LinkI know a joke, and it seems relevant, so here goes. A mother and son are at the beach. The boy gets into trouble in the surf, then mom goes ballistic, yelling, waving her arms. A lifeguard rescues her son and delivers him to mom. "Here's you son, ma'am." But mom, being the kind of person this article is about, says, "You rescued my son, you couldn't rescue his cap?" When I first heard this joke, I though it was funny, but I also thought it wasn't about reality. I've changed my mind about that. In a story told more completely here, several years ago I was asked by parents to mentor a bright young man in a family situation that, in due time, turned out to be a prototypical victim training ground. At first glance, the task the parents asked me to perform seemed trivial — all I had to do was encourage a young man to respect and develop his substantial intellectual gifts. I thought that would be easy — unlike the parents I understood and shared his interests, I felt he deserved to hold his abilities and his future in higher regard than he did, and he was at an age when boys begin to apply their intellectual gifts to the world in a new way.
What an absolutely eye opening read.
This sentence summed it up succinctly...
In spite of my age, I learned something new that day — there are people so completely in the grip of fixed beliefs, so utterly dysfunctional, that they will do or say absolutely anything to avoid having to test reality using common sense.