, tried bi, had kid (Nathan is straight), went back to gay.

DurkaDurka

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

I have 6 lesbian daughters, they all went on to star in internet pornography.

L Gilbert

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

lol No pics? Not a very proud dad, are you?

karrie

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

My kids are growing, so, I can't make assumptions about their sexuality. But,the human psyche is rarely so simple as to be able to pinpoint one isolated 'cause' for something as deeply seated as sexuality.

kiwi_NZ

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by DurkaDurka

I have 6 lesbian daughters, they all went on to star in internet pornography.

Which caused them to bring home >>

L Gilbert

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Definitely not. IMO, sexuality is both a result of genetics and environment.

L Gilbert

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by kiwi_NZ

Which caused them to bring home >> <<

lmao

kiwi_NZ

#10

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by L Gilbert

lol No pics? Not a very proud dad, are you?

LMAO! Is durka a Dad?

johnnyhangover

#11

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by kiwi_NZ

Are you the parent/s of homosexual or lesbian children?

Dunno. my son is only 3 yet. my bro-in-law/best man is a homo.

kiwi_NZ

#12

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by L Gilbert

I'm straight, wifey is bi. One straight kid (oldest) and one that experiments. I'm happy if the wifey and kids are. Mum-in-law is the cranky one. She's a dear but she's Irish Catholic. Dad-in-law is cool. My Mum is either ignorant about everything or won't say anything. Not going to push it. Sis-in-law was gay, tried bi, had kid (Nathan is straight), went back to gay.

You sh*tting me?

kiwi_NZ

#13

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

I wonder on average how many "Bi" people there are but never experiment or test the waters...

kiwi_NZ

#14

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by johnnyhangover

Dunno. my son is only 3 yet. my bro-in-law/best man is a homo.

Hiya johnny, how do you get on with the gay guy? Do you treat him like any other bloke or watch your butt just in case ?

kiwi_NZ

#15

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by L Gilbert

Definitely not. IMO, sexuality is both a result of genetics and environment.

Environment? As in society Les? I agree to a certain extent... So you as a Dad are fairly liberal and have no problem with it ? No shame? No guilt?

YukonJack

#16

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Mine aren't.

But if yours are, it takes one to know one.

L Gilbert

#17

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by kiwi_NZ

LMAO! Is durka a Dad?

I don't think so. He does like to keep us entertained, though. lol

L Gilbert

#18

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by kiwi_NZ

You sh*tting me?

Actually, no. Life is interesting here. lol

L Gilbert

#19

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by kiwi_NZ

I wonder on average how many "Bi" people there are but never experiment or test the waters...

Good question.

L Gilbert

#20

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by kiwi_NZ

Environment? As in society Les? I agree to a certain extent... So you as a Dad are fairly liberal and have no problem with it ? No shame? No guilt?

Environment, as in choice, conditioning, culture, etc.
We have a couple of very good girls who have made us proud of them. No shame. No guilt because to us homosexuality is natural. It's none of anyone else's business anyway what people are like in private, if it came to the crux of the matter. Dad-in-law is cool about the whole thing because, as a full-blooded native, anything that happens in nature is natural and nothing can change that so there's no point in getting uptight. lol I think he has a point there.

Last edited by L Gilbert; Jun 10th, 2009 at 10:37 PM..

johnnyhangover

#21

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by kiwi_NZ

Hiya johnny, how do you get on with the gay guy? Do you treat him like any other bloke or watch your butt just in case ?

well, we were friends before i started dating his sister, and i never felt like he was attracted to me. he's not a stereotypical gay man, so i never thought much about his sexuality. mind you we used to talk about who we wanted to shag, and what not (before dating his sister!). i'm not worried about being sexually assaulted by women, so why would i be worried about guys? it's not like being gay makes you more likely to act like a jerk.

karrie

#22

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by YukonJack

Mine aren't.

But if yours are, it takes one to know one.

Oh yeah? Well I'm rubber... you're glue...

YukonJack

#23

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

"Oh yeah? Well I'm rubber... you're glue...

"

Whatever the Hell that means.

Machjo

#24

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

I myself sit somewhere between hetero- and a-:
--

I can feel sexually attracted to a person of the opposite sex if I truly love her, otherwise I feel little sexual attraction for anyone.

karrie

#25

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by YukonJack

"Oh yeah? Well I'm rubber... you're glue... "

Whatever the Hell that means.

Oh, I thought we were having a grade three smack talk fest.

"Takes one to know one!"

"I'm rubber, you're glue, bounces of me and sticks to you!"

"I'm telling!!!!"

"My dad could totally beat your dad up!"

"Ew, Timmy's picking his nose again!!!!"

L Gilbert

#26

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by YukonJack

Mine aren't.

But if yours are, it takes one to know one.

?? Your comment is clear as mud. Only gay parents can know gay parents?

karrie

#27

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by L Gilbert

?? Your comment is clear as mud. Only gay parents can know gay parents?

No, I think it's that, if your child comes out to you as gay, it means YOU'RE gay too Gilbert. In other words, you're totally bi right now and don't even know it. Cool.

L Gilbert

#28

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by johnnyhangover

........... it's not like being gay makes you more likely to act like a jerk.

That's for sure.

johnnyhangover

#29

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by Machjo

I can feel sexually attracted to a person of the opposite sex if I truly love her, otherwise I feel little sexual attraction for anyone.

that's some of the weirdest sh!t i ever heard, no offense.

so hot chicks don't work for ya, unless you're in love? i can understand not having sex if you're not in love, but not even being attracted? that's a first.

L Gilbert

#30

Re: Are your children homosexual or lesbian?

Jun 10th, 2009

Quote: Originally Posted by Machjo

I myself sit somewhere between hetero- and a-:
--

I can feel sexually attracted to a person of the opposite sex if I truly love her, otherwise I feel little sexual attraction for anyone.

Here, please lie down on this table. It won't hurt a bit. *Picks up scalpel* We just wanna know what makes you tick.

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