Re: Want to crack wife`s aol and yahoo passwordSep 24th, 2008
And no... violating her privacy is in NO way shape or form going to rebuild trust.
Rebuilding trust would start with sitting her down and explaining that you're scared she's cheating on you, and that if you can be thinking that way, it's symptomatic of a grave problem in the marriage which should be addressed through counseling or some form of intervention.
And if trust can't be achieved, leaving is a last resort, but a resort nonetheless.
Keyloggers and other such tactics just drive more wedges into an already weakened marriage. They don't help it. They rip it apart. Nail in the coffin analogy would work here.
I knew a couple one time where the wife liked to cheat. The husband would find out about it, put the guy in the hospital, and their marriage was great for about a year after, then the whole thing would start over. Very entertaining to watch.
My point is that the world takes all kinds and it's different strokes for different folks.
Sometimes you have to give adults the benefit of the doubt. You might run your marriage well but you wouldn't run them all so well.